What is this crappy argument that anika is making: it happened to me, so you shouldn't be angry at Shivaay.
Shivaay still did horrible things, down to threatening a child's life. Should OmRu talk to him like nothing happened just because he had good intentions?
Shivaay always gets away with doing crappy things. Dadi didn't slap him once since the whole wedding. Shivaay got to put Anika in jail without Prinku saying anything. I mean that's your friend man! Shivaay gets to change wedding dates without consulting anyone. He just does as he pleases.
And OmRu letting it go just condoned that behavior. Shivaay will never learn.
The reason why OmRu listened to Anika is that they still can't believe Shivaay did that. They don't know about all the things Shivaay has done such as taking away Anika's job and house in the starting. So they want to believe the good side of Shivaay. They were looking for a reason, and Anika gave it to them.
In two seconds Omru ran to Shivaay. Atleast make Shivaay repent for more than 10 seconds. If the Female lead did something wrong, everyone would hold it against her head for 200 episodes.