What is true love?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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What is true love?

I want to ask what's true love? I am not asking the way it should happen but just asking the definition of love.

In my perspective when two individuals getting interdependent on each other and needs to be around each other. Plus with whom you solve the problems with whom you feel relaxed.. No worries... Life becomes easy...
Acceptance of each other... I think this is love... If two people feel incomplete without each other but feels complete together. You don't desire any third persons company..

When I see saanjh and arjun in the show... I always get this feeling... Nobody may agree with me... But I always feel something like they truly love each other. One may use any name for their relationship but the relationship is unique. It's not something like Ayan saanjh... They are also best buddies. But it's much different from them. In the absence of each other, saanjh keeps talking about arjun and in the absence arjun keeps talking about saanjh. Arjun also isn't less clingy then saanjh. He always needs to have saanjh when he is lonely.. They are so transparent to each other...
Now I have seen many shows where in there are best buddies and one of them tends to like the other and the other one doesn't look in that sense but there their relation isn't emphasised too much... It clearly looks like one sided.
Here all family members talk about their relation, In the absence of each other, saanjh keeps talking about arjun and in the absence arjun keeps talking about saanjh. Especially arjun is shown to be dependent on saanjh for trivial matters. A lot of emphasis is given to describe their relation... Their closeness... So it's just doesn't sound like friendship. It's like love in existing in disguise of friendship..

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Even i feel therez is true love but there is a lack of physical attraction/romance... I do get confused at times. Dy r definitely more than frnds.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: nitzy_21

Even i feel therez is true love but there is a lack of physical attraction/romance... I do get confused at times. Dy r definitely more than frnds.


Yes I agree there is lack of physical attraction , that's why we get confused . . But in true love like two people grow old in relation then also there is no attraction. I mean attraction is normally in beginning and it's fades away but love keep growing despite lack of attraction.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I can never define true love yar..seriously...see but love need not have romance,even sometimes we love our best buddy more than our wife/husband,mother and father...love is just love..you need not be life partners but still be soulmates...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

I can never define true love yar..seriously...see but love need not have romance,even sometimes we love our best buddy more than our wife/husband,mother and father...love is just love..you need not be life partners but still be soulmates...


Ofcourse true love exists all relations . . . Like mother child relation . . . Biggest example of true love . . .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Why is love over rated and friendship under rated ?
I think they share a friendship really pure. Love needs to have passion in it.like alizeh said in ae dil hai mushkil ' pyaar mein Junoon hai par dosti mein sukoon hai'.

True in arjuns case as well.

Maya mein Junoon hai and saanjh mein sukoon
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: cactusbutt1123

Why is love over rated and friendship under rated ?

I think they share a friendship really pure. Love needs to have passion in it.like alizeh said in ae dil hai mushkil ' pyaar mein Junoon hai par dosti mein sukoon hai'.

True in arjuns case as well.

Maya mein Junoon hai and saanjh mein sukoon

I feel Junnoon and sooken are filmy words . . .No essence of relationship can be defined in two words.. In a true love (real life) sukoon is needed the most... Unlike the filmy TV shows . . . Alizeth had to say that because she was in love in someone else . . . I haven't seen the film so I can't say about her relationships . .

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Posted: 9 years ago
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talking abt junoon n sukoon maya ke liye arjun uska junoon hai but as v have seen in the last episode voh arjun mein apna sukoon bhi dhoonti hai
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think it's subjective. What definition may apply to me may not apply to you. There's no standard definition that defines the emotion that love is and one cannot really define it unless they have fallen in love themselves. Until then, books and movies are your guide. 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: .annihilation.

I think it's subjective. What definition may apply to me may not apply to you. There's no standard definition that defines the emotion that love is and one cannot really define it unless they have fallen in love themselves. Until then, books and movies are your guide. 😆



great i truly agree with u...👏



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