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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ishwari!
😳

😵
These three expressions sum up my reactions to what Ishwari is doing.
This woman can go to literally any extent to control Dev's life. Like many insightful comments on my post yesterday said that the reason for Ishwari's desperation is to have control over Dev's life. Be it using emotional blackmail or this, she wants to assure herself that Dev is under her control.
She crossed her own level of eeriness by actually making all the arrangements in Shimla.
Every single step Dev and Sonakshi were taking in the resort was planned by Ishwari. At first, they both thought it was pampering for them to de-stress. But no, Ishwari has sent them on a mission.
😕
The moment Sonakshi realises this, she walks out👏 I am so so happy that Sonakshi acted normal today. Not blind, not submissive.
She was definitely the saving grace..
How embarrassing it must be for the couple (unfortunately Dev could not realise this at all, he has been spoonfed everything by his mom and all this is just another gift by her) to have your honeymoon being arranged by your mother, specially after the fact that they have to conceive.
As a viewer, I was sliding lower and lower on my couch with embarrassment with Ishwari's every step, on what level must sona must be irritated then!
Booking the entire hotel, fertility spa, honeymoon suite, dresses, even their dinner was scheduled! Brwvo Ishwari, I am sure even Dev would not have thought of all this😆
But, I am happy with the episode, as I said, because Sonakshi spoke clearly about how suffocated she was feeling.
I was honestly hating the blindly-in-love-with-my-MIL and Apka-hukm-saraankhon-par Sonakshi. Thank goodness, she felt uncomfortable . Not that she did something fantastic, but her just reacting normally gives us all so much of peace these days nahi😆
I cannot believe Dev did not even feel a tinge of embarrassment with all this! He was just trying to manao Sona. I was feeling bad for both of them, because they came to relax and ended up fighting because of Ishwari. Ishwari makes sure no one feels her absence😕
How low can she get!?
I am thankful that though Dev was totally clueless to not feel anything, he chose to resolve the issue and made Sonakshi feel better. Dev and Sonakshi deserve atleast some happy moments away from the wicked world at their home.
Once they go there, it will be conflicts and chaos again.
One thing is for sure, Sonakshi is slowly being aware of Ishwari's dominance on Dev and she isn't liking it, though they hugged now, this thing will come up magnified a million more times after the slap.
The hug was gorgeous. You know why? Because in the end, both had this tense expression on their face as they both are very well aware of the development in complexities and that "Hum iske baad humesha khush rahenge" is not a very easy thing to follow.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: saumiee

Ishwari!

😳

😵
These three expressions sum up my reactions to what Ishwari is doing.
This woman can go to literally any extent to control Dev's life. Like many insightful comments on my post yesterday said that the reason for Ishwari's desperation is to have control over Dev's life. Be it using emotional blackmail or this, she wants to assure herself that Dev is under her control.
She crossed her own level of eeriness by actually making all the arrangements in Shimla.
Every single step Dev and Sonakshi were taking in the resort was planned by Ishwari. At first, they both thought it was pampering for them to de-stress. But no, Ishwari has sent them on a mission.
😕
The moment Sonakshi realises this, she walks out👏 I am so so happy that Sonakshi acted normal today. Not blind, not submissive.
She was definitely the saving grace..
How embarrassing it must be for the couple (unfortunately Dev could not realise this at all, he has been spoonfed everything by his mom and all this is just another gift by her) to have your honeymoon being arranged by your mother, specially after the fact that they have to conceive.
As a viewer, I was sliding lower and lower on my couch with embarrassment with Ishwari's every step, on what level must sona must be irritated then!
Booking the entire hotel, fertility spa, honeymoon suite, dresses, even their dinner was scheduled! Brwvo Ishwari, I am sure even Dev would not have thought of all this😆
But, I am happy with the episode, as I said, because Sonakshi spoke clearly about how suffocated she was feeling.
I was honestly hating the blindly-in-love-with-my-MIL and Apka-hukm-saraankhon-par Sonakshi. Thank goodness, she felt uncomfortable . Not that she did something fantastic, but her just reacting normally gives us all so much of peace these days nahi😆
I cannot believe Dev did not even feel a tinge of embarrassment with all this! He was just trying to manao Sona. I was feeling bad for both of them, because they came to relax and ended up fighting because of Ishwari. Ishwari makes sure no one feels her absence😕
How low can she get!?
I am thankful that though Dev was totally clueless to not feel anything, he chose to resolve the issue and made Sonakshi feel better. Dev and Sonakshi deserve atleast some happy moments away from the wicked world at their home.
Once they go there, it will be conflicts and chaos again.
One thing is for sure, Sonakshi is slowly being aware of Ishwari's dominance on Dev and she isn't liking it, though they hugged now, this thing will come up magnified a million more times after the slap.
The hug was gorgeous. You know why? Because in the end, both had this tense expression on their face as they both are very well aware of the development in complexities and that "Hum iske baad humesha khush rahenge" is not a very easy thing to follow.



