Then at the nearest moments of delivery a' shocking news came that my jiju has to go to abroad for 2months (for work) .He tried many ways but its beame impossible to either postpone or cancel the trip. He called my parents and conveyed the message. (They r living in another city)
my parents had no idea how to deal with her in that vulnerable stage.they became so worried for her...But when we entered their house We witnessed a huge fighting. Yes my jiju who never ever raised his voice to his wife shouting at the heighest pitch "don't give this much importance to urself "..yes the same words 😛
I became so much angry. But my mom even my dad (who couldn't even hear a word against us ) were staying cool. 😆 ..eyeee I thoroughly confused. 😕
Later on - my sister very bravely entered the Labour pain and conceived a beautiful handsome boy (mischievous ofcourse 😉 ) .my jiju too returned at the needed moment.
About that fight my dad explained me later, its reverse psychology. .
Ur jiju also afraid to leave her alone &very much depressed of the situation but he couldn't want her to become weak & to fell into self sympathy coz that is destructive for her at that moment. So he challenged her if she could face that?. And she did that
This was not planned or something. It comes naturally.This is the way love shows how to deal ur loved ones.
this incident left a great impact on me and I had teary eyes when I realized jiju's love for her and how I misunderstood him..
I somehow remembered this when I watching dev fighting with sona.dev often says "I don't care whether u can conceive or not ..my love never decreases if u can become a mother or not "..He thinks his assurance will give her relief -strength .ohhh how wrong was he ??
When sonakshi said ur words only adding my pain , making me guilty and "kudse nafrath hogaye " .dev was dumbfounded.
She goes on drowning in her self sympathy , self destructing way and becoming weak and weak and weaker he couldn't take that.. so he chose the other way.. stop sonakshi. Don't give that much importance to urself. U r not the one who was very much affected.even I am "
This adds fuel and our tigress was stirred. She stands up from her self sympathy state (ofcourse not fully I guess ) and gets her strong avathar back.
When he knew wholly his bengal tigress is back .. he started showing her how much he respects , how much he cares, how much he worshippes her...in his own way.
His love soothes her pain, gives her unsaid strength and prepares her to face the future obstacles. .Coz sona never wants "Sahara" she wants "saath" only.
P.S.. for the second part of the episode yes it beyond justification and I want to wait &watch how it unfold fully.