16.11.2016 - Chupke Chupke Pyaar Karenge Hum Dono

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It is difficult to suppress a snigger when I see Aalia acting like the daft bimbo she is.😆😆😆 Yes, I know, she stood by Ishita when things got rough before this one-year leap happened, but come on, does she think her and Adi's engagement is an absolutely wonderful reason to go all out and celebrate with all the extravaganza on display, when the very same day, Pihu nearly spoiled IshRa remarriage and things only went haywire from there?

I do understand she is all caught up in the throes of love and only wanted to surprise her fiance, but the fact remains, for Adi, whose parents are now separated, this day also brings back painful memories. And all Aalu could talk about was the flowers and gifts she had sent, and recalling how excited she was on this day and in the same vein, talking about Ishita and Raman's re-marriage. I mean, is she dumb?

Obviously, Adi, who is in a different world altogether and can't come to terms with his Ishima possibly moving on, is in no mood to "celebrate". So he does what he cannot help on the spur of the moment...yell at Aalu and disconnect the call. I did feel sorry for Aalu, but burst out laughing when Adi grumbled, "24 ghante bas celebration celebration karna hai isko"🤣

Aalu is visibly offended and sits sulking and pouting till Mani calls her. Before I forget, just wanted to say - just because she is in Bangkok, she is shown in ultra short, ultra skimpy clothes or what? It's like, Shagun decided to get bangs and flirt with a certain Vidyut coz well she is bored and its Bangkok, and now Aalia is in all-time party mode coz its Bangkok😆

So anyway, Mani calls Aalu...asks her why she isn't coming to Australia...he keeps saying the same thing, "It's beautiful, it's beautiful" and I'm like, "MORON, she KNOWS. Remember, she stayed put in Australia for 7+ goddamn years?"

Somewhere during the conversation Aalu shares what just transpired between her and Adi. Now, here is the glitch. Mani tries to pacify her and says, "Adi disturbed hoga. Picchle saal isi din Ishita aur Raman ki bhi shaadi hui thi aur ab woh dono saath nahin hai." I swear on everything dear to me, I so badly wanted to ghuso inside the TV screen and beat him into pulp...I mean, jackass, you said "I'm sorry, I can't help you" to Raman and sided with your tramp of a wife and took Pihu away...WHICH IS WHY ISHRA ARE NOT STAYING TOGETHER ANYMORE.😡

The way he was trying to sound understanding of Adi's situation made me want to throw up. Heck, he even took Aalu away to Bangkok coz he felt, "yeh tumhare aur Adi ke pyaar ka test bhi hoga". Jerk😡 Aur ab gyaan baant raha hai!!

Then he went further to explain to Aalu how she shouldn't react in anger, kyunki gusse mein insaan sahi faisla nai leta or something along those lines. And to illustrate his point, he reminded her of how he had acted irrationally and in anger and troubled Adi and sided with Shagun on Pihu's custody matter, and how later he realized his mistake and how he and Ishita went back to being friends. "Hamari dosti bach gayi" that's what he said. Really? You knew what a witch your wife is, and yet, you chose to believe her and took Pihu away, and you think Ishita's still your friend???😡😡😡

It almost sounded like he was rubbing it in. Abhi dimag itna chal raha hai, toh tab kya ghaas charne gaya tha??😡

What's more laughable is that, after designing this "plan" of testing Aalu-Adi's love and relationship, he called Mihir and apparently spoke to him about their fight and how Aalia was upset. Aalu, instead of being pissed with Adi, you should've just booked a ticket to Australia and shot your "Appa" there.😡😡

Adi tried the "mere dost ki bua life mein aage badhna chahti hai" approach which people usually do when they cant talk about their secrets directly...but Mihir, was more interested in initiating a patch-up b/w him and Aalu than offering a solution to Adi's prob. Nevertheless, he did say, that communication is the key to solving all issues...baat karni chahiye...wagairah wagairah, and advised Adi to first sort out his issues and then go help his friend out.

