BEING RAKHI SAWANT

There is something so fascinating about this woman-Rakhi Sawant that has forced me many times to write columns/articles on her. For the first time I am writing only about her in this forum. Earlier the topics I started were not only about her. She is truly an unique combination of vices and virtues. As all of us have both positive and negative in us, similarly she has, but what is again so different in her, what makes her so unique? A thorough analysis leads me to conclude that she is a blend of crude innocence, crude pride and hyper sentimentality. Crude innocence –Her innocence is as it is with out any tact, diplomacy and politics. Crude pride-This is the dark side in her which most of the time overshadows her thinking power. Crude pride includes that intense desire to become rich, famous and powerful. I do not want to comment much on it because we all have the same desire. However, again her crudeness makes her so distinct. As her innocence is as it is, her pride is also as it is. This conflict of extreme qualities puts her always in controversies. To add icing on the cake she has another trait and that is her hyper sentimentality. In addition, this trait has earned her the tag of a drama queen. This has something to do with her past; probably she is not able to come out of her past. This is where I feel compassionate about her.

Look at this example. During the show nach baliye, she was innocent and honest enough to admit that she wants to win the show. This is something commendable because in this age of hypocrisy very few people are honest to themselves. We all love to win but do not have the guts to say that. She was proud enough to believe that she is the best. She was sentimental enough to not accept her defeat easily. I do not want to comment much on this because personally as much as I know there are lots of dirty mind games which are played behind the curtains in these reality shows. So there is every probability (though not possible also) that her allegations are quite right.
If ever she comes to this forum, my sincere advice to her would be to develop a positive frame of my mind towards her life. She should psychologically erase all her past memories; this will help her becoming mentally stable. Then she needs to develop a consciousness of each and every step that she takes in her life.I mean she has to stop being impulsive and not instantly jump into actions.

⭐️ I hope this New Year brings lots of joy, peace and prosperity in her life. ⭐️

very well said 😊

yeah very well said..... 👏

Wow. That was very good. I can't even begin to comment 👏 👏

Right. Well said.

One has to put oneslef in other's shoe to understand and feel / know the situation etc. Rakhi had a very bad childhood and it is really very difficult to forget and overcome childhood expereinces / sufferings. But it is easy to tolerate and forget bad experiences when you are grown up. i.e. above 20 i would say.

She really worked hard to reach here and without any money support or God Mother /God Father, without even learning dance and therefore is really proud of herself and knows her worth and also knows she can reach further. She never talks about others at all. It is the other people who is much bothered about her than doing their own job and hence they are not able to reach where Rakhi is today. Just becasue she has no back up and from poor family people are looking down upon her.

But our society is full of jealous people who does not like anyone doing better than them and that too without bowing down i mean not seeking anyone's help or maska lagao etc.

However, it is true that she speaks her mind and is bold . This may be people cannot digest and thinks otherwise about her. Why should she be afraid , if she has not done any crime etc.

However, being a woman i truly feel proud of any woman who on her own credibility estabilshed herself e.g Kiran Bedi,................ ( pl add on if you feel proud to be a woman, but only those names who did not have any support or back up )

Tks.

Originally posted by: anjalibc

However, being a woman i truly feel proud of any woman who on her own creditibility estabilshed herself e.g Kiran Bedi,................ ( pl add on if you feel proud to be a woman, but only those names who did not have any support or back up....)

Some other names are Taslima Nasreen, but she is also hugely controversial.Actually tolerance is no where in our society anymore,be it religious/political/family/marital or anything else.So how can Rakhi be spared.The sad thing is women are more easily targetted in our country.Some male celebrities also resemble to an extent to Rakhi but are less controversial like Himesh Reshammiya,Salman Khan etc.Being a man they are able to handle their emotions much better in public,also they had better past,also media is not able to access them easily,people also do not enjoy them much.....But at the same time Rakhi should also make a few compromises with her personality , she has to learn to carry herself in a better way i.e in a more polished manner when she is in public.

hats off to rakhi for being such a strong woman & i really appreciate her guts !!

by the way only rakhi is not an item girl the other item girls of bollywood who wear much -much indecent clothes than rakhi are -malaika arora khan (i hate her dressing sense) , tanushree dutta , bipasha , isha kopikkar & many more so why it's like rakhi is an item gal so she is taken so loosely by the ppl ,atleast rakhi is a very honest gal & a very straight forward person !!!

Originally posted by: sita11

hats off to rakhi for being such a strong woman & i really appreciate her guts !!

by the way only rakhi is not an item girl the other item girls of bollywood who wear much -much indecent clothes than rakhi are -malaika arora khan (i hate her dressing sense) , tanushree dutta , bipasha , isha kopikkar & many more so why it's like rakhi is an item gal so she is taken so loosely by the ppl ,atleast rakhi is a very honest gal & a very straight forward person !!!