consistently excellent analysis of the episodes..

@ BOLD - i was thinking about the same thing during the episode. .Dev is either super intelligent or a super dumb guy. He is either understanding everything but trying to sideline things or is really not aware of the hidden agenda of his mom.. and her control freak nature.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I had heard the phrase, "Pati, Patni aur Woh." But that woh was another man or woman. Here it's the mother. I am surprised that Ishwari didn't send the diagram of most effective position to conceive based on her "experience"...

And the fact that Dev never once thought it was creepy is the limit of creepiness itself. I won't be surprised if Ishwari walks in while they are doing the deed, Dev will ask his mother with a big smile, "Am I doing it right mummy?"

It was cringe worthy to read. I can't even imagine how cringe worthy it was to watch.

Honestly, this guy never had any sensitivity. But it seems he has no personality of his own either.

He was not upset with Ishwari for telling the whole resort about Sonakshi's fertility, but with the manager for telling Sonakshi about it. I am sorry, but he is a grade A jerk.
Edited by tia.o - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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awesum post saumiee
i still remember bfr sona's accident dev told her ..main sabko khush rakhma chahta hu ..koshish bhi poori karta hu ..but phir bhi fail ho jaata hu ...
here also dev is trying to do d same ...he wants sona n ishwari both to b happy n togeder ...n he chooses d easy optiom always ... he does not want to confront ishwari ...
n i guess slap ll play a role here ...sona is already irritated right now for few daz npw ...once d slap happens everything dat was brushed under d carpet ll come to d fore n dat too being magnified ...
raita to fail gaya h ...n kaafi jyaada fail gaya

.lets c dev babu ise samatte kaise h
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Posted: 8 years ago
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YUP that was saving grace for me at least both are feeling there is something wrong.
in that car scene also when he was telling her how baby doesn't matter to him ,sona literary shut him up with music.

and Ishwari ki creepiness toh full level par thi🤢


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ishwari and.. her agendas have to be met according to her... what a master mind she has..


But for the first time.. I felt a warmth between Husbsnd and wife.. this is what is the power of love! Dev understood .. his Wife is not a puppet like him ... she will retaliate and if he wants her happiness he better make her happy!

In reality one will not go and complain .. Mom you upset us by doing all this! But one can change a situation.. by actions!

Dev two plus points today for you.. thank you for changing the room and the dress... you better change yourself for wife .. you can't change your mom but enough is enough at times!

Beautiful post as always Saumya Dear 👏


On a sep note: DevAkshi are beautiful actors... one episode can make me change my mood.. because yesterday I was feeling disconnected... but today there was warmth between them .. magic of the performance.. congratulations to them wining best Jodi award .. both are outstanding performers ❤️
Edited by amaypranay - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Ishu's SEX EDUCATION Session for her bachcha Dev... And like one studious and obedient student and bachcha, he will follow his Mama's tips and tricks...

And this is what Ishu will say to her bachcha... 😆🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

I had heard the phrase, "Pati, Patni aur Woh." But that woh was another man or woman. Here it's the mother. I am surprised that Ishwari didn't send the diagram of most effective position to conceive based on her "experience"...


And the fact that Dev never once thought it was creepy is the limit of creepiness itself. I won't be surprised if Ishwari walks in while they are doing the deed, Dev will ask his mother with a big smile, "Am I doing it right mummy?"

