Why is Ishwari so desperate?

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gemini54

@gemini54

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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Aw, thanks! That's really sweet of you. 😳

I meant the compliment in my home my kids and my husband are calm..I am sure you would have guessed by my posts that I am not..I have the book How not to sweat the small stuff book all over my house gifts from my boys😆

The control doesn't have to topple because it's always been an illusion. Every time Ishwari blackmails, it's only the facade that is re-established. At least, that is how it worked with Dev, which is why neither he nor Ishwari are much concerned with Sona's questions about the future. By that time, both of them will be back in denial and Dev will keep lying and stalling to have his way, while sweet-talking his mother and making her feel important and in-charge. That is also why Ishwari is so desperate time-wise. She knows she can only play on Dev's guilt for lying for so long, now that she has purportedly forgiven him for it, and it's only a matter of time before the immediate threat of her displeasure fades and Dev's attention stops being so focused on her, and becomes rightly redistributed. She is capitalising on the time and leverage she has to do what she thinks is necessary for the family.

This seems like a cat and mouse game to me and all I can see is Sona trapped in the mix. If they are master players like you put it this game will go on with no end in sight ..what happens to Sona?

Ishwari is a mastermind strategist, and that is part of what makes her character so riveting to watch!

Unfortunately I cannot see this ...

Thanks for replying

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vandana1965

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Posted: 8 years ago

#22

ishwari should realise that nobody has a bacha 9 months later right away after phere. and dev, is a bigger nut that ishwari. feel sorry for sona

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amaypranay

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Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Saumya great post...

Samanalyse, you are so right... brilliant analysis I've always felt that you nail it so well...

Ishwari is such master manipulator , when ever she is loosing control on Dev.. she has her master strike!
She how she suggar coated Sona's answer to the question!!its like a degree she's mastered!

Not being in control over Dev.. is her weakest point .. she looses it.

Edited by amaypranay - 8 years ago

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saumiee

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Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Tacker_Holic
God knows what the big rush is! She is just being a typical saas who wants to see her "grandchild" so she can die in peace! If you are asking me she wants a little "Dev" so she can train him to be her puppet too! 😕

True. .and she had this thought in the temple that she would light a thousand lamps there because Sonakshi would understand what being too attached and then going away from a child means, sadly the same rule doesn't apply to her own daughters.😕

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saumiee

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Posted: 8 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: pkbdas61
Good quesiton Saumee! But i think the more pressing question is why is Sona so desperate to please Ishwari! She is still young...

Further, Sona and Dev really looked like the disparate people they have been due to poor scripting. No connect emotionally with them.

Though Shaheer and Erica always do their best, the script and the track is terribly letting them down. Even their usual sizzling chemistry seemed fizzled out!

Shaheer and Erica are really brilliant and that is one major reason why Devakshi scenes today, inspite of being out of place and irrelevant, were watchable!

About Sonakshi, I find it really sad to see how this girl who had a say in everything before marriage is now quiet about her own self.

But if I don't think from a third person's perspective, the girl is just trying yet again to please everybody. Everyone thinks the baby will resolve all the problems.. Specially Sona because h er relationship with both Ish and Dev is swindling Plus Sonakshi herself wanted a kid too..so she has adjusted her own happiness with the fast-paced Dixits, to be a mother.

I believe, she is not very comfortable with all the idea herself and suppressing her anxiety, It will all burst out after the slap thing. It should.

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saumiee

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Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: dlavanya
that is Ishwari .. when she wants something. she wants it right now... no one can cross her wishes... thats how she keep control over everyone.

And sadly she still remains the most innocent mother for Dev

Will we ever see Dev seeing this side of Ishwari? The insecure, manipulative, selfish side?

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LiveLife321

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Posted: 8 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: saumiee

P.S Bijoy is another gone-case? He doesn't want sona to have treatment, just because Ishwari wants her to have it.
The in-laws of both sides are extremists.

When you have Ishwari and Bijoy kind of parents or in-laws in your life then the couple won't have any time to worry about any issues in their life. They will screw your already screwed up life to another level. Mr.bose intentions are always right but i cant support his ways of dealing issues, his behavior is as similar to Dev when he lies, they both doesn't see the long term impact and damage of their actions. I am saying this from my own life experience.

I was an independent working women when i got married, Its an arranged marriage. When i was going through tough times in my initial days of marriage, my parents didn't know about the issues in my life for quite some time(one year). When they got to know about all of this, they were mad at my in-laws & husband, they felt bad about my condition and they were sad & guilty about their choice( this is the reason why i didn't share anything with them).

After some time they understood my intentions behind hiding things from them and they became my support system in bringing back my life to normal state. My dad is like Asha and my mom is like Bijoy and i am their pride. My dad told me that do what ever you want to sort out your life but always remember that we are there for you and you are not alone. But my mom still stuck with only one thought & pain that How can they play with my daughter's life? She never left a single chance to taunt & argue with my in-laws and my husband for many years. Trust me, handling this damage is much more harder than sorting out the mess in your life. Me and my dad tried to convince my mom so many times in so many ways to let it go but its of no use. You know the issue here is My mom thinks that her pain of seeing me going through all those painful times was much bigger than my pain.

Its been 9yrs of my marriage, even today i think twice and worry if my husband need to stay at mom's place without me. Its not that me and my husband never fought or argue, Its just that i don't like any body saying anything wrong to him even if it is my parents. My dad understood that and he respects my feelings and gave space & support to fight my own battles in my life. This is what the difference between Bijoy and Asha and their impact on their kids. As a parent, If you can't become their support in their tough times then its ok but don't become their weakness.

I still have infinite no.of complaints about the way this show is going at present but i can't stop watching it since most of the times some where some one or some situation reminds me of something that happened to me or that i saw around me. This is what is the beauty of this show.😊

Edited by LiveLife321 - 8 years ago