Originally posted by: Sonikins
As i said i m the only shivikan who wants shivay to give priority to his bros 😆
Sorry
y sorry soni...thats ur opinion...each one is entitled to his/her opinion...
but there r certain things in life which r reality ...
soni can i ask you ur age??? r u married or have a partner???
soni when a girl becomes someone's wife n comes to his house... she leaves behind all other relations...in her heart those relations r strong but she doesnt live there any more...also with time the husband's house only becomes her house... im not saying anything from shivika pov...im making general comments... these days even guys leave theirs houses n husband wife hv their own house... if the spouses dont become priority for each other they can nvr develop that bond... n once u bring a new life into the world...spousal bond does become the stronger one coz u are bound not by blood but by love... n by offspring... a father n child bond is stronger than brother n brother bond for a reason...
thats the reality of relationships...
if ppl live in joint family..and girl enters there...if not for husband she cannot live there... husvand is the only legal connect the girl has with the new family... agar husband ka love nahi hai toh woh naye rishton ka koi maiyne nahi hai... love to happen takes time but ur husband is ur defender, ur protector, ur lover, ur confidant ...everything in that house... so the husband becomes the central person in a wife's life...if the wife doesnt become that central person then the relationship becomes one sided n fizzes out...
u may want shiv to give priority to OmRu ..thats ur person opinion... but when u get married u will realise u will want to be the prime most priority in ur hubby's life after a certain period of marriage coz ur life will revolve around each other... if that doesnt happen u wont b happy in that marriage...
Edited by vivacious_gurl - 8 years ago