who gets their daughter married when they have no money,?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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??????? I think being poor to middle class parents will always struggle to have the perfect wedding with limited money but most will save what they can. its difficult when both parents are alive and have to struggle but it's worse when u on your own especially if u female. so I really dnt know how that airhead shradha thought she could get meghna married when she is not in financial position to do so. she wanted the best at least be in he financial position to send your daughter's of grandly to them and show that they dnt lack anything.


I will admit that I episodes so not sure if shradha had money saved for both her daughter's and coz of her in laws demand she had to use the money she had saved for naine. so if I am wrong me bad but my gut says she never save properly hence she had to ask ppl to lend her money.

honestly I did not at all feel bad for her when she was being humiliated I felt bad for her girls.that a mother would be so blind sighted that to be seen as a good single mother she would get her daughter married straight out of college.wht was the need to get meghna married so soon, what sort of necessity made her agree to every demand that kunals dad made. where is her self respect in my eyes it's non existence. this how is so backward with the sort of self respect she promotes . that her self respect see!s like a tool to appease her ego or whatever nonsense her self respect tells her to.

this show makes single mothers look stupid.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Well, the money part - when Sharda agreed to the marriage, she thought her brother would support her. And Vishna was supporting her but because his wife made so much drama about it all, Sharda promised her Bhabi not to take any money from her brother for this wedding 🤔 Even then, she was confident that she could handle it - Dadu even agreed to give them one month to prepare for the marriage and do it as they pleased and with the means they can.

But NK pulled some tricks and suddenly, the marriage was being done within a week. And on top of that, NK made sure that Dadu would have to immediately leave for some work-related business (some protests in one fraction of their company) and Sandhya called the Sharda- the call was attended by Sharder's younger brother, Gopal, and he just said Yes to everything Sandhya asked (luxurious living preps etc...).

So, suddenly, she had nothing much, lol 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Meghna was supposed to marry a middle class boy..Whole family was there to support shardha at that time..but rishta broke up and grooms family challenged shardha that meghna wont get any gud proposal and marriage wont happen at all.The fear that meghna wont get a gud guy forced shardha to approach the marriage bearau...She decided to go to chauhans bcoz she heard alot about sujaan singh chauhan .When she met Nk she kind of understand the difference btw both the families and their status and position..When she was returning back home only she met dadaji and talks about marriage happened
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She got 1month time from dadji but nk ruined everything and wanted shaadi in 1week.Her brother agreed to all the demands of chauhans..Shardha didnt have any option other than to proceed with the marriage
Shardha had money in the form of land which her husband gave for the daughters future.but couldnot arrange the money within one week as no body gives loan so fast without seeing tje land..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I wonder why Shradha didn't tell her sisters in law that she would return the money given by her brothers and so treating it as a loan not a gift. I don't think they would have minded.

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