Every woman is different

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Is every woman different or every woman the same. It is a beautiful thing we woman should ask ourselves.
In a way we all are same, but yes as individuals we differ in the scale of being good or bad. The path to a woman's heart is one and same. To get a woman in real terms a man has to conquer her heart. How many girls in this forum will disagree to me on that.

Here I am not talking about why both girls are running after Arjun or why Arjun is desirable for both the girls. I am just telling what a girl generally looks in a boy or what a woman looks in a man.

If you ask me we woman need emotional security and it is a fact we loved having those tender talks than the actual physical relation. We have to be connected to a man to think about physical relation and for men it is vicaversa. For them physical attraction is first thing and over a period of time emotional closeness happens. It is not that they dont need emotional support, but more than woman physical relation is important to them.

Here today Arjun proved he doesnt understand a woman. And the reason for this is he has been deprived of his mother's love. If he had been grown up with mother's love in the right manner he would have understood Saanjh's feelings. He would have known what Maya is upto. That void is making him behave like this.

Today was Saanjh's chance if she really wanted Arjun. She should have told yes I love you and that's why I say Maya is conning you. But no she wanted Arjun to believe she was different. And she lost the golden chance.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree.. Arjun doesnot understand women...he is too ignorant of saanjh as well as maya feelings.. I thought saanjh would say yes today..she dissapointed me really.. If she would have said atleast arjun would understand why she is so against of him comforting maya.. If she nevers says she will loose arjun, with or without maya being there..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@sona many times a woman expects a man to understand her without her telling him anything. To be frank it doesnt happen that way. A lesson I learnt post marriage. If you can communicate with them, tell them your problems, open up yourself they will accommodate you in a better manner. It is not that they dont care, but it takes them time for understanding.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Arjun has no sense about how a woman feels . Saanjh doesn't help either. Today was her day where she could be honest with him & told him about her feelings but she got tongue tied .
Today Ashwin said Arjun will himself run away once he gets to know Maya's past . Yeah.. he will... maybe... cuz Maya is totes crazy but I feel he will run away once he comes to know even Saanjh loves him too cuz that will certainly come as a big blow to him . Arjun will feel more confused about the ways women feel ...when he couldn't understand his bestie's feelings for him which the whole colony actually knows about ... how can Saanjh expect him to understand Maya's intentions & her dark plans ...like really Saanjh ?!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Saanjh thought and thought and thought, and by then, Arjun answered for her 😆

Looks like tomorrow might be the "Holi" (or some painting perhaps?) like epi where Arjun catches hold of Maya- the clothes they are wearing today seem to be the same as that earlier promo.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Exactly unique. Saanjh is not helping Arjun in understanding her
@ae I loved the way Arjun answered her " Nahi naa" 😆😆😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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shruthi, how fantastic was jenny today? easily the show stealer of every episode. displaying such range of emotions in a short period of time is not easy, but jenny is effortless.
Maya is crazy and I love her pagalpan. today she showed her madness for arjun. I don't think it is love but for the first time she felt something for someone and she thinks it is love. the new feelings brings new possibilites therefore losing arjun is equivalent to death for her. Inside, Maya is a tormented woman. she came from an abusive home and lost everything without gaining much. Every sliver of hope is something worth grasping on to and she will hold onto it at any cost. that is where her madness lies, it comes from a place of insecurity and yearning. in addition, I wonder if she had a pre existing mental condition which was further aggravated by ashwin.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Good one yet again, Shruthi! 😳 Agreed with everything except for the bit where you said Saanjh could have confessed her feelings to Arjun today. I completely get why Saanjh has become more hesitant, reluctant and sceptical (esp. ever since Maya came into picture) to confess her love to Arjun. She doesn't seem to fear rejection as such but she's afraid because there's a lot at stake, their friendship. That's one relationship every fibre of Saanjh is made of and something she's given all of hers to. It's quite natural on her part. I think somewhere she knows Arjun does harbour some feelings for her and those feelings have the potential to turn into love. And hadn't Saanjh seen that dark shade of Maya's, I do think she'd have let go of Arjun readily provided he too loved her. She might still do that in the future when Arjun too would have fallen for Maya.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: TheUnique

Arjun has no sense about how a woman feels . Saanjh doesn't help either. Today was her day where she could be honest with him & told him about her feelings but she got tongue tied .
Today Ashwin said Arjun will himself run away once he gets to know Maya's past . Yeah.. he will... maybe... cuz Maya is totes crazy but I feel he will run away once he comes to know even Saanjh loves him too cuz that will certainly come as a big blow to him . Arjun will feel more confused about the ways women feel ...when he couldn't understand his bestie's feelings for him which the whole colony actually knows about ... how can Saanjh expect him to understand Maya's intentions & her dark plans ...like really Saanjh ?!

first time I completely agree with you..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@pom yesterday I strongly felt Maya has multiple personality disorder. That one moment of change in her. She has it. I dont know she recognizes it when it surfaces but she has it. It has been termed pagalpan without understanding the reason why the alter egos has come up
@anni yes saanjh values friendship. If she keeps friendship over and above love she will remain his friend. She cannot complain Arjun went away from her. Because Arjun will always be Saanjh's friend no matter what.

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