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Posted: 8 years ago
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For me both the incidents were pretty risky and unsafe. In case of Bijoy throwing out them out of house at night was not done. He could have locked them up in sona's bedroom and what sona did, roaming around like that was also foolish.
In Dev's case also it was not safe as sona was standing outside the hotel. Yes there were bodyguards outside but still she was all alone. Dev sent a car for her but late. He should have acted immediately when he came to know that he was stuck in his house. Or may be he was thinking to sneak out later. My concern was more for sona's waiting unnecessarily for so long. She could have joined party much early only if Dev acted swiftly.

Anyways for me both incidents were extremely foolish and i watched it as fiction only. The difference is that Bijoy's incident was shown funny and yesterday one was more of depressing, that's why change in reactions of people. If yesterday's incident was shown in funny way then may be people would have reacted in different way or may be not because it was related to Dev. And bashing Dev for everything is "in" now days.

Also i have read few comments who are saying that Bijoy's action was safe whereas Dev's was stupid because "supposedly" Bijoy's place is safe and outside hotel was not. And even Nitu (i hope i am addressing you correctly), You also mentioned in your post that 5- star hotel lobby is safe. Well i will not try to be judgmental, but being a Delhiite no place is safe or unsafe. Anything can happen anywhere. Nirbhaya case happened in one of the elite area and under the nose of police. So practically you cannot say that this is safe and that is not. But in case of fiction we can assume that they were safe.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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After today's episode, I am even more miffed at everyone at dixits.. no one, not a single person thought of checking how Sona was going to come home (even if one was to assume she is at work)?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Who says five star hotels are safer zones? Risk lingers everywhere for a girl standing alone...especially when it is late night. How often women get propositioned while standing alone in five star hotel lobbies is not fiction but a fact .While I am not defending Bijoy, I am presuming that he didn't expect Dev and Sona to roam the streets and secondly, Dev and Sona were with each other (not that danger doesn't strike if you have a male companion.) Showing them sleeping by the roadside just so they can meet those little kids and in the process recreate an old scene was stupid. They could have easily gone to Dev's office. But no...

The writing is all kinds of wrong in these scenes. The writers should not discount real life danger while writing fiction. And they have been doing that too often.

P.S - For me the worst part of it is ...nobody...not one person (all Dixits) even mentions the safety factor in connection to Sona when she gets back. Shows how much they value her. When the same thing happened at Bose house...Asha was worried sick about Dev-Sona and questions them about it when they get back.This differentiates viewer reactions to incidents when it happens in Bose house vs Dixit house.
Edited by SandyAquarium - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

After today's episode, I am even more miffed at everyone at dixits.. no one, not a single person thought of checking how Sona was going to come home (even if one was to assume she is at work)?



So true... even I am frustrated... Everyone assume her being at work... Which nutrition will work till midnight? Is Sonakshi running a company like Dev? Everyone welcomed her so calmly... seriously!?!? She came in the middle of the night... exactly at 12.00... no one is worried for her.😲

I am super annoyed with Dev, he knows Sonakshi is coming in any moment, as he has talked to the driver, even then, he didn't wait for her before cutting the cake.😡

Agree with you about yesterday, he could've asked the driver to give the phone to Sona and speak to her. Actually, I thought he would do that, but was shocked and disappointed to see him speak only to the driver.😲
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dev took his precious time to send the driver to pick up Sonakshi.

Bejoy sent Sonakshi out of the house with Dev, not alone, so that is a big difference. Most importantly he sent them just outside the house and I'm sure they don't live in an unsafe area. Plus Bejoy didn't ask them to roam around the streets, that was their choice.

Dev knew his wife was out alone at midnight, and had been waiting for him, and he didn't seem concerned at all. He was more concerned about keeping his family members happy, as if his wife is an outsider.

To be honest it's not just about how safe or unsafe we perceive a place to be, it's the fact that no one cared about Sonakshi. A husband I think would always be slightly concerned that his wife is out alone, but Dev didn't seem to care. Whereas obviously when he was out with her, he's there for her so he wouldn't worry.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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If v take these 2 situations to analyse , the first one bijoy throwing both sona n dev out of the house was a spontaneous act ..it happened all of a sudden. But the second one wer sona waiting for dev outside was the after effect of a pre- planned one ..that too planned by both dev n sona .
Wat bijoy did was to giv some personal space for both dev n sona so that they can sort out their problems. But sending them out @ such an odd time is nt @ all appreciable but i think, bijoy has full faith in dev as he'll protect his daughter. Wat sona did was also wrong ...roaming around the streets of delhi past midnight ..so v can assume that she too has full faith in dev as he'll follow her werever she go n protect her (also dev had the past history of following / stalking her after the brk up )

Coming to the second situation.. yes..she's waitng for him in very safe place but ..but ..a girl is standing alone so anything can happen, v never know. Dev assured sona that he'll come soon. He broke that promise ..so it's the responsibility of the person who broke the promise to make sure that his/her partner shud understand y this happened. there was no emergency in dixit house which cud stop dev from going out, so if wanted he can easily go n pick her ..also explain the situation. Only family members're present , no outsiders ( the only outsider was waiting outside..sona ..sad but true ) One more thing regarding safety..wat if something bad hapnd while they return...a punctured tyre or an accident & wat if sona was stranded in road, even if it's with that driver ? is that safe too ? I really met a different dev hre who once said sona 's is his reason to breath, to rise in the morning , is nt apart but intact in him n wat nt . Jst one word .. RIP KRPKAB script !!


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