Vividha is CLEAR, YOU refuse to see it

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Posted: 9 years ago
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You ask why doesn't she just walk out with Atharv.

I say you will call her a selfish b*tch if she did. Imagine her walking out with Atharv right there and then, WHAT names would you call her? Shameless, cheap, disgusting isn't enough for you so what other names can you think for her? Rattle your brain!

If she didn't shed a few tears whilst the sindoor and mangalsutra came off, you would say 'look at the woman, does she even have an ounce of guilt for what she's done to Ravish?'. She stands their emotionless, all proud of her boyfriend.

She calls herself Vividha Atharv Sujata. She says Vividha & Atharv names will always be taken together. She embraced him in front of her husband and mother-in-law, you called her names then too. If she didn't hug him, you would ask why is she not hugging him? She loves him so why is she concerned about Ravish. Either way you will doubt her, b*tch her and demean her.

She brings up the topic of divorce first, she nods her head in agreement when ravish mentions it. She tells Uma that it's best for the divorce to happen, Ravish deserves someone who loves him. She says it CLEARLY but of course she is heartless.

So in your eyes:

If she expresses her love for atharv she is shameless
If she shows the slightest hesitation then she wants to stay with Ravish and is playing both of them.

She will never be right in your eyes. Her respect for Ravish and love for Atharv is beyond your understanding because what she says and does is blocked by your ears. Whatever she does is wrong! If she doesn't show concern, if she does. She won't win with you.

But she will walk away with Atharv because it's what she wants.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post👏Unfortunately its waste here...All thanks to Atharv Sujata he shared his girl's taunts today...i c him sharing that selfish rude arrogant tag of his girl today...
This Jodi is Made In Heaven😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ViTharvforever

Nice post👏Unfortunately its waste here...All thanks to Atharv Sujata he shared his girl's taunts today...i c him sharing that selfish rude arrogant tag of his girl today...

This Jodi is Made In Heaven😳



Yes they actually have layers! Isn't that why it makes their love story so intense? They deserve each other because neither of them are saints!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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When you wear a blindfold, you'll only see darkness right? Well in this forum, some wear a certain type of blindfold that allows them to see what they want to see!


Vividha said lekin, but despite that Atharv knew what she meant...thats why he went to pack her things...duh! Despite his anger, he saw straight through her, but can you expect such intelligence here? Answer is NO!


Beautiful post Reema :)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _innocent_

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">When you wear a blindfold, you'll only see darkness right? Well in this forum, some wear a certain type of blindfold that allows them to see what they want to see!</font>



<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Vividha said lekin, but despite that Atharv knew what she meant...thats why he went to pack her things...duh! Despite his anger, he saw straight through her, but can you expect such intelligence here? Answer is NO!</font>


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Beautiful post Reema :)</font>



Because they aren't seeing what they want to see, they pick at every nook & cranny...find something they could either hold on to and if they can't then they bash her!

Of course he sees right through her, even in that anger.

Isn't it funny just because she's married, people just block out what she keeps saying and doing. Do you want her to express guilt or not?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Reemz brilliant post 👏
Vividha is going to be my all time favourite FL. She choose to live life according to her ways not others. She already clarifies that she loves Atharav only & don't want to live in this forced marriage. And yesterday she give closure to her relationship with Ravish & feels apologised for not keeping her vows but promised to remain friends forever.

If loving someone & giving priority to things which gives you happiness seems selfish so go damn.

Ravish is nice but he never gets love from Vividha.

Kuch to log kahege ,logo ka kaam hai kehna.😃








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Posted: 9 years ago
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Vividha just can't win. Anything that she does will be criticised. Depicts our unrealistic expectations of women so well.

We're expected to keep everyone happy. She was forced into a marriage and loves someone else- of course someone will get hurt! That is life, we all get hurt. Its not Vividha's fault.

I really think people need to learn how to suck it up and accept that not everything is a bunch of roses. But we can at least aim for the next closest bunch of flowers na?! It is called making the best of a bad situation, thats all she is trying to do!

We really ought not to be so judgemental... you never know what may come your way.

Great points raised hun!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dude, you're talking to a crowd who thinks Atharv's women empowerment ideals are fake and hypocritical just because he shouted at Vivi and Suji today😛.. So you can imagine how much selective understanding persists..
Khair, forget about empowerment and stuff..
Have you ever seen a show in which the lover is confronting the FL about her "secret" husband? And she sadly confirms her married status like it's a shameful secret??!

Usually, aren't these scenes reserved for the righteous husbands? Lekin yahaan, how confidently and proudly Vivi spoke about her relationship with Atharv to her legal pati. Not an ounce of shame in declaring her love.

Whereas the mere mention of her marriage makes her wince with pain and fills her with regret.

Now tell me, what more clarity is required regarding her state of mind.

Is she going to pick the man she proudly flaunts to one and all or the one who makes her feel shackled in chains.

Unless the audience are masochists, I think the answer should be obvious to them.

Abh isse zyada clearly, I cannot spell out things. 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: harmanjot

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Reemz brilliant post👏</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Vividha is going to be my all time favourite FL. She choose to live life according to her ways not others. She already clarifies that she loves Atharav only & don't want to live in this forced marriage. And yesterday she give closure to her relationship with Ravish & feels apologised for not keeping her vows but promised to remain friends forever.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">If loving someone & giving priority to things which gives you happiness seems selfish so go damn.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Ravish is nice but he never gets love from Vividha.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Kuch to log kahege ,logo ka kaam hai kehna.😃</font>










It's just so pathetic that when she's clear, people are too busy accusing her but any hint of guilt - people jump to ask 'oh why is she hesitating?'. Decide whether you want her to care or not!

Of course she wants to leave with Atharv, she's already tried twice before but got stopped by other factors not because she wanted to stay. Now if she just went whilst Atharv is in full anger, the same people would ask how she can leave the house without informing anyone or clarifying to Ravish!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Alishah-

Vividha just can't win. Anything that she does will be criticised. Depicts our unrealistic expectations of women so well.

We're expected to keep everyone happy. She was forced into a marriage and loves someone else- of course someone will get hurt! That is life, we all get hurt. Its not Vividha's fault.

I really think people need to learn how to suck it up and accept that not everything is a bunch of roses. But we can at least aim for the next closest bunch of flowers na?! It is called making the best of a bad situation, thats all she is trying to do!

We really ought not to be so judgemental... you never know what may come your way.

Great points raised hun!




They talk as if no woman or man has left their spouse! Like get a reality grip!!! People divorce because their spouse SNORES TOO MUCH!! Now what would you say to that? 🤣 Here toh Vividha has a legit reason!

FGS Vividha is constantly feeling the guilt of hurting an innocent man and his mother. After 3 months she is respectfully clarifying that a separation is necessary because continuing this relationship will harm 3 lives in the future so why not cut the root now before it infects the entire dynamic?

Her clarity is shameful, her guilt is questioned too. She can't win!

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