Originally posted by: geet.a
Thank you Asya!
Aw hugs! But i think the pain will be bittersweet too, no? 😳
I dunno why but just hurts to see Anni in pain and crying 😭
The poor girl has only her little sher to talk to because she is in love with the big sher.
Yes it will be bittersweet but I hope they do not prolong the Tia thing too much. Prolong the redemption instead - I am all game for that.👍🏼
I do so badly want her to fight the feeling, avoid him, ignore him and keep her distance from him emotionally as much as she can and have minimum involvement in his affairs.
I want her to think of how wrong her is for her, how he can break her heart, how he considers NKK more important than her, how he has conveniently forgotten the circumstances under which they married, how he expects her unquestioning loyalty while her feelings are not yet his top priority, how he says what he feels like when he is upset and expects her to forgive him because it was said in anger - ALWAYS... and so much more
As for Shivvay -
I want him to puzzle over what has gotten into her, what is bothering her, get over protective about her vulnerable state (like he did when Pinky accused her), hold her back when she or someone else wants her to leave the house (which he did not do post signing Divorce Papers but will do it soon), make his day and night revolve around her and go crazy that she is not around him all the time, I want her to disappear (in a good way please - no more Daksh or Hangman's game) because he has to chose between her and Pinky so that he realizes her value.
Shivvay Dynamics - Second Stage
I have already seen the shift in dynamics between ShivIka for the second time in a span of 2 weeks and I hope it is not just my imagination. I know I am in the minority but Annika falling in love is really a good thing not bad thing for her.
Think how Annika was prior to her realization of love -
She sought him out and followed him relentlessly everywhere, meddling in all his affairs to a point where the viewers and Shivvay found it suffocating at times. He would turn and there she was - solution in hand and weapon sharpened and ready to march head on into his battles.
I read all the bashing over the past few weeks of Annika being a doormat, no self-respect etc etc and smiled but never responded because I knew what was happening.
Annika was becoming a habit Shivvay's was very fast acquiring (holding her hand and taking her with him when Tia was attempting suicide), his need (telling his mother that only she stood by him), his confidant and his partner who always has his back, his very own stuffed toy and blanket of comfort that makes him smile and relax even after 3 attempts on his life in a single morning.
He was being mollycoddled, spoilt and indulged by her unwavering affection and selfless love. He has now reached a point where he has to know where she is and what she is doing every minute of the day. He breathes, eats, sleeps, thinks and exists Annika. She has always been like the North Star in his life and home - Constant and Eternally Unchanging no matter what. This man has been lured into the lull of comfort that Annika and this equation will never change and hence is happy doing nothing about it for now. He does not seen any urgency about addressing his feelings or making decisions about this status between them because that is what Shivvay does best - STALLING AND DRAGGING HIS FEET WHERE COMMITMENT IS CONCERNED
When were he and Tia supposed to marry??? Anyone remember how many times he put that off??
The equation has changed:
I am glad that she now has her feelings to concentrate on and sort out so that it is Shivvay now doing the figuring out that an attempt was made on HER life not his. She was the intended target and they were mislead on purpose. She is busy trying to avoid him while he is seeking her out to make sure she stays out of trouble. She will be busy sorting out her feelings and what to do with them and he is going to focus on her safety and the attempts on her life. The meddling is going to be from Shivvay now, he is going to suffocate her with his constant presence, he is going to mollycoddle her till she screams that she needs her personal space, she is going to ask him to keep his distance while he gets closer. (I hope the cv's don't disappoint)
Now pull the rug from under this mans feet by making Annika walk away for whatever reason one may give, from this relationship that he himself does not accept. You are going to have a very grown up child suffering from 'Separation Anxiety' and going into a Panic Attack because he now has experienced the difference between 'living life' and 'merely existing'.
So yes, it is bittersweet but I still find it difficult to watch with out feeling sad 💔
Edited by asya34 - 9 years ago
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