So then Adi calls Aalu and tries to manaofy her. It's a typical bf-gf kuchi-puchi pyaar-takraar wala scene...and they both acted well in it...I wish Aalia did more than act the coy, demanding daft girlfriend...anyway, the only time I smirked again was when Aalu insisted Adi book her tickets to India and that she wants to come over and see him. I'm like, "kinni chep hai yaar. Appa ko mana kar diya...lekin ab jana chahti hai"😆😆

By the end of the scene, Adi seems to be at his wit's end and decides he is going to speak to Ishita directly.😭

He goes back home in time to hear Ishita converse with Toshi, Simmi and Ruhi...telling them she has a conference in Singapore and it would take her around 7 days to get back...Adi looks extremely suspicious

Ruhi wants to come along, but Ishita is quick to say no...

Ishita looks at the others furtively and makes her way into the bedroom...the phone conversation she had today was quite hush-hush and yes, the makers are trying v v hard to have us reeling, trying to figure out who it is...the way she said, "haan mil gaya" sounded like it was Raman she was speaking to...in fact, the entire time she talked, it sounded like it was Raman she was talking to, because had it been Vidyut, then its quite unlikely she will say, "haan mil gaya" (prolly referring to the gift) when she had met him just recently and especially, when he handed it over to her.

Adi decides to book Aalu's India wale tickets...The bomb drops when Adi sees a folder on the laptop "ISHITA BOARDING PASS" and opens it to see she is actually flying to Adelaide, Australia and not Singapore! His doubts are now doubly confirmed.

RuDi conversation was quite intense and power-packed. Like two sleuths on the heels of their first case, they are all worked up and trying to figure out who it is their Ishima was secretly meeting and receiving gifts from. Adi's practical, understanding nature is slowly slipping away as the frustration and fear of losing his mother to a complete stranger is taking over him...gradually...today, Ruhi seemed more put together and trying to rationalize and not think the worst, but then Adi knows for sure, there is something their mother isn't telling them.

The way Adi said, "woh ek aadmi hi hai"😆😆😆 I'm like, kaunsi aurat itne paise kharch karke doosri aurat ko DIAMOND NECK-PIECE degi bhai? Apne pe na kharch karle!!😆😆

In the meanwhile, he gets a call from the restaurant's manager (the one Ish and Vidyut met in) and gets to know Ishita had gone to meet Vidyut, the ex-cricketer and current cricket commentator. So putting two and two together, Adi figures out Ishima is indeed flying to Adelaide with this Vidyut, because that is where India's next match is being played.

Whoopie! Mystery solved! Hfffhh!! After sooo much time. Oho. Paseene chhoot rahe hain!😳

Ruhi assures him there's nothing of that sort, and she is going to talk to Ishima directly...confront her...and she knows their mom wont lie to her.


PRECAP - It's ever more confusing now because Ishita is busy talking to someone, saying how apprehensive she is, how risky it all is, how her kids keep asking her diff questions, and takes Vidyut's name...so I'm thinking...YEH CHAL KYA RAHA HAI???

Ruhi on the other hand, is busy eavesdropping ..with her heart breaking a little each time she comes closer to the truth.😭😭😭

Ishu and Raman, SO NOT FAIR on the kids.😡

Especially for that stupid silly Pihu who is busy slurping dal-chawal without a care in the world, not even once thinking of Adi or Ruhi...😡😡😡

P.S. Shagun now has a problem with Pihu going gaga over Raman, because this automatically translates to Ishita and Pihu ki nazdeekiyan...she is satisfied that IshRa dont stay together anymore, but then she still doesn't trust them and she needs to keep an eye out, is what she says to herself. Kameeni...din bhar bas isi mein dimag lagati rehti hai...😡😡 But this also means she is going to do everything to outsmart IshRa, and that means we will have to tolerate her as long as YHM goes on.😡

Koi iski supaari leke ise tapka kyun nai deta??