That's the point exactly.Actually she needs to carry herself in a more smart,stylish and graceful manner like these women in Bollywood project themselves.I am not saying that these women you have mentioned are very dignified, because who knows what a celebrity (male/female) does behind the cameras.Over all Rakhi has to shed those crude ways of hers to earn good will in Bollywood.Why I am saying is because presentation matters a lot in today's world.A PERSON IS NOT JUDGED BY HIS GOOD SIDE BUT BY HIS BAD SIDE.Say me how many remember/like you for your good work,very few I am sure.Most of the people will remember you for the wrong things you have done.The same applies for Rakhi also.Every body is very much busy in finger pointing to others these days.So Rakhi has to not change herself / her principles /her nature but the projection of her speech,behaviour and personality.

Originally posted by: jenniferkotwal

Some other names are Taslima Nasreen,she is also hugely controversial.Tolerance is no where in our society anymore,be it religious/political/family/marital or anything else.So how can Rakhi be spared.The sad thing is women are more easily targetted in our country.Some male celebrities also resemble to an extent to Rakhi but are less controversial like Himesh Reshammiya,Salman Khan etc.Being a man they are able to handle their emotions much better in public,also they had better past,also media is not able to access them easily,people also do not enjoy them much.....<span>But at the same time Rakhi should also make a few compromises with her personality , she has to learn to carry herself in a better way with more smartness at least.</span>

I do not know about Taslima's background, if she had a bad past life or was very poor etc. etc. and then came to be known as a popular writer, hence not able to comment.

I am not asking to mention controversial people's name. But one who has risen high by sheer hard work etc. etc.

Well, Taslima did speak about others and therefore became controversial , But Rakhi never spoke about others. She only speaks about herself and people give their judgement as if they are the ultimatum to judge her way and is always right and analyses these against her and TALKS on what she does e.g. even if she goes to Siddhivinayak does she need to ask them and go, People even comment on this and talks nonsence. IT IS NOT THAT RAKHI NEEDS TO HIDE AND DO THINGS AND WHAT IS UNGRACEFUL IN GOING TO TEMPLE OR EXPRESSING YOUR FEAR AND NERVOUSNESS. SOME PEOPLE JUST HAVE NOTHING TO SEE GOOD IN A PERSON BUT ALL BAD BAD AND BAD.

And one be diplomatic and be artificial on face and behind you are bad and cheat , does it make sense. That is all our Politicians are doing. RAKHI SAID CLEARLY SHE IS NOT LIKE THAT.

I do not think she needs to hide and go to temple etc. EVEN ON SUCH THINGS PEOPLE COMMENTS THEN IT IS NOT RAKHI'S FAULT. Such people needs to look into themselves first.

Originally posted by: anjalibc

I do not know about Taslima's background, if she had a bad past life or was very poor etc. etc. and then came to be known as a popular writer, hence not able to comment.

I am not asking to mention controversial people's name. But one who has risen high by sheer hard work etc. etc.

Well, Taslima did speak about others and therefore became controversial , But Rakhi never spoke about others. She only speaks about herself and people give their judgement as if they are the ultimatum to judge her way and is always right and analyses these against her and TALKS on what she does e.g. even if she goes to Siddhivinayak does she need to ask them and go, People even comment on this and talks nonsence. IT IS NOT THAT RAKHI NEEDS TO HIDE AND DO THINGS AND WHAT IS UNGRACEFUL IN GOING TO TEMPLE OR EXPRESSING YOUR FEAR AND NERVOUSNESS. SOME PEOPLE JUST HAVE NOTHING TO SEE GOOD IN A PERSON BUT ALL BAD BAD AND BAD.

And one be diplomatic and be artificial on face and behind you are bad and cheat , does it make sense. That is all our Politicians are doing. RAKHI SAID CLEARLY SHE IS NOT LIKE THAT.

I do not think she needs to hide and go to temple etc. EVEN ON SUCH THINGS PEOPLE COMMENTS THEN IT IS NOT RAKHI'S FAULT. Such people needs to look into themselves first.

Taslima has also risen by her own mind/will from an unhealthy background..She is also very straightforward ,not artificial and her writings are also very meaningful,though it has hurt a few fundamentalists only.I mentioned her name because she is also a self made woman.Rest what you have said I completely agree.I also do not say that she has to hide herself and do things but at the same time she has to out smart the media people who constantly have a speculating eye on her,she needs to talk less and maintain a low profile for some time.