Khud ke liye kuch karna khudgarzi nahi

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Posted: 9 years ago
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This was the dialogue of Naira in Nayi Soch campaign and which implies Vividha so much..

Here everybody calling Vividha selfish just because she did not fall in love with Ravish. If you do something for yourself does that mean u r selfish? Everybody does everything for their own happiness, how does that term them as selfish. A person's life is to fulfill his/her dreams and to justify his/her existence and it shud not be to be a doormat satisfying other's happiness and pleasures.

Vividha said that she loves Atharv in spite of marrying Ravish. That does nt mean she is selfish. She cared for Ravish as a friend and even went on to hide the truth from Suman in order to not hurt their feelings. Just bcus she did not love Ravish does nt mean she is selfish. she never said she does nt care for Ravish or his family. She just said she cant pretend to love somebody whom she does not love which is not selfish.

How is Vividha selfish is beyond me. She is selfish only because she did not love Ravish??!! If Vividha is being fair enuf by saying she can never love Ravish and so she wants to end the marriage, what is wrong?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nothing wrong Kirti ...
Its only a certain section here is not aware of Words like Forced marriages and Divorces so they remain stuck in the word original matriage .. thats it.

WHO is not selfish here ??

Kk was selfish for his ego, status and respect in society and coulnt see anything beyond and ended up ruining so many lives.

Sujata was selfish for Ramakant and for Atharva too as she accepted Vividha for him.

Suman is selfish ness ki murat, She obliged Ramakaants wishes for her love of him, she threw her son in this marriage without even thinking twice, She wanted Vivi to live him only becos she coukdnt get the love if her life, She wants Vivi now also becos she wants her son yo have love in life, She enjoyed everything in life and still hate Sujata for nothing but her self pity mode.

DADA being an army men did such henious crime of killing 2 lovers for his selfish reasons towards Ravish and Suman.

Ravish is Mahanya ki murat is also doing everything for his selfish reasons as he being a son wants to filfil his father's wishes.

So whats wrong if Vividha and Atharva are selfish for their love for each other. THEY HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO BE ⭐️
Edited by Shweta13 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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vividha is selfish to certain actor fanz whose existence depends on ViTharv. If we ignore, their thread won't even reach to page 3. why are we promoting their thoughts?
If media could ignore Trump and stopped promoting his not so worthy stuff , we could have avoided this baby.

Moral of the story is, vividha is selfish so are we. we all are selfish for our happiness.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shweta13

Nothing wrong Kirti ...

Its only a certain section here is not aware of Words like Forced marriages and Divorces so they remain stuck in the word original matriage .. thats it.

WHO is not selfish here ??

Kk was selfish for his ego, status and respect in society and coulnt see anything beyond and ended up ruining so many lives.

Sujata was selfish for Ramakant and for Atharva too as she accepted Vividha for him.

Suman is selfish ness ki murat, She obliged Ramakaants wishes for her love of him, she threw her son in this marriage without even thinking twice, She wanted Vivi to live him only becos she coukdnt get the love if her life, She wants Vivi now also becos she wants her son yo have love in life, She enjoyed everything in life and still hate Sujata for nothing but her self pity mode.

DADA being an army men did such henious crime of killing 2 lovers for his selfish reasons towards Ravish and Suman.

Ravish is Mahanya ki murat is also doing everything for his selfish reasons as he being a son wants to filfil his father's wishes.

So whats wrong if Vividha and Atharva are selfish for their love for each other. THEY HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO BE ⭐️


So well pointed out Shweta.. every character in this serial is selfish if we consider Vivi as selfish. Thats the way the world is designed to be not just in this serial, We need to think about ourselves first and not self sacrificing.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: _OrChiD_

vividha is selfish to certain actor fanz whose existence depends on ViTharv. If we ignore, their thread won't even reach to page 3. why are we promoting their thoughts?
If media could ignore Trump and stopped promoting his not so worthy stuff , we could have avoided this baby.

Moral of the story is, vividha is selfish so are we. we all are selfish for our happiness.


Yes certain fandom defies all logic when it comes to blaming Vivi and proving Ravish as the only person having feelings and going thru pain. When in reality Vividha and atharv has endured so much pain
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Posted: 9 years ago
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If she doesnt take initiative to end the marriage its two timing
If she takes initiative to end the marriage shez selfish,insensitive,characterless,cheap

Edited by muktha_cute - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: cool_kriti


Yes certain fandom defies all logic when it comes to blaming Vivi and proving Ravish as the only person having feelings and going thru pain. When in reality Vividha and atharv has endured so much pain



I lost respect the moment that fandom tried to justify dada ji action. To me lost case.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well said kriti. Excellent post.
Everyone is selfish for one thing or another. It's human tendency. And no one is saint here to proclaim they r selfless at all times. If they say so then they r lying

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