Saanjh can love /get another guy

Hii I friends ,I see everywhere in this forum folks feel that saanjh can love / get another guy...so for everyone here saanjh love is not serious one because she is not mentally disturbed or doesn't have a disturbed childhood or she comes from a peaceful life...so this girl should /can take this heart break ??? Seriously!!!!! Is it easy to just move on leaving your twenty years of love and friendship and just go with another guy...is it easy to leave her routine life which revolves around arjun and get another guy...to just smile away her pain and go off from arjuns life...she would if she has to and if arjun loves Maya but yar please don't think it's easy and she deserves that pain...just because Maya needs love we can't wish something bad for this girl saanjh who never ever hurt anyone intentionally...then what is the fruit of being good and doing good deeds...Maya deserves love ,care, happy life same to saanjh...so please before writing that saanjh can have any guy just think for whom it would be difficult to move on Maya or saanjh...in kuch kuch hota hai the song tujhe yaad na mein aaye one could feel and see the pain of a girl...for saanjh everything and anything is arjun and she is like this from God only knows when then how would that be easy ...she has to endure more pain like how Maya would...love is love and pain is pain...

I personally feel she cannot love anybody the way she loves Arjun. Rather she is obsessed with him, her life revolves around him. Even if Arjun leaves her (tho i don't see dt), she would be with a guy for her parent's sake, but she could never love him. Such relationships/marriages r a disaster. They may not harm anybody but staying committing to a person n staying with d person physically, but mentally having somebody else in ur mind is just not done. I hope dy don't show Saanjh crying all d time...rather she shud concentrate on her career. Arjun will come back to her, coz i feel he too loves her, he just has to realise it.

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To me saanjh's love is just as important ... she has been there and knows everything there is to know about him , from the beginning it was shown they literally , have a symbiotic relationship , saanjh is always about arjun and even though its not shown often arjun too is also on about saanjh . The problem is these two haven't move from their world of each other to see there is more than just being everything to one person ... I mean arjun calls up saanjh to dress him and the girl always drops everything when he calls ... Too much dependent on each other...

and to arjun he is maybe , now experiencing a new. Kind of relationship/dependence , but saanjh is not getting that chance ...

In this types of relationship n it always gets messes when one person is moving faster than the other person...

Exactly.. whenever I see saajun together and think of saanjh about arya proposal scene I always end up imagining saanj in Kajol place in kuch kuch Hota hai... that was heart breaking song.. I said in other posts also that Arjun place in saanjh life is irreplaceable as they have been together for more than 20 or 25 years... even if new guy comes in her life none can take his place... maya once comes out of obsession should think how in one month she became so obsessed with Arjun then saanj who is with him for those many years feel for him... that's y I say compared to saanjh it's easy for maya to live with other guy who is as dashing daring bold as Arjun... I'm confused with Arjun character.. Yday episode says he treat her as a best friend but at the same time his emotions and words like dard when he is warning maya when she insulted saanjh conveys it's not mere friendship there's much more to it... these both Arjun saanjh seems addicted to each other...

Originally posted by: nitzy_21

I personally feel she cannot love anybody the way she loves Arjun. Rather she is obsessed with him, her life revolves around him. Even if Arjun leaves her (tho i don't see dt), she would be with a guy for her parent's sake, but she could never love him. Such relationships/marriages r a disaster. They may not harm anybody but staying committing to a person n staying with d person physically, but mentally having somebody else in ur mind is just not done. I hope dy don't show Saanjh crying all d time...rather she shud concentrate on her career. Arjun will come back to her, coz i feel he too loves her, he just has to realise it.

Coming to the topic of being good or bad, i believe v r all grey, there is good n bad in all of us, some times good is more and sometimes bad is more, what u use is up to u. Saanjh can get bad for Arjun. Already we have seen her crop pictures of Arjun with Maya, even though it was a professional set up, at that time she didn't know how crazy Maya is about Arjun.

hey nitz but I feel arjun is getting attracted towards Maya...did you notice he started to think about Maya now a days...I feel it's going to be arjun and Maya ...what if saanjh turns bad for arjun? Good possiblity...let's see...thanks nits...

Originally posted by: Africanqueenkel

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To me saanjh's love is just as important ... she has been there and knows everything there is to know about him , from the beginning it was shown they literally , have a symbiotic relationship , saanjh is always about arjun and even though its not shown often arjun too is also on about saanjh . The problem is these two haven't move from their world of each other to see there is more than just being everything to one person ... I mean arjun calls up saanjh to dress him and the girl always drops everything when he calls ... Too much dependent on each other...

and to arjun he is maybe , now experiencing a new. Kind of relationship/dependence , but saanjh is not getting that chance ...

In this types of relationship n it always gets messes when one person is moving faster than the other person...

thanks for your reply...I felt very bad seeing kajol that way as anjali.and yes thoer world revolves around each other...

Originally posted by: sindu_gurti

hey nitz but I feel arjun is getting attracted towards Maya...did you notice he started to think about Maya now a days...I feel it's going to be arjun and Maya ...what if saanjh turns bad for arjun? Good possiblity...let's see...thanks nits...

Nicely pointed out everything ..yes it will be very difficult for sanjh to forget Arjun.coz Good or bed but Sanjh too is obsessed with Arjun

True. Saanjh is not raste ka maal that she can be picked up by any and everybody. If maya deserves love, them by no means does it mean that saanjh doesn't deserve HER love.

^ U made a new ID to tell dt 😆