P.S. I have an exam next week, so I dont stay online for too long. So sorry guys, to those whose comments I could not respond to. I have read through it all though and the discussion is ELECTRIFYING and quite engaging👏👏👏 keep up the talks people!

To a certain someone, who is siding with Pihu because she is an 8 yr old whose entire world is Shagun Arora (because she doesn't know any better), and also because she is vulnerable; call me mean, call me harsh, but nowhere do I see the innocence of 6 yr old Ruhi in this idiotic Pihu. She is mean, acts as per her convenience, selfish, adamant, and is very rightfully a mistake. An unnecessary baggage in IshRa life. A living casualty, that cannot be wished away.

And she is not even the product of IshRa love...sorry, but let's be honest, she is the product of Raman's wilfulness and callous thinking, that assumed would be the cause of Ishita's happiness. I love Raman, will stick it out for him, but cannot endorse his x number of blunders...and Pihu is a GLARING BLUNDER that cannot be wished away or forgiven or forgotten or repaired...

So yes, I don't care about her at all. Ruhi came and turned Ishu's life around...and then Adi happened...and that's all she needed to feel wholesome and complete (with reference to her reproductive abilities) ...she really didn't need AND DOES NOT NEED Pihu. It's all zabardasti ka drama to keep twisting and churning the EX-WIFE wala angle forever😡



P.P.S. A line on fashion score in today's episode (as per Maya's request) - As usual, DT looked fantabulous in the red saree with the strategic patterned embellishments...the hair was fine too...I felt though, the makeup guys could have toned down the blush effect on DT's cheeks...and of course, the lipstick too...it was a little too red, a little too glossy...I liked her look better yesterday...more subtle, understated but V V classy👏 not to mention, the nude makeup which makes her stand out!!

Loved Ruhi's dress too! And even Adi's look...I like it better when he has that scruff on his face😉Not related, but then Mihir needs to get a life and stop trying to make us believe he is still pining for Rinky.🤔

Will be back soon guys. Happy discussion!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi Akanksha
Nice review. Missing your color codes today and fashion statement as well.

Good Luck for your exams

I feel really bad for Adi/Ruhi both IshRa are torturing these two kids for a spoil brat Pihu. I know they cannot abandon Pihu but they could at least tell these two that their father did not abandon them for the third kid that is the only gripe I have with this plan.

My guess is all Bhalla family knows that Raman is in Bangkok with Pihu because he said he is going to be with his child but they might not know his address or phone number that is why they are not in contact with him and we got the dialogue from Ruhi that two days ago wherever you are please remember me. I guess Aliya also falls in the same category even though she is Bangkok but I guess Raman interacts only with Shagun and Pihu to keep the plan in tact.

I see Adi/Ruhi behavior differently I don't think they are suspecting her of having an affair but they are worried that her love for them will reduce because their biological parents abandon them and here Ishita is considered outsider to them according to the society so she moving on might be a big blow for them as they would be losing their only person/mother who loved them unconditionally without expectation and in their hearts they also know if she moves on their father will never come back to them so in Ishita moving on they are not only losing one parent but two parents in fact that is why it troubles them so much

Shagun for once realized the truth that IshRa can go any extent for their kids so she knows Raman staying separtely from Ishita is also part of the plan it seems with every leap Shagun gets more intelligent.

Ishita was talking to Raman on the phone. Toshjii worried about Ishita leaving says the state of the house that Ishita is the thread which binds them together and they are afraid to lose her.

Adi for all the talk he did yesterday about his mom happiness when it comes he is unable to accept it that was very well portrayed by him and Ruhi for her immaturity yesterday showed today that she cannot act responsible too. They both portrayed the struggles of witnessing the only parent they knew who is moving on in life and finding it hard to accept well done kids.👏

Aliya wanting to celebrate her engagement was okay but to bring up IshRa marriage was distasteful .
Mani convo that his friendship was saved I was wondering what friendship he betrayed her time again by snatching her kids, accused her of killing his wife but still I find the fault is with Ishita for forgiving him for his betrayal😡

I liked Mihir advice that talking solves problem but none of them use this in yhm


I just wish they would reveal this is a plan to the kids at least soon I cannot take their emotional torture.

