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Originally posted by: tanvismile

I agree with you. The highlighted points👏

I think you have explained better them me.

That's why I always felt vandana isn't wrong... But their approach isn't right. But then we are imperfect humans..

I always wondered that how will arjun deal with the change? Saanjh will somehow gather courage and move on.

Currently he is just busy flying but very soon he will witness the changes which he wouldn't be able to accept. Till today saanjh always been there and he knows she always be there just like before. But that's not possible always... She can't do arjun arjun jaap all the time.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

I agree with you. The highlighted points 👏

I think you have explained better them me.

That's why I always felt vandana isn't wrong... But their approach isn't right. But then we are imperfect humans..

I always wondered that how will arjun deal with the change? Saanjh will somehow gather courage and move on.

Currently he is just busy flying but very soon he will witness the changes which he wouldn't be able to accept. Till today saanjh always been there and he knows she always be there just like before. But that's not possible always... She can't do arjun arjun jaap all the time.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

@green: that is the most important thing. Whatever others might think about A-S relationship, the main thing is what Arjun wants. I accept that Saanjh & Arjun are close friends from childhood and it has been like that for the past 20 years. But when a person enters the professional world, things no longer remain the same in most of the cases.

Arjun is the person who does not give much importance to relationships. He makes friends easily with others & is a very caring person but marriage is the most important decision that has to be taken. Even if both the families agree, it is equally important that the guy and the girl should also agree. After all, they are the ones to spend their lives with each other. In this case, no one cares what Arjun wants. Saanjh and Maya love the same person but what Arjun has got in his mind is unknown till now.

Why only childhood buddies? Even if you look from the lovers perspective, there are many factors which have to be considered. Knowing a person & spending your life with that person are entirely different. In college life, the college students do keep boyfriends and girlfriends but not all of them click or materialize. There are so many love failures because of many reasons. One of the reasons is the changing of needs either from the guy's side or the girl's side. When they enter professional or the corporate world, one cannot expect things to be the same. That has been the main problem with Saanjh, Ayaan, Vandana and Saanjh's parents.

They have never really tried to understand Arjun. Saanjh could not reduce the gap between Arjun and Vandana for 20 years whereas Maya is capable of doing the same within 20 minutes.

Saanjh is a lawyer but she said that Ayan has to be in jail for 2 days as the court will not be open for 2 days. But Maya bailed him out in no time.

Saanjh can only stand for Arjun and give him emotional support. But Maya can give Arjun much more to Arjun than what Saanjh can give. So that makes the difference.

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

@green: that is the most important thing. Whatever others might think about A-S relationship, the main thing is what Arjun wants.

that's true , no one is really interested to discuss about V , because that's really what my topic is about , its all a AnS vs AnM fight or S vs M... And we know what arjun wants ... The problem everyone only care about the romantic side ... But fact is we know what he wants ...

I accept that Saanjh & Arjun are close friends from childhood and it has been like that for the past 20 years. But when a person enters the professional world, things no longer remain the same in most of the cases.

actually friends usually don't depend on jobs , unless well in AnS case cause maya is A's boss

Arjun is the person who does not give much importance to relationships. He makes friends easily with others & is a very caring person but marriage is the most important decision that has to be taken. Even if both the families agree, it is equally important that the guy and the girl should also agree.


hundred percent agreed ... And can't remember anyone forcing arjun ...


After all, they are the ones to spend their lives with each other. In this case, no one cares what Arjun wants. Saanjh and Maya love the same person but what Arjun has got in his mind is unknown till now.

Again true ... Actually they would be forced to carte because they can't force him to accept unless blackmail...

Why only childhood buddies? Even if you look from the lovers perspective, there are many factors which have to be considered. Knowing a person & spending your life with that person are entirely different. In college life, the college students do keep boyfriends and girlfriends but not all of them click or materialize.


fun part is SnA haven't tried to know if they click or not ... And it can't be all on friend ship cause we all have many friends so why don't we just say enee menee miny moo


There are so many love failures because of many reasons. One of the reasons is the changing of needs either from the guy's side or the girl's side.


or changes in wants like in arjuns case , but difference is , I spend time looking at it as romantic and more as best friends drifting apart ... Many people are too focused on S love A ...


When they enter professional or the corporate world, one cannot expect things to be the same. That has been the main problem with Saanjh, Ayaan, Vandana and Saanjh's parents.

but not really to me the main problem is saanjh never had the courage and the entire family wants her to just say it ... It has nothing to do with the job ... Arjun could have still met a girl whie walking down the street ... This has nothing to do with his job or jobs in general .. Its just the fact that now this girl is his boss

They have never really tried to understand Arjun.


to their understanding he loves her too ... And for them to know he doesn't saanjh has to speak so arjun can reject ...



Saanjh could not reduce the gap between Arjun and Vandana for 20 years whereas Maya is capable of doing the same within 20 minutes.

everything can't be S vs M ... It was NEVER saanjh JOB to reduce this gap ... It not her sole reason to exist ... And neither was it maya's

Saanjh is a lawyer but she said that Ayan has to be in jail for 2 days as the court will not be open for 2 days. But Maya bailed him out in no time.

and as a lawyer am sure she was right ... And as an intern with no power ... Well that sucks ... And Maya with the power good for her ... Am sure no one expected saanjh to gain all the influence and power over night ... DO THEY ??

Saanjh can only stand for Arjun and give him emotional support.

questionable...

But Maya can give Arjun much more to Arjun than what Saanjh can give.


again a putting the ladies against each other ... yes maya has the power but that power isn't everything ... She herself isn't emotionally stable enough or knows what it means to be in a relationship ... So what they have is power ...


So that makes the difference.

a big difference which is left for arjun to decide and see what is real and what is not real ...

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha

@brown so at one point he will do same with maya (that is take her for granted )

As of now, Arjun has not committed anything to Saanjh or Maya. Who knows? Once Arjun gets into commitment, he might change.

@pink can u explain how ? She could not cope with her childhood trauma, v hates her n she gives her beyhadgiri reaction that arjun will be hers . Maya believes who has power , he/she is always right ( in short she feels she is always right ) so how she will handle the difference?

Sometimes it happens that you cannot solve some of your problems on your own but you solve others problems easily. I don't care the damn about Vandana after 27th December 2016 episode. she has become so blind in her love 4 Saanjh and hatred towards Maya that she can't see anything beyond that. Had Vandana been little human with her, she too would have been nice to her. Don't forget that Maya has indirectly made Arjun realize that he has been unjust to her.

Originally posted by: Africanqueenkel