The imperfectly perfect WIFE ! - Page 5

Originally posted by: pritzz

@blackorwhite You have put it all so in perfect words 👏👏..

#red Exactly.. Shivaay still has to see the real Anika.. I had made a post earlier long back about Their different worlds and how they need to see each other in their own worlds and see what they really are.. Anika has always seen Shivaay in his world.. even she knows Shivaay only half of what he is.. I sure when Shivaay comes to Anikas world.. She will see a different billu altogether.. Same as Shivaay has seen anika only in his world what anika actually is.. will surprise him even more.. because Anika is way stronger and way more weaker in her own world.. They have just crossed the "crush phase" and entered "friendship phase" but all the way from the very start thier Love is budding and blooming it's own pace 😳 so you see the intensity and partnership and passion comes from there.. 😆 I guess Love will be attained only when they accept till then.. they will just swift through phases of love journey and All emotions are going to just fluctuate 😆😆

Originally posted by: Simplypriceless

Anika is impefect and perfect too at the sametime. It's great here the man knows how to cook in the relationship and the woman doesn't.

I love Shivika ❤️

Originally posted by: asya34

I guess what I meant by this was how Shivvay was prior to Daksh messing with his mind. I don't know if I can explain this but I will try 😆
Forget about Shivvay - Annika on the romantic or married level and think of them just as 2 individuals who have been brought together by circumstances as common acquaintances. Lets just focus on the personalities - not background, families they come from or any external factors that might affect them. Just Shivvay - Just Annika. Pure and simple

Prior to Daksh, Shivvay (for Ganpati Visarjan, leaving his marriage to look for a clue to solve the murder charges, etc) did not really overthink too much before he trusted her, except where Tia was concerned.
Of course, he was given more opportunities to trust her than she had been given to trust him but even so he had more opportunities to profile her than she had to profile him.

Hence his actions on the wedding day took her by complete surprise.
Shivvay had/has never claimed to be a good, straight honest man who fits in a certain mold that society has termed as moral and right. Heck!! he even surprised Tej with the extent he would go to to preserve his NKK.
I remember him telling Annika not to be so good to him because he is not a good man by nature. He admits and is very aware how nasty and vile he can be when it comes to his family.
Annika never took any of that seriously and only saw Shivvay being caring, loving and good when he was at home.
I guess to cut a long story short - Shivvay knows and understands that Annika is a good person and loving person at heart even to people she may not be related to as family. She shows what she is and is not a difficult person to read. She does not say one thing and then the next minute change into another person at the flip of a switch - she is constant. Not perfect without flaws - I mean constant. Those are the kind of people she has met all her life because those are normal everyday people.

BUT
Shivvay, on the other hand, is like an unstable chemical. One minute the man is this and the next minute he is that. He changes constantly and is a mystery to anyone who might really want to make a lasting connection with him. Even with his brothers, he never really is honest about who he is. It is a facade, not the real Shivvay who is completely another person in private.
That is the puzzle that Annika hit upon and solved today which made her life easier. She realized that Shivvay is many people in one body and that he can flip his switch anytime to turn into this other person with ease. Kinda like a super power.
She has taken all he has done till today at face value without actually tuning into the extremely volatile Dark and Dangerous Man he is at certain times. She has only now understood that he can be many persons in one day and many moods in one hour. Normal people are not like that but then SSO never claimed to be a normal man.
He was unaffected when she said she was leaving but then in his own weird way made her realize that it was her decision to leave - he may have asked her to sign but he did not once ask her to leave as he has done many times before. He kept saying that even when she came back but by then it was too late because she had already solved the mystery that was him and it did not matter what he said because she knew what he meant.
This is a positive thing not a negative thing in my opinion because now she does not have to keep asking him, "App aise kyun hai... kabhi acche .. kabhi bure..." etc. She now knows he is unstable and not constant and that she should not take all he shows, does and says at face value sometimes but should read into the body language. That is tuning in.

Now the relationship can progress because she is in a comfortable place with her understanding about him. She will no longer cry in frustration if he flips the switch on her, in fact she will probably have a name very soon for each of these avataars like I do with my husband ... lol
He is not as complex as SSO but since he is a Gemini he does flip his switch very often. I call him Dr. Seuss and the 2 people who live inside - Thing 1 and Thing 2 😆 So when he flips the switch on me I ask him very straight up " Is this Thing 1 or Thing 2 ? Who am I speaking with now?" 😆

Shivvay accepting Annika in spite of the NNK is still a very long way off and Annika forgiving him for what he did may also surface in the future but that is not what I meant by 'accepting Annika'.
Sorry for the long and boring post . I hope I made some sense

Originally posted by: blackorwhite

That is an interesting post 😊 If that is what you meant by tuning in.. I'll somewhat agree with it..

