The hidden male and female in sona and dev

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sonakshi is always presented as bold and courageous girl where as dev is shown as weak and coward.
The upbringing have made them.becoz sona had very much impact of her dad and the house was.ruled by male so the virtuea of courage and a rational and logical approach was always shown in Boses. The Boses are inspired by rabindra nath, swamk Vivekanand so the thought process evolves like them and the virtues automatically establish the harder and masculine virtues of life.They always tend to rectify the person if they find any flaws and mistake. They r unacceptable to the ones who r wrong and bad. Forgiving someone is not a easy task for them. Becoz they always support truthfulness.

Where as dev had only one inspiration his mom who was tyag ki Devi for him. She inspired him to be soft and compassionate.
He followed her path only. He became mother to all like a mother who is caring and over protective and accept the loved ones with their flaws. Like a mother accepts her child.Mothers are flexible in her approach she leave all the logics and virtues when it comes to her child. Same in case of Dev he forgot all virtues of truth telling and courage if it comes to his loved ones.
Life is mixture of both male and female emotions
Like courage, will power, self respect confidence,firmness and dispassion male characterstics

Where as kindness, love, compassion, care and flexibility type female characteristics.
Imbalance in both lead to conflict.
Same occurred between two, this is not a conflict of two lovers it is an eternal fight of malw and female energies in the world.

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WeRockTheWorld thumbnail
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Posted: 8 years ago
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WOW ...beautiful analysis...loved it... 👏 ⭐️

This is why I like this forum...people think differently and logically ...and we get to see the same serial with a different perspective.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Interesting Post

Bose's up bringing was versatile and gave their kids lots of foundations with strong believes while for Dev he was not even allowed to have friends or have a social bond with his sisters his only relationship he knew was his mother so all her weakness obviously was passed on to him
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jade0001

Interesting Post

Bose's up bringing was versatile and gave their kids lots of foundations with strong believes while for Dev he was not even allowed to have friends or have a social bond with his sisters his only relationship he knew was his mother so all her weakness obviously was passed on to him

See being compassionate and love others is not weakness but it should be accompanied by wisdom. U can't be compassionate towards a criminal u have to be harsh towards him. Otherwise ppl take advantage out of u.
This is the case with sona too her becoz above logic she can't see the pure love. U cannot be rational every time it makes u egoistic and stiff.
Wisdom filled with love is the best combination.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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WOW!
What beautiful Analysis Sargesh!👏

Amazing!

That is actually a very valid explanation.

Who influences a child more, plays a very important role in the development and shaping of their personality.

I totally agree with your viewpoint!😃

Good Job!👏
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Topic n title amazing👏
Bose part also correct... and i loved it...

But i beg to differ / disagree in Dev... i would like to apologise.. if u feel hurt by my comment below...

Compassion was only to strangers.. who would not affect them..
to those who will do anything to their image of God and ruler... it was fatal...
and that's one of the major reasons of Dev's fall..
I call them orthodox and hypocrites...

A family cannot be run in facade.. and lie... and they love to live in dwell in the lie.. that everything was/is perfect until Sona came..

Nothing was right before also.. nothing happened right after her entry also...

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Posted: 8 years ago
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A very different and beautiful post sargesh... Nice one...
Totally loved ur analysis
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wow loved ur analysis dear...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sajinifaby

Topic n title amazing👏

Bose part also correct... and i loved it...

But i beg to differ / disagree in Dev... i would like to apologise.. if u feel hurt by my comment below...

Compassion was only to strangers.. who would not affect them..
to those who will do anything to their image of God and ruler... it was fatal...
and that's one of the major reasons of Dev's fall..
I call them orthodox and hypocrites...

A family cannot be run in facade.. and lie... and they love to live in dwell in the lie.. that everything was/is perfect until Sona came..

Nothing was right before also.. nothing happened right after her entry also...

That's again influence of female energies a mother becomes furious when it comes to her child same thing happened with dev. Ppl take the example of yudhishthira in MB that he also said lie but can u see he became hmtruth mouth in his whole life and he said only one lie that is also half lie. Nd the ppl qho say lies upon lies and say lies are said with good intentions.
If u dare this the n be ready for consequences tooo. Dev always ran from truth that is not a good thing.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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interesting and brilliant post dear 👏👏👏

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