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Zeddriz7

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Posted: 8 years ago

If I'm not wrong, Vicky took Dev's phone.. And he may probably do something that's going to make Devakshi's relationship end...

Seriously?? This is typical saas bahu plot... Was so much negativity required ?? Was there really no other way of separation?

Huh !

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randommusings

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Posted: 8 years ago

Most probably he will use Dev's phone to get Bose family thrown from their house n Dev wud b blamed for tht.

Maybe tomm Dev will try to reconcile but bcoz of prenup n Bose's house problems...divorce wud happen.

There were lot of logical ways to show separation..but all those options wudnt be dynamic enuf for our show makers.

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Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

Honestly, the damage Dev has done to his marriage, Ishwari-Radha and Vicky combined can't do it. The responsibility to make or break a marriage lies on husband and wife. But both Dev and Sona handed over the control of their marriage to Ishwari. Why are they surprised to see that she molded their marriage the way suits her, but doesn't suit them?

I kept saying that when two people are together in marriage, they are a unit. But when it becomes three people, it becomes overcrowded and at least one will be pushed out of it. And as Dev and Ishwari have a more solid marriage (of mind, of lack of values, of morality, of lies, of nature), I am not surprised to see Sona got pushed out.

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Shaun

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Posted: 8 years ago

Well Vicky and GKB always wanted what belonged to Dev so now they have a chance to steal it and have a better chance to cause more problems between DevAKshi

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Zeddriz7

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: tia.o
Honestly, the damage Dev has done to his marriage, Ishwari-Radha and Vicky combined can't do it. The responsibility to make or break a marriage lies on husband and wife. But both Dev and Sona handed over the control of their marriage to Ishwari. Why are they surprised to see that she molded their marriage the way suits her, but doesn't suit them?
I kept saying that when two people are together in marriage, they are a unit. But when it becomes three people, it becomes overcrowded and at least one will be pushed out of it. And as Dev and Ishwari have a more solid marriage (of mind, of lack of values, of morality, of lies, of nature), I am not surprised to see Sona got pushed out.

Ya, this problem started because of Dev.. But I felt this spark of separation was started today by Ishwari.. How easily she blurted out that Sona should separate from Dev.. Just like that !! I couldn't believe that was a mother asking her DIL to ruin her son's life..

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Tia.0

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Posted: 8 years ago

If their relationship is so flimsy that just on Ishwari's command it can break, then they have no marriage to start with.

Ishwari has a lot of faults but the reason her saying works, because Dev follows her blindly.

Ishwari told him to divorce Sona, so what? Ishwari also said him to go live separately with his wife, did he leave her? Dev has always been a wimp, but not when it comes to something he really can't live without. And for him it was never Sona.

That's the difference. That's why their marriage didn't work. Sona was more committed to him than he was to her.

Had anyone come to me and said to divorce my husband, I'd tell them to mind their own business. Whether I live with him or not, my marriage is my business, not anyone else's.

But Dev himself made his marriage everyone else's business but his.

Originally posted by: Zeddriz7

Ya, this problem started because of Dev.. But I felt this spark of separation was started today by Ishwari.. How easily she blurted out that Sona should separate from Dev.. Just like that !! I couldn't believe that was a mother asking her DIL to ruin her son's life..

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rahulvats12

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Posted: 8 years ago

Vicky already said before that he will take revenge from sonakshi one day and he know finally get that day...or dono Vicky or gkb, there r negative character of show from starting of show they r just waiting for good time... In eariler episode gkb.once said to Vicky that they will rule this house one day...

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Zeddriz7

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: tia.o
If their relationship is so flimsy that just on Ishwari's command it can break, then they have no marriage to start with.

Ishwari has a lot of faults but the reason her saying works, because Dev follows her blindly.

Ishwari told him to divorce Sona, so what? Ishwari also said him to go live separately with his wife, did he leave her? Dev has always been a wimp, but not when it comes to something he really can't live without. And for him it was never Sona.

That's the difference. That's why their marriage didn't work. Sona was more committed to him than he was to her.

Had anyone come to me and said to divorce my husband, I'd tell them to mind their own business. Whether I live with him or not, my marriage is my business, not anyone else's.

But Dev himself made his marriage everyone else's business but his.

Ya, I hope he learns his lesson..It really hurts to see such a beautiful relationship (in the inital episodes) come crashing down so horribly..

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rahulvats12

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: randommusings
Most probably he will use Dev's phone to get Bose family thrown from their house n Dev wud b blamed for tht.
Maybe tomm Dev will try to reconcile but bcoz of prenup n Bose's house problems...divorce wud happen.

There were lot of logical ways to show separation..but all those options wudnt be dynamic enuf for our show makers.

I don't think that paper is about divorce... It maybe prenap paper and Sonakshi will sign those paper without reading paper as she will think it's divorce paper... Both r fighting because of their ego and no one thinking smartly...sahi h ki gussa mein hamesha galat decision lete h log...and makers can't show everything according to our needs...or the way we want to see separation... Earlier all wanting separation from makers and now they r showing separation. Then again problem for fans... Demand khatm nhi hoti kabhi hg hamari 😆

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gemini54

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Posted: 8 years ago

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THE WAY I SEE IT NO PAIN NO GAIN... I am the ever optimist😉

Dev and Sona loved each other but they let people into their marriage . When they were alone they were fine but with the dynamics of family they showed their weakness.

These were the Weakness:

Dev

Worshiped his mother blindly

Did not stand up for his wife when needed

Always sought the easy way out of problems

Sona

Loved Dev blindly

Gave up her self respect more times simply to fit in to the Dixit world

Sought to ignore the problems

So Love did not sustain. Love only sustains when there is nurturing and implicit Trust. and Respect

The Respect of the institution of Marriage. BOTH Sona and Dev did not know to abide by it the first Rule of this institution is DO NOT LET A THIRD PERSON IN AND THEY DID .( I am also talking about children here ) Marriage is ONLY AND ONLY BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE

Not sure where the Leap is going but if they both want a marriage again they need to repair everything...Broken marriages have been repaired that is why marriage counselors are paid the big moolah

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