Originally posted by: Ms.Purplegoth
NOTE
Hi there all ! No, I am not updating 😆 this is just a small little note to clarify some doubts my dear readers have about abhiya in this story . So some of my readers commented that Abhiya were going too fast and the meet the parents was too soon . And that they hadn't shared all their past to each other . In my opinion , if u have been together for 7 months or take 6 months it's pretty long to be together and not at all fast . And abhiya have been together for 7 months , the initial months they were just casually 'friends with benefits ' but it was in a sort of way dating . They lived together , got to know each other's weak points, good points , learned to trust each other and moved on from the sad state they had before . I don't really believe in the 'earth shattering declaration of love ' , it's good in movies and books but on a realistic approach if u get a guy like Abhay who supports u , heals u of alcoholism , trusts u , u know u love that guy . Love is all about companionship and how well u understand each other . As for secrets , I would like to say both the individuals in this story r trying to move on from their pasts , it isn't necessary to tell each and every moment of ur past to ur significant other or how many people u dated if u r happy the way u r and then the past isn't needed to be explained . Of course Pia is insecure about revealing Jey and her dad to Abhay and Abhay knows Pia is hiding something but he won't force her to tell him because he understands Pia will tell him on her accord when she's ready . As for Abhay , he doesn't want to involve Aleena in his relationship because he knows Lia is his past and doesn't want to ruin their relationship by mentioning her . He did tell Pia about her actually if u guys noticed , how she ran on the day of their marriage . But he just didn't mention her name as it was his private thing which is completely normal , we don't like to mention our exes name to our boyfriends in real life , do we ? It's private And If not telling the information is not harming anyone , it's ok to keep them to ourselves .
. And no they r not thinking about long term or dreaming it , they haven't thought about marriage at all. They r just in the initial happy stage of relationship which every couple has been in . As for meet the parents , Abhay is very close to his mother and during Christmas every Christian has a get together with his family . Abhay's mum is not coming to judge Pia for marriage , she just wants to meet the girl who Abhay is dating . As I said I always try to keep it realistic , if i am in a relationship with a guy for 7 months or even a month I would meet his parents not for marriage but because parents do have a right to know who u r dating, its quite healthy . I don't know about others , but that's what my mum told me , ' it doesn't matter if u aren't sure about where ur relationship is going but it is important that u let us meet him , we won't judge u guys '. And that's how Abhay's mum is , she was for obvious reasons quite distraught for Abhay after Lia and just wants to see who Pia is . And those who think Abhiya's relationship isn't progressing , it very much is ! Abhay the playboy has gone from sleeping with random ladies to being a one lady man , he has stopped thinking about Lia , he cares for Pia and adjusts to her needs . And that isn't easy for a guy to do , every guy loves his space, freedom and privacy , and a playboy never changes his way . And Pia who stopped trusting people after Jey and her dad has changed a lot because of Abhay , she left her addiction that she got after having her baby . She chose to tell Abhay about her baby , there again she did share parts of her life which were necessary to be told . She opened up to him about her life ambitions and Abhay supported her. if this is not progressing , then I really don't know what is . Because in real life it takes a lot to do this , open a piece of urself to another person . Sure their relationship isn't perfect but which is ? They still have a lot of hiccups to go through , but they will gradually .
All in all through this ff , I just want to portray love to be an easy emotion which u experience with someone who u r comfortable with , who can both be ur mate and a friend at times . Someone who accepts u even when u in ur ugly sweatshirts , when u drool while sleeping or any one who listens to u while u bitch about ur family or ur boss . Not movies or romantic version of books where I don't know , love is just made too damn complicated .
Oh my god , just saw how big my note got , sorry for that 😆 . I guess itna lecture kafi h 😆 . I respect ur opinion and constructive criticism and welcome it . I hope if anyone had doubts it's cleared :) and I had to get this off my chest , u see my stories r like my babies 😆 . Adios people ! Studies await me ! 😆
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