Mei Kaa karoon Ram mujhe budha (aur budhia) MIL Gaya!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Sona should toast Dev at his birthday with this song and dance number! 😆

Every girl dreams of a nice SR, a memorable HM when they marry a guy! Every girl dreams of decorating her home with her choice, nice inlaws who respect her and treat her with love ! These days women are financially independent and don't see marriage as a means of financial stability any more. Once some (if not all) of their dreams are fulfilled, they are ready to take any chalkneges that a marriage brings! Here, this woman is treated like shit, not consulted by husband on any family matters, has to deal with creepy intrusion of personal space by her MIL , no HM , not even a nice dinner date with her husband. She gets Constant fighting, taunting and tension filled atmosphere at dixit mansion.


Why should a woman get married then?





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Posted: 8 years ago
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The right question is why should a woman get married to that person who treats her like crap and followed by why should she stay married to that person without any hope of him ever treating her right.

I look at marriage like an investment where you invest your life, your time, your present and your future. In return, you want love, respect, a trustworthy companion for life and a good partner to raise your children with.

Now say, in spite of investing all you had, you get crumbs. Any advisor would tell you what a shitty investment that is without any return.

So any smart person would pull out whatever investment capital they have left and invest them elsewhere, for example on your own self for your own happiness. So yes, you may not have a trustworthy companion right away (or may be you can get a dog), or a good partner to raise your children with (but you will have full control on how to raise your children right). But love and respect will be plenty since you would learn to love yourself first and respect your self. So better return on investment than a shitty partner, no?


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