I just see how fate plays Ruhi Shagun biological daughter brought IshRa together and Pihu Ishita biological daughter separated IshRA from the day she was born

Edited by mayasun - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I'm with you on your opinion on Pihu. I watch YHM for IshRa and it pricks my heart to see them separated. My heart is hurting so bad that they've been separated but at least there's that hope they will eventually be tog!
Imagine when YHM will end? I'll be devastated 💔🥺
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Very nice review Akanksha
Didn't watch the episode yet but I really enjoyed ur review through out...

Reg pihu i wish they would have shown few lovely moments between ishra like deciding the name etc but no ishra were mo where seem to be interested in pihu nor pihu in shagun's tummy... remember she didn't respond to ishu's touch even then...huh and for this madam's sake ishu became full time stunt woman since then😡

And yeah mani stretching on aussie beauty is hilarious😆
Alu tho I believe she leaves her brain in bank locker n kabhi kabhi use karthi hai...😆

Hmm no words for sha_hu drama

So unfair for adi n ruhi... especially ruhi, for her name sake ishra got married and she got only 2years to spend wt mom n dad together... Again torcherous 7 years ... Now she got only ishima again missing her papa... Most of her life went in miserable crying for her papa's love...i feel so bad for her...


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi Aka..
As usual brilliant hilarious take...specially aalu
And I agree with you 100%...on Pihu...I always felt Ruhinwas more innocent where as Pihu more vile...I thought I'm the only one feeling this..but I'm glad you felt the same way..she has no trait of Ishra...and will never accept her as Ishra love child..no never.
And like you I love Raman...but cannot accept his mistakes..what has this kid brought them ...nothing. But unhappiness as a couple..not...individual...Raman benefited..not Ishita...well we Biwi the reason for that..lets not go there..
Even Ruhi after knowing about Shagun stil addresses her as mumma..thus kid..still calls her aunty..even after knowing the truth from her, she outright said..she came from shaguns tummy ..so Shagun is her mumma..and ishuta is nothing to her...I mean this is from an 8 year old..who clearly understands the difference...that birthing is everything...
Wish Raman gets a wake up call and head back to his family, and kids who wants him, if Pihu comes later that's ok...if she's happy, let her stay with Shagun and mani.
Hope Cv's don't tarnish ishitas character and her reputation as ishimaa..I dont think trp audiences are ready for this..
Ruhi / Adi..they are ok talking about it..but when it hits home..they just can't seem to take it...it's very sad to these 2 kids go thru this throughout their lives.
Thank you for this wonderful post
Good luck for you exams

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Good luck for your exams darling! 🤗
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Why ishita can't move on in her life????
Why shud she stick to Raman...???
So that Mr. Raman Kumar Bhalla can blame her if any minute thing goes wrong in their life's...call her BAANJ and Manhoos...
Even if it's a plan he abused her enough before the plan started... everytime calling her BAANJ.. she is not a mother at all...she is manhoos...
Everytime he trust shagun over ishu...
He loves his exwife too much I must say...bcoz he trusts her too much...
Adi ruhi...says they LOVE ishima a lot but can't accept her happiness...
RUHI... We always thought ISHRU is unique...
I thought that ruhi will act as a shield for her ishima and stand against them who abused and humiliated her ishima I thought she will be very happy if ishima finds happiness...
But NO...she is crying for her papa who left no stone unturned to hurt and humiliate her ishima...
After all she is his blood and ishita is parayi...
SO NEITHER RUHI IS UNIQUE NOR HER LOVE FOR HER ISHIMA...
YEH HAI MOHABBATEIN... THERE WAS NO MOHABBATEIN FOR ISHITA EITHER FROM RAMAN OR RUHI...
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hey akansha nice review
I noticed that ishu said thanks to that certain someone today over the phone for the gift
maybe ishra are meeting for their remarriage anniversary but I wise they told the kids about their since its getting traumatic for them now and they are really insecure about losing their mother
what did alia do to her hair??
I hope shagun gets so busy with vidyut that she forgets about ishra
overall it was a good episode and if u notice ishu blushes a lot when she talks on the phone which she dint do when she met vidyut
I feel really bad for the kids
and I felt like bumping off mani becoz of his behaviour I mean all his life he kept on saying that he loves ishu so much and all and now he doesn't care that her husband is staying away from her becoz of his stupid decision to move out from India whereas he is busy pampering his wife who doesn't even think about him!!
Btw I noticed that shagun is not be able to handle a nuptial bond with someone but is more comfortable with live in relationships
first for 6 years with ashok than about 6 months with manoj and than 7 years kind of with raman but not in the literal sense but she was loyal to them for that period 😆
but once she gets married she feels like cheating 😕
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As you all know, I'm kinda short on time since I have an exam next week. So this is effectively a short break I have taken😉
I have responded to each of you in this reply -

