Warning:Long Post But This is getting insane now!!!!!

Two weeks ago before this pregnancy track I used to enjoy watching this show as an ardent fan but now watching it to know where the story progresses. In fact I watched the whole show from the beginning in the last week. (I liked till Ayan's track got over)

But, from last week, this is turning to shit I honestly can't handle.

No doubt a million dollar question by Sonakshi " What if she fails to conceive even after treatment, then what will be her status in the family as for Dev & Ishwari?" I was actually hoping her to ask this question.

As far as Dev is concerned Whenever it comes to deal with his wife & mother at the same time, he always behaves & take decisions as Ishwari's son & never as Sonakshi's husband. And I don't give a damn to what promises he makes to Sona in his room or on the phone in private. Practically, I would always want a man who would take my side atleast when needed & not always support his mother's insane desires whatever they may be.

Till now Ishwari Ji was obssessed with her son & now she is obsessed with her desire to have the grandson no matter what.

I understand that even in modern society we have a no. of MILs who don't take the infertility issue with senstivity & blame their DILs for being infertile. Infertility treatments & alternate for conceiving are still lesser known in Indian society even today & the rate of acceptance is even lower.

But considering that this show came as a progressing one & how Ishwari's character changed to positive note few days back, I thought Ishwari Ji will actually understand Sona's pain rather than harassing her physically, mentally, emotionally & who knows socially for the same.

As for Bijoy, his sentiments as a father are acceptable & natural but his unnecessary speaking in every matter by directly coming to the Dixit house is something I don't like. He can handle matters from the distance too as the males in the family actually do.

Well no wonder why Sonakshi will agree to all that Ishwari Ji will say as she herself want to be a mother desperately only for Ishwari's happiness. From day one of this track, she considers the baby magical & lucky not because it is the symbol of her husband's love but because it brought Ishwari closer to her which she had always wanted (An acceptance from her MIL as her daughter).

I don't know what to say to Ishwari's character. I don't even have a word to describe what this woman portrays. (She just makes my temper high & get on my nerves). I don't know who writes her dialogues. They are too harsh to listen & handle. I have never hated her dialogues that much but her words to Sonakshi in last 2 episodes were just unbearable.

And as per the latest buzz of Dev unintentionally slapping Bijoy, now I would want Sona to move out of this marriage with dignity prioritizing her's & her parent's self-respect first rather than her love for Dev. Because love has no meaning without the respect. And Dev has to realize that he cannot be an obedient son to his mother on all the matters. He must realize that his mother is just an another human & mother who does everything for her children & not God.

I actually disliked Dev in last 2 days episodes on how he forgot his wife just because his mother behaved insanely. And felt sad for Sona for being alone & helpless in this situation. Ishwari Ji's, GKB's shouldn't even be talked about. And Sourabh needs to learn that just because his Brother-in-law lent him investment in business doesn't mean your sister will pay for that greatness of his by being tortured on multiple aspects especially the emotional ones by his family. And that doesn't make Dev any greater. But this favor of Dev on Sourabh will make Sona indecisive & uncertain to an extent.

My mum says this show is very very close to reality & I am left wondering what actually happens to such girls in real life. I mean how do they even deal with it. It's really hard to imagine.

So, now I want Sona to come up with some separation from Dev & let the prenup truth come into limelight. I want Dev to not to rant Ishwari Mata's name repeatedly.
So if slapping is there then please CVs, also do bring a strong, confident & independent Sonakshi who takes stand for her parents & not like other girls who stand firmly, show anger to her husband in private & then forget on husband's potrayal of bedroom love.
If Sona's character is for real then any real world modern girl will do the same in today's scenario for her self-respect.
I just don't want Sona's character to be butchered as her character does the reality check. That even when husbands claim to respect their confident, independent & educated wives & love them, how miserable their lives can get at times in the high class societies too.

Dev's character is what women hate the most in their husbands i.e. their bling faith & worship of their parents. And sadly they exist in reality. Nothing can justify his actions at times. I sometime find him purely selfish. He doesn't wanna lose Sonakshi (at no cost) & not upset his mother at the same time. And he is even ready to compromise with Sona for his mother but not the other way around. (his actions have proved it repeatedly)

And there have been some really nice progressing shows like Dehleez (on Star Plus) which portrayed and handled the saas-bahu disputes very beautifully in judicial & family matters then why can't this show do the same. We have seen Ishwari's negative & obsessive colors of Ishwari's love. But now CVs please show us some positive colours of Ishwari's love too. (As you say Kuch rang pyar ke aise bhi- There must be some positivity too)

Long post, but had to lent out the frustration building up for few days. Many wouldn't even read it.
Bashes & rotten tomatoes are most welcome for my desire for separation. Any other opinion too on high class real life atrocities about infertility & marriages.

The saving grace is only the fact that bijoy is stillin his senses and he knows exactly dev and ishwari are capable of..

And of course seems sona has awaken and atlast asking the right questions to the god and her devotee...
Hopefully there will be a rebellion soon and sona will put everyone in their place ...as long as cvs show a strong sona coming out of this track .. i am all for it

As for Bijoy, his sentiments as a father are acceptable & natural but his unnecessary speaking in every matter by directly coming to the Dixit house is something I don't like. He can handle matters from the distance too as the males in the family actually do.

@srilotus-Why should the girl's father stand outside her husband's house after being chucked out by the same husband? Can he not feel bad or slighted by the insult? Also what is wrong is worrying about his daughter and calling her over to her maternal home so she can get some relief?

How practical would it have been to stand for hours outside the house, under the sun, etc... for a senior citizen couple? Not a very kind suggestion, mind you to wait for hours outside the house.

As for Ishwari, she definitely behaved like a tantrum throwing child. I'm glad someone pointed out correct flaw in Ishwari. And it's not Sona's fault that she evesdrops outside a couple's bedroom at night and than throws tantrums in morning.

I am not surprised that Sona is not able to protect herself from such venomous people. No one from a loving family is able to comprehend such people's sick manipulations.

But Bijoy is not naive and he totally gets Ishwari and that is why he is pissed. Hope Asha too feels atleast some anger and disappointment on Dev and Iswari