Sanjh want arjun to get fired - Page 4

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha

Well with due respect i slightly differ from ur pov . Right know even though saanjh is nagging her intentions are not to control arjun but make him safe from danger/risk she feels due to Maya .She has seen her MADNESS. she was the one who realised maya loves arjun before arjun could understand. She is the one who wanted to arjun settle with job who kept quitting earlier, she was more happier to success of arjun than arjun himself . Than y she wanted him to quit? Because of her instincts She knows arjun will fall in trouble once he denies maya , he is working under her .

Frankly even quitting job will not safe him coz maya anyway would have destroyed him if he had rejected her n resigned.

But may be less damage compare to working under her .

And he is digging his own grave by not giving maya answer and at the same time blowing her fire of love . He is not even aware that maya is entering deeper in their lives and he too is getting involved more in her life . Maya is gaining control over life not over his heart which is dangerous very dangerous.

Where as saanjh can fights do all nagging but ultimately she yields to arjun's demands . Their relationship is equivocal she also knows to bend for arjun without changing her self .

And yes she is possessive for arjun , she will never like maya taking her place as frn love and she will react but i don't think she will harm arjun to win him back .

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Well said 👏

Originally posted by: katrinasalman

Saanjh's intentions might be good but she is very pushy. Arjun is focussing on his career. He has not even thought about his marriage. I'm only saying that Saanjh is very much immature. If she was matured, she wouldn't have come to Arjun's office if he had not taken his call. Whenever I see Saanjh doing that, I would feel that "Yeh Saanjh ke paas aur koi kaam dhanda nahin hain kya?" Does she not have any other work or what? I wonder how does her boss Multani tolerate these things. Arjun stood for her when her own father came to torture her in her workplace. She finds that solace in Arjun. Maya has been tortured by Ashwin from her childhood and it still continues. She deserves true love in her life. She will be fine once Arjun falls for her.

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha

If u see perspective of each person they might be right

In their place

Arjun want to finally focus in career good , previously he was not that interested. Now since he got benefits so early which he thinks due to hard work but actually its maya's pampering he doesn't want quit . He is impulsive and carefree does not think of future , often not gud in judging a person . T k eg of his step mon who actually cares for him . No wrong in caree focus but is it right not to give answer ? Do u think Maya would have not harmed him if had to continue job after rejection. Maya is victim herself don't know exact story but that does not allow her to control and destroy other. There is absolutely no wrong to fall in love , pamper n protect sum1 lovedones. No harm to be possessive and little demanding . But there should be a limit and as you know maya 's love is behadh.

Maya never pampered him in at the beginning. She was getting upset with Arjun for his unprofessional behavior by coming late to the office, going out to have an ice-cream with Saanjh during the working hours. Initially, Arjun was working only when his place used to be in danger but later on he stopped taking Maya's calls. From then on, she began to behave like a bossy wife. She has not even told Arjun that she loves him. Arjun is basically attracted to Maya. That is the first reason why he asked for some time. Arjun's job used to be at stake because of Saanjh though she takes the trouble to wake him up in the morning and get ready for work. Saanjh's love may be selfless but it is one-sided.

Where as saanjh she is literally grown as arjun's soulmate . Arjun is dependent on her for evry trival matter. Everyone from both arjun and her family thing she is their arjun's life partner. So on her pov there is nothing wrong to be little protective and possessive about arjun. Till now her instincts look accurate so i don't find abnormal when actually panicks rather than minor jealousy when maya is around arjun . Coz she thinks arjun will bepushed towards danger more maya comes close to him . Hence she often behaves desperate. But i have also seen no matter how much they fight they need each other , they seek forgivness and forgive each other. She ultimately trust arjun when he convince her .

How can Saanjh be Arjun's soulmate when her love for him is one-sided? Arjun loves Saanjh only as a friend. Not as anything else. I agree that Arjun depends on Saanjh for every trivial matter but that does not mean that he loves Saanjh. If he loved Saanjh, he wouldn't have let Saanjh move on with someone else. He would have brought the proposal before her parents. Maya is not completely negative that she will push Arjun to danger. Who knows? She might change after Arjun professes his love to her. Moreover, Arjun is not a kid that he cannot take care of himself. Yes, Arjun needs Saanjh though they fight but if her nagging & doubting goes beyond limits, then Arjun will eventually drift away from her.