IMO, Anika always knew he is volatile because that is how he has always acted - - One moment he is her savior and other moment her destroyer..😡One good thing about Shivaay - he SHOWS what he FEELS 😆.. But he is KANFUSED about his own feeling and that is a topic for a different day 😆

Anyhow, as Anika-Shivaay are similar-similar(but different😉😆), even though subconsciously she knew that he is volatile... she had never accepted it.. 😆 Instead of tuning in, I would say she has finally accepted the many facets of Shivaay... As she has finally verbalized this characteristic of Shivaay's personality, now she won't be surprised any more 🤣
Bang on!!! I guess yes, you could say that too ... she knew but had not accepted ... that is what she needed to do in his case 'accept' not just know

Next shock for Anika would be the actually understand patni-vrata talk that she is doing... When Shivaay will verbalize her dialogues, then Anika will realize what she is signing up for 🤣 Inn dono ka kuch nahi ho sakta hai!! 😆
lol that is true ... I think she assumes that he still considers this a temporary relationship and will never act on that 'marital status' between them. I mean I would too if I were in her place. He has never ever made the moves on her so she thinks she is very safe where he is concerned. If this changes from Shivvay's side, which it looks like it is going to, she is going to be very shocked. I don't mean he is going to go all out but he is going to enjoy tormenting and teasing her for sure. I can see him enjoying that immensely only because how uncomfortable she is going to be with this new level of intimacy.
The scene with Tia in his room I feel is after their hug under the stairs. Annika may refute what Rumya mentions about her being jealous of Tia or something like that and I feel Shivvay challenges Annika about that. Then he uses Tia to prove his point. I cannot see him sleeping calmly while Tia is trying to seduce him unless he knew Annika was going to enter at that time.
I think the dynamic is slowly changing between the two and becoming more relaxed and friendly enough for Shivvay to now tease Annika. She has always teased him but I don't believe he has ever relaxed with her till recently.
I remember him doing an about turn after the hug the next day when he saw her approach and I remember laughing and thinking this is going to flip one day.
Annika will be doing an about turn seeing Shivvay approaching and run to hide behind her very amused Devars.

Shivaay is Gemini?
Nahi Yaar! my Hubby is Gemini. I was using him as an example ...lol

Wasn't his birthday supposed to be in September based on the Kundali(I think)?
You are right. CV's conveniently forgot as usual ... 😆
And this reminds me.. Abhi tak kissi bhi character ka birthday nahi aaya 😆 Can the next event be a birthday celebration instead of marriage or divorce.. 😃 Rudy or Om's birthday 😊
I would like that but not with the '3 vamps' yaar!! I am so irritated with their scenes
Or even a proper RumYa marriage with all the rituals etc ... that will be fun as well

AND Happy New Year(jinka 2017 aa gaya hai) and advance mein Happy New Year(Jin logo ka aane wala hai) 🥳
Happy New Year to you as well Love... I still have a few more hours to go

Originally posted by: asya34

Next shock for Anika would be the actually understand patni-vrata talk that she is doing... When Shivaay will verbalize her dialogues, then Anika will realize what she is signing up for 🤣 Inn dono ka kuch nahi ho sakta hai!! 😆

lol that is true ... I think she assumes that he still considers this a temporary relationship and will never act on that 'marital status' between them. I mean I would too if I were in her place. He has never ever made the moves on her so she thinks she is very safe where he is concerned. If this changes from Shivvay's side, which it looks like it is going to, she is going to be very shocked. I don't mean he is going to go all out but he is going to enjoy tormenting and teasing her for sure. I can see him enjoying that immensely only because how uncomfortable she is going to be with this new level of intimacy.

Again I look at this slightly different.. I don't want Anika to react due to changes from Shivaay's side(Though since the kidnapping, MU clearing and fake divorce 👏, he should change😆) I want Anika to realize the changes that are happening within her head/heart.. Being a wife is not about giving gyaan to Tia about MS/Sindoor(She needs to stop doing that ) OR protecting Shivaay from problems/issue, it is also about letting him know her 😊. Both of them are have taken this whole thing for granted.. I want both of them to introspect on the HAQ that they show and want.. 😆

The scene with Tia in his room I feel is after their hug under the stairs. Annika may refute what Rumya mentions about her being jealous of Tia or something like that and I feel Shivvay challenges Annika about that. Then he uses Tia to prove his point. I cannot see him sleeping calmly while Tia is trying to seduce him unless he knew Annika was going to enter at that time.

Not going to judge Shivaay based on the precap 😆 But I think you are right.. Challenge-Challenge mode is anyways going on..😊

I think the dynamic is slowly changing between the two and becoming more relaxed and friendly enough for Shivvay to now tease Annika. She has always teased him but I don't believe he has ever relaxed with her till recently.

Yeah dynamics are changing.. They are becoming friends.. Letting the other enter their personal space(not physically but mentally and emotionally).. They are communicating and that is the best part.. 😊

" Meine Panika pe pani pehka" How proud he was? Adorable.. He is showing another facet of his personality to Anika😊

I remember him doing an about turn after the hug the next day when he saw her approach and I remember laughing and thinking this is going to flip one day.
Annika will be doing an about turn seeing Shivvay approaching and run to hide behind her very amused Devars.

Flip toh hona hi hai.. Takkar ki relationship jo hai 😆 I wish it was timed better but anyways.. 😆

Rudy or Om's birthday 😊

I would like that but not with the '3 vamps' yaar!! I am so irritated with their scenes
Or even a proper RumYa marriage with all the rituals etc ... that will be fun as well

I have made a deal with the devil.. If Anika stops her Patni vs Saut fight with Tia, I'll tolerate the 3 vamps 😆 I can ignore them if the tracks do not revolve around them which unfortunately it is 😭

AND Happy New Year(jinka 2017 aa gaya hai) and advance mein Happy New Year(Jin logo ka aane wala hai) 🥳
Happy New Year to you as well Love... I still have a few more hours to go

I also have almost 10 hours to go.. But since Bharat mein ho gaya hai started sending IST wishes to everyone