My Question to SuSuMa ss

I am having this question in my mind for a very long time which is making me irritated to the core..

my sister once told me that atharv vivitha and ravish are nearly in the same situation as that of trio Maa s the famous SuSuMa [-sujatha suman and uma]

1.sujatha and atharv
in love with a person who is married to someone else
2.suman and ravish
fell in love with spouse who were in love with another person
3.uma and vividha
married someone else when their heart belongs to someone else initially


now let me ask my question
DO YOU WANT THE SAME FATE YOU HAD FOR YOUR CHILDREN TOO?
in other words do u want ur children to suffer like you simply for society?

Dear Sujatha,
Do u want atharv to live the same life as you?
Do u want him to see the love of his life in anothers arms forever?
Now that u consider Ravish as ur son too Do u want him to live a loveless marriage forever?
When u couldnt forget ramakant or move on [u still went to see him when he returned;u loved him even when he left u and ur son for another woman] How can u expect vividha to do that?
How can u expect vivitha to forget her soulmate when u couldnt?????

Dear Suman,
Do u want ur son to live the same life as u?
Do u want ur son to live a loveless marriage forever?
When u hav firsthand knowledge that ramakant never forget his love Do u want the same for Ravish?
Do u also want ur son to live with vividha a one sided love knowing that she ll never love him back?

Dear Uma,
Do u want ur girl to live a loveless marriage forever?
u very well know vividha will never look at ravish that way.
When you know that she ll always love atharv
Do u want that kind of marriage for ur daughter ?
Do u want ur girl to die everyday in that forced marriage simply for society?

You three know that if you answer that questions with an YES you will be destroying three lives .

If you want ravish and vividha to continue this marriage it is simply you are choosing the same life for ur children as u lived..

So for once in your life BE BRAVE ;THINK WELL AND ACT:DO NOT WORRY ABT SOCIETY OR OTHER NONSENSICAL STUFF
if by tying a mangalsutra alone they will be happy you are absolutely wrong..mangalsutra and rituals alone cannot build a happy home oly love can that too not one sided but equally from both sides and you hav more experience about this...

do share ur views abt this post frns...abt three maas not the leads...
p.s. jus thinking abt susuma s in yesterdays episode gets my brain into a overdrive..
p.p.s.I really hope someone anyone ask the question to them

This is the irony of the situation. All three mothers have sacrificed their happiness for the sake of society and their good for nothing husbands. They all know what it is like to be in a loveless marriage. They all even prayed that their children shouldn't suffer the same fate as them.

YET it is these 3 women only who are pushing their children to suffer the same fate as them. Why is Uma not standing up for Vividha and supporting her in this decision. Why does she want Vividha to give up on her love when she very well knows the pain of that.

Why does Suman want Ravish to lead a loveless marriage knowing very well how it feels to not be loved by your spouse. Why isn't she telling him to move on?

We're yet to see this but I get the inkling that Sujata will ask Atharv to sacrifice his love to repay R. But why? Does she not remember the pain she felt when all these years her love wasn't with her.

All 3 women are pathetic tbh!

I posted something similar on a different thread!!! But Amen to this