Ishwari speech... READ IT Once

Well... Am not here for Ish support. But only try to say if u hear her speech carefully... Then she is not manipulating dev or try to insult sona but she want to say her feelings for Dev and what she wants to understand sona about her feelings and bonding with dev. Well also read the below post that why it's not typical saas bahu show.Well its toxic for us but not for ish.

Rahul.. In first place what was the necessity of the speech in public..If she had problem why she did not convince sona in privately. and what was the last sentence 'mamma's boy'. I know you are trying to give her your motherly place. It is alarming, in public place she is disclosing her insecurities.

Much needed post .Thanks for sharing

I though I was the only one who loved what she said .She poured her feelings and it was beautiful.

No matter how you try to justify it ... it was actually a good thing presented in a wrong way ... ish's presentation was biased because she only had one thing ringing in her mind ... mama's boy ... a man does nit become mama's boy by listening to her, taking care of her, by loving her or supporting her all through her life .. a man becomes a real man by doing all these things ... a man is a mama's boy when he needs mama always to function in life ... as an independent woman i feel ashamed to ask my mom to clean my almirah or do my laundry... i am grown up and I can do my stuff ... i would expect an independent grown ass man to take care of his daily stuff on his own ... but here dev cant function without maaa ... so much dependence is not good ...

Also, I do not agree with these old stupid sentiments that ma wants to be part of sons life when he gets married or he has grown old ... so do you mean to say you are not part of your sons life ... or when a wife comes a mother ceases to exist... it s all crap ... a mother is always there only she needs to stop feeling insecure she will realize how important she is to her son and his wife ...

Also, ma ko vanwas. Another crap ... i would think being a mother opens new horizzons for a mother ... widens her world more ... and gives a woman an immense opportunity to mould a life the right way ... a women gets a chance to shape the future ...

Sorry but Ish's speech was crap and not progressive or full of love at all ... it actually reeks of jealousy and insecurities

Remember folks we need to look beyond emotions ..you will see clarity. emotions are important but over emotional, emotional blackmail, sadio purana baja just takes the perspective out of life and makes everyone miserable...

Sorry but it doesnt have a deep understanding of womanhood and motherhood ... it s a weak emotional insecure point of view

Originally posted by: Nehz

No matter how you try to justify it ... it was actually a good thing presented in a wrong way ... ish's presentation was biased because she only had one thing ringing in her mind ... mama's boy ... a man does nit become mama's boy by listening to her, taking care of her, by loving her or supporting her all through her life .. a man becomes a real man by doing all these things ... a man is a mama's boy when he needs mama always to function in life ... as an independent woman i feel ashamed to ask my mom to clean my almirah or do my laundry... i am grown up and I can do my stuff ... i would expect an independent grown ass man to take care of his daily stuff on his own ... but here dev cant function without maaa ... so much dependence is not good ...

Also, I do not agree with these old stupid sentiments that ma wants to be part of sons life when he gets married or he has grown old ... so do you mean to say you are not part of your sons life ... or when a wife comes a mother ceases to exist... it s all crap ... a mother is always there only she needs to stop feeling insecure she will realize how important she is to her son and his wife ...

Also, ma ko vanwas. Another crap ... i would think being a mother opens new horizzons for a mother ... widens her world more ... and gives a woman an immense opportunity to mould a life the right way ... a women gets a chance to shape the future ...

Sorry but Ish's speech was crap and not progressive or full of love at all ... it actually reeks of jealousy and insecurities

Remember folks we need to look beyond emotions ..you will see clarity. emotions are important but over emotional, emotional blackmail, sadio purana baja just takes the perspective out of life and makes everyone miserable...

Originally posted by: Nehz

Sorry but it doesnt have a deep understanding of womanhood and motherhood ... it s a weak emotional insecure point of view

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

It's not speech for sona but she want to say everyone on occasion of dev's birthday that why there's relationship and their bonding is so special... If u will think about sona.. Then u may not like her speech

Originally posted by: baijubavra

Then why did she use the Ma ka pallu and mama's boy? She did not even know the meaning of mama's boy couple of days ago.

Does she arrange the closet of the rest of her children also? If not, is she not mother to them?

Even if we remove Sona from the picture, can you please tell me where her daughters stand. She became a mother first with Dev. But she has three daughters too. In her speech she said that when young a child remembers her mother both when sad and happy. Really? Does her daughters do that? Her eldest daughter is at home and her divorce proceedings are going on. She was happy enough to celebrate her son's birthday irrespective of her daughters mental state? If she had sat and talked with Neha for a few seconds or if she had even mentioned all her kids even passingly I might have tried to at least understand her perspective