Our society needs mothers like sona

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona had done a bold step of telling everything to a 7 yr old. Which is usually prohibited in our society as far as I know in that age our family members keep us aside from family matters I also felt a little weird that sona told the bitter truth to a 7 yr old child but then I got that children also have brain nd sona knew that soha is super intelligent she can suspect something which is being hided from her. But sona u r such a proud mother i must say as ubyold ur bitter past which is pathbreaking.
One learning from this incident is now many misunderstandings are always between parents nd their children the thing we lack is communication that is lacking between both parents nd their children.

I know one game that was created by gurudev.
In a room both son nd father or mother daughter were made to stand. They were told to choose one corner in their mind nd try to get ur parents/children to that corner than there was huge tug of war kheechatani between parents nd children. Then gurudev stopped that game nd told that whether I told u to not to tell ur parents/ children abt ur chosen corner. U can talk with among urselves nd decide too nd u can also go to both the corners I haven't said that don't get ur child/ parents to the cgosen

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Posted: 8 years ago
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👏 Just watched the episode, it was so mature. After many many days I liked KRPKAB, may be because I gotta see my Sona back. May be because I gotta see this disoriented Dixit family which was in their destiny as a result of Karma.

The kid 🤗👏. Yes, 7-yr-old kid is small, but old enough to understand the struggle of the parents specially if single. I remember in KJo films, they choose this age to reveal about the parents' past (KKHH, K3G etc). Sona is doing exactly what Asha-Bijoy did to her, let her take decisions, let her find out herself, let her come back if fall. All Sona is ready to do is to stand behind her if Soha fails 🤗 Sona has become a wonderful combo of Bijoy-Asha 🤗 The whole Boses have become a heaven of a beautiful family . I got so much of mental peace just seeing their scenes.


More than maturely telling Soha about Dev now, I am happy she didn't let Dev know about her. Sona has provided the BEST of upbringing to her kid, Dev couldn't have done anything better in fact there was a chance with the influence of Mother like Ishwari who wants 'pota', they could have mentally harm the kid. Bestest decision by Sona, indeed a great mother with an extraordinary foresight !
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona is a very affectionate and caring mom who looked after her kid inspite of being a successful businesswoman.So, it takes a Great effort on her part to raise a daughter while being a working woman.

Since Suhana is just 7 years old and too young, Sona sharing too much information seemed a little off the top from my Point of view. Kids don't know what is right and wrong at that age. So, telling them everything since beginning might change their perception after they grow up.Like for example they could hate marriage and might misunderstand people after they grow up.

Because at 7 years, Brain is fragile and is at the development stage, hence should be taken care of properly. And,also talking about elderly stuff at 7 years might seem too matured for her age and typically in Indian Families, kids are taught to respect and obey Elders. Kids are not usually involved in elderly conversations. At the same time, Kids are generally pampered by Elders like Grandparents etc.

Sona, Bijoy and Asha's interaction with Suhana was all good, but just sharing too much information about Sona's separation, fight might have to be taken care of, and hope CVS maintain the track if they want it to be realistic.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I m happy because Sona is back as Dr.Bose, a strong woman.
Loved the kid too.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Apt title but I don't think its a good idea to reveal all to a 7 year old child. It's good to tell the truth about her father, because children go to school, they talk about their home, family, toys etc. So, knowing the truth is always safe, but how much is also an important question. Single parenting is a difficult task because sometimes the child gets biased in life and forms wrong conclusions about people in general. Kids can also be scarred for life.

Sonakshi didn't suffer any physical abuse or the child has not been witness to any such verbal arguments between her parents. Suhani is lucky to have been born after the separation. She has been away from the ugly spats and seeing her father in a drunken state. But she is still too small to be involved in an adult conversation. 😃 But, I like the independent, strong yet soft Sonakshi.

Child psychologists are of the view that a child brought up by a single parent is sometimes always indecisive and considers themselves right on all occasions, because they are never exposed to both sides of the coin. Let's see how the Creatives take the story ahead.


-Rekha
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have not watched the episode as yet. But reading everyone's reviews makes me feel that Sonakshi is back and in full form. Honestly, I don't know at what age should a child be told about his / her parents' separation. As long as she has been open about it and has told the child that she will let her decide what she wants to do with her dad, I am ok. I hate it when the parent tries to make the child take sides so this approach is progressive.

And what is this with Elena ? How is she still shamelessly staying at Ishwari Niwas after what happened to Sonakshi. Does she not try connecting with them ? Does she not know that she has a niece and did she not tell this to Ishwari and Dev. So many loose ends and I really hope the CVs come up with something good.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sonakshi is the best mother after her very own mom of course
the fact that she gave her daughter the liberty to choose whether she wants to meet her father or not is a huge step for any single parent
Sona not once imposed her decisions on Soha
the only disturbing thought I had was when Sona gave her mobile telling Soha she can find her fathers number there and contact
I feel its a sensitive issue and its Sona's duty to introduce her child to her father she must leave her child on her own to do the introduction

looking at Sona and Elena just vast differences yet both mothers both work but Sona has ample time for her daughter while Elena push her responsibility over to her MIL

Sona and Ishwari both mothers while Ishwari imposes her decisions on her son Sona gives her daughter the space for liberty and full control of decision making

Asha and Sona both so similar and I feel both are strong figures
instilled power into their children's mind rather then forcing them

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