'Maryada har yug ke saath badalti hai' - Page 3

Originally posted by: prabharajani

atharv sujatha is a man of ideals, principles, liberal thoughts, progressive mind and what not

society is changing, traditions are changing and so are we, marriage shld be between equals and marriage shld be for love

when i see the vachans of vitharv and atharvs clarity regarding marriage and society, i really feel that this is it how it shld be, the values i hope every men follows

Originally posted by: srilatha1

like i mentioned in whispa's post, these saath vachans were drawn hundreds of years ago by a set of people. as atharv says, the society has changed so must the vachans be. but we still fallow those centuries old systems blindly. but Atharv and Vividha broke that norm and drawn vachans of their own. the vachans of 1. equality, 2.trust, 3.strength, 4.forgiveness, 5. openness 6. never giving up on each other and 7. coming back... coming back to live all the promises made. this is the need of the hour. atharv sujatha is "maryada Purushottam of this Yug".

Originally posted by: sweetygirl28

The rule is simple.

Do Wat u want to do not what others want u to do.

I don't think any women in their right sense would not want what he is giving vividha. Freedom. Equality .trust.

It's Wat matters.nothing more nothing less.

Atharv sujata has earned my respect. Period.

Originally posted by: _innocent_

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Reemz, beautiful post :)! Tonight showed the world once again what Atharv Sujata stood for. He was a man who truly believed in equality, a man who believed in fighting against any injustices life throw at us and to do so with holding your head high because if we don't do it for ourselves, no one else will do it for us. After all its true isn't it? God will not help us, unless we try to help ourselves, and likewise with life. I am in awe of Atharv Sujata.</font>

Originally posted by: -JC-

His thoughts were the only reason for watching this show. And i'll be bet its the only reason people have held on till the return of Atharv. Because he embodies the change that people want to see in the society around them. He represents the hope that many women nurture in their hearts. A man who not only believes in equality but makes sure the women around him also understand that they are truly equal. Equality is not a status. Equality is having a sense of self...a life where you are happy because you do things that you want to do because they give you a sense of fulfillment, a sense of being of value in the world, a sense of purpose. And that purpose is chosen by yourself...not because you are a woman and you have grown up being fed the subliminal and sometimes not so subtle messages of feminine duties of reproduction and nurturing being the ultimate purpose of your life...but a sense of purpose that germinates from an evolved mind that has acquired knowledge and analyzed the 'self' in relation to the world outside.

This is what Atharv tried to get Vividha and the other women in the show to do. He was so passionately trying to get Vividha to think for herself and unlearn all the stereotypes that she had been fed all her life. And ultimately if an evolved Vividha had rejected him, he would have walked away from her, but he refused to accept her hesitation which was due to the boundaries that Kailash set on her thoughts and not her own reservations.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Hope everyone, who hasn't even seen Phase 1 actually understood what Atharva Sujata stood for.

He stood for equality, freedom, respect and to live life how two people want to live not how society tells them to live.

Oh I can't wait for this man to give a big slap to everyone when he recovers! Those who are against Vividha being with him, he will have an answer for them all.

One line in partlcular which got to me in the current context of the show was 'Maryada har yug ke saath badalti hai'.

Limits posed by society change with every generation so how can you or I say what's concrete? The origin of marriage was far from what it stands for now. It used to be for children, polygamy very much existed and it's only in the past century or so that monogamy has become the norm in society.

Rules change as generations go by and this is why Atharva Sujata is saying to each individual...live life according to your wishes without limitations set by others. What Maryada are we talking about when it changes with time?