Can't true love be possessive(or say obsessive)?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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So people I am here after watching today's episode. And that is an obvious question that came to my mind.
I think Maya genuinely loves Arjun. It is completely true and heartfelt. And she is the man in the relationship,taking the first move and speaking out her heart to him.
"Tumhara plan kya hai maya?" Says panicky Arjun.
"Tumko tumse churana chahti hun Arjun" Says a love struck maya lost in his eyes.

Extending the ring she confesses her feelings,direct and to the point and Arjun is surely in for some surprises here (or should I say shock?) Arjun tries to tell her that she is his boss and he has never seen him that way and their relation is of a boss and an employee. Maya says so now change it.
"Agar main nahi badalna chahun toh?" Asks a doubtful yet confident Arjun.

Maya takes her steps backward,the ring still held afloat in in her hand and never does she move her eyes as her hands slowly crawl up to the knob of the fuel cylinder. She doesn't say a single word, doesn't threaten Arjun,no nothing.(unlike what the articles suggested). Not even her expressions change. She is all just the same,if there is anything,acceptance is all I could see. She begins to turn the knob, cutting off the supply and a fear struck Arjun blabbers several words, asks her what she is trying to do and also that he was just kidding. A smile appears on maya's face as she says, she too was. She lets go the knob and moves back towards Arjun,quite close to him as she takes the ring out of the box into her handswhen something happens to the knob again,shaking the balloon and the ring falls of maya's hands. She tries to reach out to it and almost falls but Arjun saves her in time and they share a hug and a close moment.Arjun says her life is important to him and Maya says her life is him. And then Arjun asks for some time to be able to adjust to things.
"Tum mujhe mana kar rahe ho Arjun?" Maya asks questioningly.
"Bas kuch vakta maang raha hun" Says Arjun with mixed emotions.
"Maya ka vakt tumhara hai!"

Now that was like a WU but let me come to what I want to emphasize here and why I feel Maya's love is genuine. Just because I just saw acceptance in Maya's eyes while turning the knob. She did NOT threaten Arjun or try to weaken him. It was not like she was trying to kill him,she was trying to kill them.She just wanted to end both of their lives,yes both of their lives because she did not want to live without Arjun and neither could she see him die. She just wanted him,wanted them to be together,if not in life,in death. Yes that could be obsession, yes she wanted him at any cost but that doesn't mean she could see him suffer or die. Maybe the reason she wanted to kill them both was because she would hate herself for harming him?
After her troubled past Arjun was someone who brought back her happiness, gave her strength to stand up for herself and cared for her always from the bottom of his heart,what more does a girl need to fall for a guy? And I really feel for maya, I want someone for her who would love her and cure her, wipe off her miseries and give her the love she deserves.
Koi mujhko yun mila hai jaise banjare ko ghar

And regarding Arjun I think that he too does love maya somewhere but just that,he doesn't know. Why I say so you ask? In his own words, maya's life matters to him. And he himself has been saying this over and over again that maya is special to him and he always seems concerned when it comes to her. But you may also comfortably refer to that as the respect for a boss?

Okay enough said. And I know I have this habit of wandering off and getting carried away at times,lol.Thank you for bearing up with me. Just expressed my own opinion and you all are free to have your own. Please share your views on this.
And lastly, I am Ramya.😊

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Welcome mere sautan! Lol i cant stop calling u tht😆
Well it seemed like a WU😆 Whatsoever it is really good! Well I don't agree with the point where you said Maya's love can be true. A true love demands sacrifice, which Maya doesn't want to. She want's Arjun's presence in her life at ANY cost, she want to control him, maybe even his emotions. Well Arjun is to be blamed here where he kept that emotion which he kept bottlled up. Obsession can lead to many bigger mess, which I think is creating now. To judge maya's love, we need to know Arjun's POV. What he thinks of her. This obsession is totally one sided! But yes if Arjun can equally obsessed we can say yes, yeh hui barabari ki baat😆
To be honest, her style might be normal to her, maybe she loves her Arjun the most, and her style is hatke cuz she is unique and she has her own ways, but that is really creppy which can scare the shit out of anyone😆

