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Posted: 8 years ago
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My sister and jiju r madly in love with others.my sis is an economically independent , strong girl but in her pregnancy time she has some complications and my jiju stands with her in all through this phase like a pillar. So she became emotionally depended on him very much .

Then at the nearest moments of delivery a' shocking news came that my jiju has to go to abroad for 2months (for work) .He tried many ways but its beame impossible to either postpone or cancel the trip. He called my parents and conveyed the message. (They r living in another city)

my parents had no idea how to deal with her in that vulnerable stage.they became so worried for her...But when we entered their house We witnessed a huge fighting. Yes my jiju who never ever raised his voice to his wife shouting at the heighest pitch "don't give this much importance to urself "..yes the same words 😛

I became so much angry. But my mom even my dad (who couldn't even hear a word against us ) were staying cool. 😆 ..eyeee I thoroughly confused. 😕

Later on - my sister very bravely entered the Labour pain and conceived a beautiful handsome boy (mischievous ofcourse 😉 ) .my jiju too returned at the needed moment.

About that fight my dad explained me later, its reverse psychology. .
Ur jiju also afraid to leave her alone &very much depressed of the situation but he couldn't want her to become weak & to fell into self sympathy coz that is destructive for her at that moment. So he challenged her if she could face that?. And she did that

This was not planned or something. It comes naturally.This is the way love shows how to deal ur loved ones.

this incident left a great impact on me and I had teary eyes when I realized jiju's love for her and how I misunderstood him..

I somehow remembered this when I watching dev fighting with sona.dev often says "I don't care whether u can conceive or not ..my love never decreases if u can become a mother or not "..He thinks his assurance will give her relief -strength .ohhh how wrong was he ??

When sonakshi said ur words only adding my pain , making me guilty and "kudse nafrath hogaye " .dev was dumbfounded.

She goes on drowning in her self sympathy , self destructing way and becoming weak and weak and weaker he couldn't take that.. so he chose the other way.. stop sonakshi. Don't give that much importance to urself. U r not the one who was very much affected.even I am "

This adds fuel and our tigress was stirred. She stands up from her self sympathy state (ofcourse not fully I guess ) and gets her strong avathar back.

When he knew wholly his bengal tigress is back .. he started showing her how much he respects , how much he cares, how much he worshippes her...in his own way.

His love soothes her pain, gives her unsaid strength and prepares her to face the future obstacles. .Coz sona never wants "Sahara" she wants "saath" only.


P.S.. for the second part of the episode yes it beyond justification and I want to wait &watch how it unfold fully.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nice post dear...and loved it how both fought with each other .and dev love making to make her clam...every thing was so n
Beautiful...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Cspcheziyan

My sister and jiju r madly in love with others.my sis is an economically independent , strong girl but in her pregnancy time she has some complications and my jiju stands with her in all through this phase like a pillar. So she became emotionally depended on him very much .

Then at the nearest moments of delivery a' shocking news came that my jiju has to go to abroad for 2months (for work) .He tried many ways but its beame impossible to either postpone or cancel the trip. He called my parents and conveyed the message. (They r living in another city)

my parents had no idea how to deal with her in that vulnerable stage.they became so worried for her...But when we entered their house We witnessed a huge fighting. Yes my jiju who never ever raised his voice to his wife shouting at the heighest pitch "don't give this much importance to urself "..yes the same words 😛

I became so much angry. But my mom even my dad (who couldn't even hear a word against us ) were staying cool. 😆 ..eyeee I thoroughly confused. 😕

Later on - my sister very bravely entered the Labour pain and conceived a beautiful handsome boy (mischievous ofcourse 😉 ) .my jiju too returned at the needed moment.

About that fight my dad explained me later, its reverse psychology. .
Ur jiju also afraid to leave her alone &very much depressed of the situation but he couldn't want her to become weak & to fell into self sympathy coz that is destructive for her at that moment. So he challenged her if she could face that?. And she did that

This was not planned or something. It comes naturally.This is the way love shows how to deal ur loved ones.

this incident left a great impact on me and I had teary eyes when I realized jiju's love for her and how I misunderstood him..

I somehow remembered this when I watching dev fighting with sona.dev often says "I don't care whether u can conceive or not ..my love never decreases if u can become a mother or not "..He thinks his assurance will give her relief -strength .ohhh how wrong was he ??

When sonakshi said ur words only adding my pain , making me guilty and "kudse nafrath hogaye " .dev was dumbfounded.

She goes on drowning in her self sympathy , self destructing way and becoming weak and weak and weaker he couldn't take that.. so he chose the other way.. stop sonakshi. Don't give that much importance to urself. U r not the one who was very much affected.even I am "

This adds fuel and our tigress was stirred. She stands up from her self sympathy state (ofcourse not fully I guess ) and gets her strong avathar back.

When he knew wholly his bengal tigress is back .. he started showing her how much he respects , how much he cares, how much he worshippes her...in his own way.

His love soothes her pain, gives her unsaid strength and prepares her to face the future obstacles. .Coz sona never wants "Sahara" she wants "saath" only.


P.S.. for the second part of the episode yes it beyond justification and I want to wait &watch how it unfold fully.




NIce post dear!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: M.soni

Nice post dear...and loved it how both fought with each other .and dev love making to make her clam...every thing was so n

Beautiful...



Thanks yaar.yeah that part is well shot.. comfort level is super great
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thank u 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: suma74




<font size="5" color="#993300">NIce post dear!</font>



Thank u yaar 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I do think reverse psychology works when coming to loved ones especially when you want to see them staying strong
yesterday's episode was awesome
just the last part Dev slapping Bijoy I felt it was unnecessary
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Thanku di for sharing ur heart-warming story wid us!🤗🤗
I luved the way u drew parallels wid the show's track!😳😳
Maybe u r right in this...making people learn the hard way is sometimes necessary whether it'll hurt them a li'l bit...that's how our loved ones will gather courage to fight all odds and let us win even if it is us on the loosing end😉
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Wow!
You explained the entire thing so beautifully!

personal experiences do help in gaining perspective!

And the love between your sister and Jiju is very sweet!

I sincerely hope they stay like this forever! ❤️

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