But maya she doesn't react much she manipulate situation to get arjun closer , where as saanjh does not . Remember she cancelled off of arjun indirectly by asking other person to present project . The difference between maya n saanjh love is one is extreme with no limit other knows her boundry will not miss use her athuority or blackmail. Saanjh will respect arjun space ultimately and her love is selfless .

I don't say that Maya is an angel or a right partner for Arjun but I doubt whether Saanjh is. Yes, Maya did cancel Arjun indirectly by asking someone else to present the project. But Saanjh cut Maya's photo in the newspaper when they cracked the deal. She also said that he should have let Mays jump from the flying balloon whih will solve the problem. This shows that Saanjh is selfish too.

May be due to true love or impulsive descion arjun might fall for maya n hurt saanjh will go away . Will stop nagging coz one day she will have to put her self respect above love . But goingoing by theme of story n ckts it is arjun who needs saanjh more than viceversa

Arjun is attracted to Maya & he does not feel the same for Saanjh. If Arjun falls for Maya, he would have developed the feelings for her.

Originally posted by: SaurabhKiRadha

@katrinasalman

@ ur first paragraph u only cleared wat i said . Maya never pampered arjun b4 she fell in love only after falling in luv she is showering fame ,gifts , promotions etc . Her intentions for her action is clear ,to win n gain control over arjun.

I don't remember arjun's job in trouble due to saanjh .

Maya had asked Arjun to make a presentation for the conference meeting wherein her important clients will be coming. When Arjun was preparing for the presentation, Saanjh kept calling him. When Arjun didn't pick the call, Saanjh came to his office, leaving her work. She didn't even wait outside. She simply barged in and pulled Arjun to have an ice cream with him. This had upset Maya as the meeting was very important and Arjun's presence was very much needed. Maya had postponed the meeting and told Arjun to collect his termination letter. But Arjun was lucky to get back his job. Saanjh had almost succeeded in that. This is not the first time. She has come to his office many times and disturbed him like this. Just for her sake, she cannot get somebody in trouble especially her loved ones.

@2nd para

By soulmate i never meant lovers or husband wife. Soulmate can be your frn /siblings /parents /pet/ life partner depending upon heart to heart connection. And i see this connection in arjun n saanjh irrespective of arjun feeling for saanjh . Judging by theme and mayas scenes show will loose essence if maya had to turn positive and understanding . Wats point in naming it behadh , make maya gopi bahu than. Maya needs psychiatric therapy for her anxiety obsession and depression. 4 arjun to fall in love with maya there should be valid connection of hearts even arjun should feel dependent on maya emotionally so they can make it convincing that arjun wil accept maya with her flaws , give her psychiatric treatment and ready to loose and bend b4 maya in her illness. & This drifting away is necessary for track to progress and more than saanjh arjun will be responsible for it. as whenever she will try to alert him he will misunderstand her . All ckts have flaws no1 os perfect which makes them realistic .

Parents and siblings are always constant. They never change. But friends can change. Though Arjun and Saanjh are close, Arjun has never thought of making Saanjh as his life partner. Friendship, lover, and life partner are different. The soulmate does not mean that Saanjh should be after Arjun for all 24 hours. And who is Saanjh to decide whether Maya is right for Arjun or not? She is not his parent or elder sister. No matter how much ever she is to him as a friend, she has no right over him till Arjun himself proposes to her. Who knows? Maya could be the girl for him. There are certain areas in which psychiatrists cannot help. They can only treat the patients but they cannot fulfill the patient's desires. They can only give tablets and therapies but it is the environment that matters. Maya was brought up in a loveless environment. She deserves true love in her life. It is better if Saanjh focusses on her career and not disturb Arjun in his work. She has not even confessed her love to him and she is enforcing her right on him. That is not proper. At least, Maya has confessed her feelings towards him. Even she loves him unconditionally. She also told Arjun that whether he considers her as his own or not but she considers him as a part of her and her feelings are her problems. If Maya is obsessive, Saanjh is no less. She is more obsessed than Maya. If Arjun is drifting away from Saanjh, it is only because she does not give him space. Saanjh herself is responsible for it. She behaves like a possessive girlfriend and a bossy wife. She has been nagging him of late.