Well ur now officially welcomed with an official post sautanji!🤗
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Posted: 8 years ago
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As long as love remains possesive it's fine but it should not be obessive because that's when real problem comes...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Loved your post.. ramya . ..
Maya's loyalty is unquestionable..
Whomever she loves she loves with her life..her everything.. and that's the passion you can see in her eyes today...when she proposes to Arjun..
I just love that expression with her eyes..damn..that girls knows how to kill with eyes..
But munna ko kuch pata nehi . .but love his presence of mind..like he said I need time..
And Maya wants him that's y she also said yes...you can..
But I think there is many story beyond this love story..
Many things will happen in the show..
But you can feel sanjh' s pain today..
But bechari ladki opportunity waste karke . .arjun ko shayed kho na de . .
But I just loved that hatke move of Maya..make a propose..that too in the air..so that Arjun can't say no to her at least..
No wonder y she is so successful in business world..
One thing as long as love remains possessive.. it is okay..
But obsessive not okay..
Edited by ArYa-JenWin20 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@sharmin agree with you! obsession is never good! be it with love only. obsession is beyond anything!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: aanvi98

@sharmin agree with you! obsession is never good! be it with love only. obsession is beyond anything!

Oye.. hoye buddy tu mujhko khush kar deta . .🤗
Even Maya or the show has that dialouge in thier very first promo..
Hadh se kuch bhi accha nehi hota . .pyaar bhi nehi . .
As long as we got this kind of hawty scenes I am okay..
But obsessive . .that's the thing I don't want..😃
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: aanvi98

Welcome mere sautan! Lol i cant stop calling u tht😆

Well it seemed like a WU😆Whatsoever it is really good! Well I don't agree with the point where you said Maya's love can be true. A true love demands sacrifice, which Maya doesn't want to. She want's Arjun's presence in her life at ANY cost, she want to control him, maybe even his emotions. Well Arjun is to be blamed here where he kept that emotion which he kept bottlled up. Obsession can lead to many bigger mess, which I think is creating now. To judge maya's love, we need to know Arjun's POV. What hethinks of her. This obsession is totally one sided! But yes if Arjun can equally obsessed we can say yes, yeh hui barabari ki baat😆
To be honest, her style might be normal to her, maybe she loves her Arjun the most, and her style is hatke cuz she is unique and she has her own ways, but that is really creppy which can scare the shit out of anyone😆

Well ur now officially welcomed with an official post sautanji!🤗

Maya can do anything for arjun, a few sacrifices are nothing. For instance she had a middle class breakfast and ate those extra spicy vada pavs for him.
And i completely agree with the second part. It all depends on arjun's pov now, how the story will progress and whether they will end up together.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Maya's loyalty and love are unquestionable she will trust and love Arjun with her life, here problem is with Arjun, on one point cvs show us that arjun saanjh ke hath se nikal gaya aur ab uske hath na aya ( arjun's own words) and on the other hand the ring fell off from Maya's hands in the proposal scene, what are the cvs tryin to show ? that Arjun doesnt belong with either of them? this is really confusing and irritating, esp arjun's bottled up feelings and behaviour
Edited by Choco_Mishti - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Choco_Mishti

Maya's loyalty and love are unquestionable she will trust and love Arjun with her life, here problem is with Arjun, on one point cvs show us that arjun saanjh ke hath se nikal gaya aur ab uske hath na aya ( arjun's own words) and on the other hand the ring fell off from Maya's hands in the proposal scene, what are the cvs tryin to show ? that Arjun doesnt belong with either of them? this is really confusing and irritating, esp arjun's bottled up feelings and behaviour

For me ring falling down was like..
Arjun won't be just be bonded with Maya not for any cuffs like ring in this case..
He will be with her with his love...
Like after the ring fell arjun said..that ring wasn't more important than you life...
There you can see Maya hugging arjun with all her passion love..
Edited by ArYa-JenWin20 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArYa-JenWin20

For me ring falling down was like..
Arjun won't be just be bonded with Maya not for any cuffs like ring in this case..
He will be with her with his love...
Like after the ring fell arjun said..that ring wasn't more important than you life...
There you can see Maya hugging arjun with all her passion love..


Maybe u r right but a human life is more important than a ring nai? maybe that was arjun's pov at that time... Ring was a kind of symbol of their relationship na... and it fell off meaning arjun will slip away from maya's hands😒 not that i want it ..i want them to be together so badly..for a moment i thought she'll kiss him but well Arjun wasnt reciprocating the feelings.. warna aj toh kiss pakka tha😉😆

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