Ye meri zimmedari hai...

So after yesterday's episode everyone has one n the same thought n point...

Besan ka halwa has now changed to baadaam ka halwa..

Dev's reaction clearly made us understand one thing that he very well knows that his family has not accepted Sona and Sona's family...hence that surprised look on his face to see both the families together...and to see his mom treating her well...

Ishwari asking Sona to get Dev's clothes ?? !! I felt sad seeing that scene because her MIL could accept her as her DIL and allow her to do the household job ONLY after she came to know that her DIL has conceived...so once she knows the truth imagine Sona's condition...how she will be treated and with Neha around its going to be mess...she is all jealous...

Fate has its own way of looking at life...Ishwari got Dev's sign in the prenup...and If I remember it rt ..one of the clause of the prenup was Sona could not claim anything from Dev even as alimony post their divorce...which also means that if she wins the child custody battle there the chances of Dev providing for the child would be difficult..Ishwari wanted Dev's wealth to be divided among her kids ONLY...at that point in time she never even thought that Dev could have kids and they will have right to own their fathers wealth...so you see what god did...

...lord also saw to that "Sona's body accepts nothing from Dev" that can bring in that bundle of joy to the family .!! No lessons are learnt without pain...sadly would ppl like Iswahri understand the play of Karma I doubt...Ishwari's love and affection for Sona is all because of Dev's child growing in her womb...and not because she has accepted Sona...and thats why I feel Karma will have a lot to do in this...pity Dev and Sona are going to be the bearers of pain ...storm is brewing on top of them...its only a matter of few days ...the day it strikes we will know the depth of trust /affection/sincerity that they have for each other...hope they dont part and strength in their love increases

Originally posted by: Chandniyati

So after yesterday's episode everyone has one n the same thought n point...

Yet again cv's have made us one family... coz we all r wanting Dev to support Sona...

N he will...

Yesterday when issue said Sona not to work at all n take rest , she added that taking care of Sona now is her duty...

N I agree it's a MIL's duty along with love for her daughter-in-law to take care of BOTH... The baby as well as DIL first...

Now I have a thought n question to all MIL out there...

If u claim to perform this duty with love for ur DIL then it's the best thing in the world...

But if u only want to take care of ur son's child which is in the womb of ur DIL then u don't deserve that child at all.. better she doesn't give birth...

Now my question is...

If u claim to do ur duty of taking care n then if she goes through a miscarriage is it not ur duty to support her, n be by her side...

Yes it's ur first duty to be by her side, support her, stand for her, console her, n motivate her to get back to normal...

Don't forget u too were a DIL once, a mother still, also a wife, n above all u belong to a female gender... U r a woman...

The scene of laddoo, which only Sona, Ishwari n Bijoy fed to Dev is a sign by cv's... as we all r very well aware of... that these three r going to play a major role...

Even that khargosh story which one of our forum friend has made a post (khargosh analogy) is exactly my analysis...

Dev forgetting to take blessings from Ishwari n Sona reminding Dev is a sign... I guess...

Sona is ready to listen to whatever Ishwari says n will do as she directs...

M glad that Dev has taken the charge...

Asking for medical tests...

This is totally my POV...

No offence to anyone...

I didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings...

As I respect everyone's POV...

Originally posted by: dollyreddy

The letters in red do indicate the future scenes. Our CVS are so smart, they always keep giving hints to us. I loved your analysis and especially that part where sona reminds dev to touch ishus feet, really a hint for future. Loved the analysis.👏😊😉

Chandni, very valid points.. But then i am not sure if what they are showing in this show is what is happening to most women or is it a minority. Even if it is a minority, it is certainly not the desired behavior or attitude by MIL's towards DIL's.

however, i think as society emerges from the dark legacy that we have and thought processes mature and become more accommodating, this will change. Unfortunately, the change is very uneven in our society..with the hinterland adapting slower than the metros. A lot depends on education and empowerment. With more and more women being educated, MILs are also becoming broad minded and more accepting of DILs, even if they have shortcomings.

All said and done, a lot depends on the man too. The man is at the centre and has a very proactive role to play. I keep saying this and i will repeat it again. In a marriage, the man has to give more priority to his wife and NOT his mother, or father, no matter what the history.. it is also expected that the man not abandon his mother or his father just because he is married.