Hello Everyone (Please dont kill me)

Originally posted by: Kashish_shine

Before starting my post, i admit of being a HaYa fan but i will be honest & unbiased while replying you as far as possible with my small mind.

Let's start from last:

5) Shakti means strength. It can come from inside or even from outside support. I do agree that the inner potency is required to fight against unjust. But imagine, Soumya was always confined to the four walls of the house. Her world was started with Nimmi & ended with Nimmi. When ever in childhood, she had faced problem, Nimmi came to rescue. Exactly the same goes with Harman. He always protected her from outside rigidity. Never in her life none has given her advice , how to be strong & deal your own problems? Easier said than done. When the past decades were consumed in ignorance, expecting light all on a sudden in 2 months is not right, i feel. We all want a strong Somu undoubtedly but the story progress will take certain time to revitalize the inner strength.

4) Agreed. Preeto shows the typical nature of orthodoxy. Like the concept of Shakti is to fight social prejudice, means the acceptance will come after lots of hardship. If a caring and understanding Preeto will be shown then it will represent a open minded society, then what's the meaning of making the serial? All races of Indian women are not same, So this comparison with mass sounds baseless.

3) This point i will thoroughly disagree. His love is fully consistent with all flaws. Earlier he was attracted to her beauty, then gradually in those 21 days stay he came to know about her inner purity. In those days even he came to know about her Kinnar truth. He lambasted her for hiding the truth, even he cursed god. Even he shouted her to any extent, not to mention his behavior that made her sob every night. Gradually her innocent heart, he liked. He thought her as responsibility, then her friend and now as lover. He crossed all the phases gradually to love her beautiful heart only.

2) While sending Soumya with Harman, surbhi doesn't know that somu will get humiliated to this extent. And not to mention, Surbhi does not possess her own dwelling. Maninder in his dreams even won't allow Somu to stay in his house. Though Surbhi fought for this but Maninder stopped her by shouting. When Surbhi came to know about the sufferings of Soumya, she convinced Somu to go with Naani and her but finally Somu denied. So, Surbhi had tried her best with her own shortcomings in life.

1) this point i agree. this is manhandled by CVs to certain extent. As in parental property which was not ancestral, a child couldn't demand a share. this is basically Indian law, which is overlooked by CVs which gave a wrong message obviously. Here Harman needs to be independent first to take care of him along with his wife. But the darker side is there is certain fault in upbringing of Preeto and Harak Singh. When a child was fed with silver spoon through out his life, his demands will be like this only. Responsibility comes when we do struggle to get an object. If Preeto and Harak Singh would not have agreed to all his small demands in childhood then the situation would have different.

Well , this is my take on your observations.

It's an open forum. Agreement & disagreement are parts of Indian democracy. Positive criticism is always praise worthy as it will destroy the draw backs and a pure essence without loopholes will be come out. Logical reasoning is the best way for discussing. Do come and give your positive points. None will kill you as we fans have no authority on that..

thanks!