It was cringe worthy to read. I can't even imagine how cringe worthy it was to watch.

Honestly, this guy never had any sensitivity. But it seems he has no personality of his own either.

He was not upset with Ishwari for telling the whole resort about Sonakshi's fertility, but with the manager for telling Sonakshi about it. I am sorry, but he is a grade A jerk.

Dev will be proud of his Maa God who has gone beyond her innocent capability just to google it out or pull out her deep hidden memories about sex lessons... Ishu knows it very well that even if Sona doesn't like it, Dev will never fail to remember his Maa even at the crucial moment... 😉😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: tia.o

I had heard the phrase, "Pati, Patni aur Woh." But that woh was another man or woman. Here it's the mother. I am surprised that Ishwari didn't send the diagram of most effective position to conceive based on her "experience"...


And the fact that Dev never once thought it was creepy is the limit of creepiness itself. I won't be surprised if Ishwari walks in while they are doing the deed, Dev will ask his mother with a big smile, "Am I doing it right mummy?"

It was cringe worthy to read. I can't even imagine how cringe worthy it was to watch.

Honestly, this guy never had any sensitivity. But it seems he has no personality of his own either.

He was not upset with Ishwari for telling the whole resort about Sonakshi's fertility, but with the manager for telling Sonakshi about it. I am sorry, but he is a grade A jerk.


woa woa u stole my words😭 i am talking about the exact position part, i wanted to write the same. 😆😆 chalo koyin baat nahin. 😃 but yes i am sure there will probably be a book
there to give gyan for them. man, this lady has surpassed all other mils ever on earth.
even the baddest of them would not have thought the way eshwari thinks. but what kept me
hooked in episode was sonas walkout the moment she got pain during spa time & she
realized that all this is just to pop out a baby. the second baby is out everyone will start
occupying sonas room on pretext of some reason or another.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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First things first...lets welcome back the version of Sonakshi who resembles the one we knew earlier. It was a big relief. Barely could tolerate Sonakshi Bose Dixit who did nothing but walk behind Dev chanting 'Ma' mantra over the last couple of months.

Secondly, the cringe inducing episode. I cringed when Dev said it doesn't matter to him whether or not she conceives...trying was more important ...they need to do it for Ma. But I loved Sonakshi for simply turning up the music...albeit her reaction at that stage was milder than later on in the episode. In a way it set the tone of whats to come, I guess.

I don't know what annoyed me more...Ishwari's extreme interference or Dev's cluelessness. I heaved a sigh of relief when Sona reacted when the masseuse reveals about the fertility treatment and felt better when she stormed out of the room.

When they hugged, Sona's tensed expression is a given coz she has already reached the place where she knows this whole thing aint going to work. But it was satisfaction I felt on seeing the tension on Dev's face moments after proclaiming that they will live happily ever after. I thought I imagined that tensed expressed...good to have you validate it.

P.S - Such a terrible production house. They show the mountains scape, streets of Shimla and the reception is Bose's house and the room is Dixit house set. The reception decor was cheap...and Dev Dixit is supposedly a very rich man who needed an entire resort to procreate😆

PPS - Another day where I felt nothing for our protagonists. At least nothing good. The makers have successfully ruined the show for me. If it weren't for Shaheer and Erica, I probably wouldn't be here.

And apparently the makers and writer are absolutely convinced that they are giving us the best😆


PPPS - Today, I was reminded of a movie I watched a while ago on tele...Judai (I think) where Sri Devi forces her husband to marry Urmila Matondkar for money. And She oversees her husband's marraige, suhag raat with his new wife etc. At least Sri Devi is really the woh in that equation but the way Ishwari is presented as woh troubles me so so deeply for I am a mother who shares a deep close bond with her son and this is wrong..so so wrong.


PPPS - 😆 - Am I the only one who thinks that Sona's updo was too humungous for Erica's tiny face/frame in the precap and what is with wearing mangalsutra with a gown???😕😆 The stylist needs to be sacked...for that matter even the new writer needs to be sacked. But we know none of that is happening😆
Edited by SandyAquarius - 8 years ago

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