Is Kajol the abla naari of bollywood?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Since last few days,I have been reading lot of strange comments of kjo fans on kajol.
Kajol made a mistake by marrying Ajay.

Kajol is tolerating Ajay only for the sake of her kids.

Kajol is a doormat because she supported her husband over her best friend.

Sometimes I feel like Kajol is a 19th century abla naari after reading these comments. It's as of she's a dumb,illiterate, weak,timid woman who has no identity of her own without her husband.

How can people assume that Ajay is controlling and dominating her when she supports him over others? Why do these people think it's wrong for a wife to support her husband only because they don't like ajay?Why shouldn't she support Ajay?

I know there have been rumors of ajay cheating on her but if that's the truth then why doesn't she divorce him?Kajol is not that woman whose life will become difficult after divorce so she can't divorce. She has money and fame.She can definitely take care of her kids.

So I don't find her an abla naari who tolerates her husband because she's helpless and weak.

I want to know the reasons why some members feel she's a bechari abla naari.😆

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Some people just cannot accept that Kjo is a backstabbing sissy(no homophobic reference) boy who cries foul whenever retaliated. So to justify him, people are like Kjo and Kajol don't have a good relationship because Kjo confronted Kajol about Ajay's infidelities, you know the good bahu in Hindi seriels who always shows her nanand that her husband is not a good man, but nanand does not believe Bhabhiji and supports her husband.Kjo what a great soul😔, misunderstood😭
Edited by Love_Katty_24-7 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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None of the bollywood wives are abla naaris in my opinion. They still put up with cheating husbands. I think it is mainly because they stop caring.
Kajol has said it many times that she and Ajay have similar values and the similar value is their kids. Her whole world revolves around those kids and divorce is hard on kids. Infidelity is not such a big issue in bollywood. Look at any successful Bollywood marriages and in almost every single case the man has cheated on his wife. Ajay is her partner in raising her kids. So yeah Ajay cheated, but she moved on.

As for Karan vs Ajay, it wasn't that she chose her husband. She openly trash talked and accused a lifelong friend. Who does that? Other than Kangu and Hrithik.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@TM - By any chance, are you KJo? .. I don't mean to be sarcastic but while I was reading whatever you wrote, it felt like it was said in a manner the way Karan speaks. I mean, no joke, I seriously could see him speaking those words. It's written exactly in the way he speaks .. the words, the sentence formation etc. Now I have my serious doubts, either you are Karan Johar or his ghost got into you while you were making that post.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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We don't know these people so we only have to go by what they show and what they say. Karan has always said if there is one thing he truly believes in it is that he is a very good friend. If we go by his track record then this man is known for his friendships. I think his life pretty much revolves around his friends so I can't believe that he would be the one to wrong a friend. He is sensitive, he is fussy. He gets hurt too quickly and maybe he expects a lot out of his friendships. But the man loves his friends. They are his family. I can't see him backstab a friend. I don't think anyone in Bollywood would testify to that.

I do think people would testify to the whining and the drama Kajol and Ajay do whenever their shitty releases have competition.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't know about abla naari but she does love her husband a lot apparently coz she loses her voice n reason when he seems to be in the wrong...love does that to people!
Edited by Pr1yanka - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She's happy in her bubble where Ajay is a perfect hubby. But in reality Ajay hardly respccts or even mentions Kajol or her work until recently when he needed publicity for Shivaay. Yes that's being a doormat unfortunately. Tanisha suffers from the same syndrome. These sisters like faux alpha males and don't mind if they're being treated like shit.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Whats the story tho ??
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She's not an ablaa naari because she's not a hapless victim, she only chooses to live with a cheating husband. As do most of Bollywood star wives, so I guess then they all become ablaa naaris as well?😆

I think it's her life, her choice. If she doesn't have a problem living with a cheating husband and treasures her family & children above all, then who are we to have an issue? You can call her a doormat in this case but not ablaa naari...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Karan felt bad for her tweet
Nothing to do with abla naari

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