1) Maya - Agree with all you said dear. I dont know why Pihu wasn't told the truth right after Ishita came back in their lives post the 7-yr leap, would've done a lot of damage control. And now, even if it is a plan, RuDi are having to navigate these painful emotions each day...celebrating Father's Day without their dad around, entertaining the possibility of a new man in their Ishima's life...trying to be strong but breaking inside because it means they are about to lose their life's anchor again.

It's heart-rending and so not fair to them. 😭😭

I am pissed with Mani, he doesn't deserve to be called a friend...and I dunno what delusions he has about his "friendship" being saved. But yes, like you state, I am more pissed with Ishita for forgiving him each time. Why does she have to be so understanding ALL THE TIME???

About Mihir giving gyaan, hahaha, yes none of it is useful in YHM. Sab solutions wasted.

Maya, you have such a unique take on these episodes...I am in awe of you how drew this connection - "I just see how fate plays Ruhi Shagun biological daughter brought IshRa together and Pihu Ishita biological daughter separated IshRA from the day she was born"

Heartbreaking, but beautiful...and so so true😭😭

2) DivanAdorables - so true! At this juncture I am most concerned about RuDi...because they are completely in the dark, close to coming to the conclusion that their parents are no more together, even in spirit. It's crushing, to say the least. And I am really pissed with both Ishu and Raman, that they even thought of executing this "plan" for Pihu's sake. IMO, Pihu is taking up a lot of space and time unnecessarily. She is totally not worth it.

3) Swa6 - Thank you dear, glad you liked the review. Ishita confounds me at times...she was the least interested in having her own child with Raman, and its understandable since she had RuDi to love and care for, for making her experience the joy of motherhood. Initially, her reaction to Pihu was also quite mechanical, and I dont blame her. Abhi bas forced drama dikhaya ja raha hai, on the premise that Pihu matters a lot to Ishita. I know kids kind of make up Ishita's world, but is Pihu that important that she had to put her other two kids (who btw at diff points of time lived with out one parent, and saw hell!)...why is Pihu being given the central role in their lives.

Why cant Raman take a stand against Pihu and Shagun's nonsense like he did once, longback, when he chose Ishita even over Adi's unreasonable demands and tantrums??

4) Viji (Mdwst) - I understand IshRa concerns about Pihu...but come on, she is no doodh ki dhuli...such a spoilt, adamant child. In this ONE YEAR she hasn't shown any signs of getting to know Shag's true colours and she is still happy to eat "Mama ke haath ka bana dal chawal" ...she doesn't care as much that Shagun delegates more than half of her responsibilities to Raman, because she has her Papa with her. What a moron. Ruhi had MORE sense and sensitivity at her age...Pihu has the brains to understand soap opera dramas but not understand how her father must be feeling, being away from RuDi.