@para 3 saanjh may not be perfect wife for arjun but they look perfect together coz they understand each other . Maya is not devil either but she is obessive and unpredictable she can push limits to get arjun back . Watever u mentioned abt saanjh reactions its normal for love sick girl who is literally grown as arjun's wife , why because even arjun fly treats her same . As long as her reaction will not cause harm to anyone , she knows her limits its fine . Her action towards arjun are out of love , she cares for his fly she doesn't intended return benefits whereas maya's each move is calculated so i don't find saanjh selfish just coz she felt little insecurity or jealousy.

I'm not telling that Maya will be a perfect partner for Arjun either. But they have a sizzling chemistry. ArYa is an excellent pair. If Maya is obsessive & unpredictable, Saanjh is no less either. In fact, she is more obsessive than Maya. Saanjh does not have guts to confess her feelings to Arjun. So how is Maya responsible for it? If Saanjh really loves Arjun, she would trust him. She should not treat him like a kid. If Arjun comes to her, then I will be the first person to oppose ArYa but that is not to be.

I don't find arjun being attracted to maya rather he is attracted to her power and position and comfort he enjoys in her company and this is not last longer.if arjun will say yes to maya it will be only in impulsive nature after big fight with saanjh for he has repent later.

Jenny looks hot with kushal quite pleasing to eyes but maya n arjun as happy romantic couple with all this characteristics of their characters and does not go with theme of show .

Aneri n kushal look cute together onscreen bond pleasing to heart , best part of this relationship if arjun n saanjh not matter how far they drift away or get paired with sum1 else they will be there for each other in need.

Setting up a huge empire at a very young age isn't a joke. Maya has achieved it. Arjun respects & admires him for that. He might be close to Saanjh but he only loves her as a friend. If he really loved Saanjh, he was fine with her parents finding a boy for her. If Arjun is getting comforts, it is his work that speaks. If he has got the promotion & a separate cabin, it is because of his performance. Aneri & Kushal may be cute together but Jenny & Kushal are hot. Jenny has a better chemistry with Kushal than Aneri. In Gupt movie, Manisha was looking like an aunt to Bobby Deol. Kajol had suited him better. Kajol was given the psycho role because only she could perform it. Manisha could not have done that. The same goes with Jenny.

Behadh is not a normal romantic show with ordinary love triangle , i love all this realistic ckts with their flaws coz no1 is perfect in this world , we make mistakes we take irrational steps , but that does make anyone irritating it all depends upon situation, person ability to cope up . N both saanjh and arjun have ability to rectify but maya is ckts who is not sorry for her actions. I love grey/negative maya she justified the theme of show . This show will never have perfect happy ending for all ckts depending upon dramatisation 1/2 of any 3 will have very sad ending.

If saanjh goes away it will not make maya n arjun perfect couple , maya's nature n arjun nature will cause major friction. Maya may be successful powerful women who can bring buy happiness for arjun still they don't look perfect with each other. And even if maya goes away it is not necessary that arjun n saanjh will get together, they might show she already moved on by the time he realised his love and even after that they will still care n protect each other . They look like alize n ayan from Adhm , their bond look that strong that they don't need happy ever after ending to show wat they mean to each other.

That is why there are more viewers for this show. Let Maya be a psycho but she shouldn't go to the extent of killing or harming someone. Maya is not negative. She has got gray shades which can be redeemed after she comes to normal. Arjun's love can cure her. Before Arjun came in her life, Maya was getting scared of him but it is only because of his love, she got the courage to face him. Do you thnk that if Maya goes away, Saanjh & Arjun will be a perfect couple? Saanjh could not bail Ayan the same day but Maya did that. If Saanjh had confessed her love 2 Arjun & if he reciprocates to it, that would be a different story.