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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have been thinking about the speech in so many ways, so another point popped into my mind.
If the whole speech is repeated from the point of view of a daughter's mother... Does it still hold?
Then she doesn't feel like being a part of their daughter's life?... When one becomes a wife we obviously don't share everything with our mothers so that means the mother should be pissed if at the son in law to.. But she isint is it because she is not mother enough or doesn't love her child enough???
Or just because she cant because it is bloody tradition to let your daughter go. Hell she can't even live with her anymore!
I tell you if these insecure moms of sons think about it from their daughters in laws mother'd view they will understand.
It is she who took away their daughter not the other way around!
Gosh I so haaate this practice!!!!!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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We can clearly see the difference between Ishwari Maa and Asha Maa in the show... One who is extremely secure and mature and the other who has a lot of insecurities attached... One of the reasons for this is their different pasts... But that doesn't mean the insecurities are correct. Ishwari Ji needs to come out of it. As Dev has other relations too in his life and he has to give time and respect them too.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Gone are the days when girls didn't share the marital home matters with mothers. Almost every Indian girl does it and cribs about in laws with them Wasn't Sona doing it.
Also with many girls working they support their parents financially too which is a good thing but the same girl has a problem when Husbands support his family. Example was Sonas dialogue that she is doing a favour by sharing her husband with his family just imagine Dev says the same, I am doing you a favour by letting you go to your parents place every day. Both Dev and Sona have their share of weaknesses and regarding ishwari speech she was hurt after listening repeated comments from Sona about Mama's boy. I don't support her but can understand from where she is coming

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