Pihu does not care an iota about Ishita, and why should she? How is a child suddenly supposed to love a diff woman as her mother, when she has been "mothered" by a helicopter parent in her foundation years? Which btw are the crucial ones? Ruhi warmed up to Ishita because she was a broken soul, vulnerable, aching to be loved and nurtured, and Ishita came right along. Loved her unconditionally, made her come alive again. She did not have a parent like Shagun pretending to love her...

Ishita and Raman, IMO, are playing with fire...nothing else...this Pihu has brought them grief and will continue doing that...it's just sad to see they are relentlessly trying to gain her love. Why don't they understand, you CANNOT make someone love you?

In this process, they are actually creating a distance b/w themselves and RuDi? Is it even worth it?😲😲

5) Sririt - thanks dear!

6) Arooshee - You are not completely wrong in asking these questions. Heaven knows, I'd like Raman to genuinely repent for all his mistakes, his callous and selfish behaviour (when something goes wrong), and if it takes for him to fear losing Ishita to another man, then so be it. This would make for a very good track as well, would bring back the intensity of YHM. I still remember the IshMani track in the initial days...how it almost broke Raman to think Ishita is prolly just like Shagun...I'm not saying I enjoyed it, but I was struck seeing the deewangi in Raman's eyes...THAT was one time he literally pulled his heart outta his chest for Ishu...and for all the hurtful things he says and does, constantly humiliating his wife...he maybe, needs a jolt once more...

But I dont agree to what you're saying regarding Ruhi or Adi not wanting Ishita's happiness and standing up for her. If you remember, they were the ones who stood by her when Raman wanted to throw her out of Bhalla House, a year ago. They are not unhappy that their Ishima may have found love...they are just scared of being left without an anchor and shelter..ONCE MORE in their lives...for Ruhi, it will be ANOTHER huge blow, after almost 13-14 yrs of torture...can you imagine how directionless and lonely these kids might be feeling right now? Their dad doesn't care, hasn't called them even once in the last one year, their Mom is prolly dating someone and has moved on...and this automatically translates to Ishita wanting to move away from their lives...for good. It's heart-rending if you think how powerless this situation seems to them. And that is more so, because Ishita is possibly the only person in their lives who has loved them unconditionally...never trading their happiness to secure someone else's (Raman has been guilty of pitting one child against the other many a time)...

It's not easy for kids to accept this...for them to accept their parents are on their way to redefining their worlds...Raman, sticking by Pihu's side...Ishita, moving on with this new guy...and them, left alone, stranded...belonging to neither world.

So please don't blame them. They are actually the victims here. Being kept in the dark. Bandied about like objects in the custody drama and other shenanigans...almost discarded because someone else ALWAYS seems to be more important than them.


7) DikshaN - I agree. The kids need a break now.

Aalia is looking very hotch-potch type weird...dunno why they've dressed up her like that. She ALMOST looks like Shagun's protege😆😆😆

I don't think Vidyut is gonna be one/two epi affair...he may be helping IshRa meet up again, but I think he is going to fall for Ishita, and hard. And that, Shagun will not like. The only good thing that might come out of this is - her attentions from Pihu will e diverted and then maybe Pihu can see what a snake she is.

Mani is an _______ (FILL IN THE BLANKS PLEASE)

If he ever says he is Ishita's true friend or whatever, I'm going to break his neck. Such a dalbadloo.

How did he move on so easily from Ishita, and that for a woman like Shagun? How come he falls prey to her everytime? Such a loser...I hope he gets a nice hard kick on his bum when he sees Shagun gravitating towards Vidyut. Right now, I'd love nothing better than for him and Pihu to get bumped off. Waise bhi, they fell right from the skies. Suddenly. No gradual progression, no planning.😕

"Btw I noticed that shagun is not be able to handle a nuptial bond with someone but is more comfortable with live in relationships
first for 6 years with ashok than about 6 months with manoj and than 7 years kind of with raman but not in the literal sense but she was loyal to them for that period 😆
but once she gets married she feels like cheating 😕"
HAHAHAHAHA. WELL SAID😆


Edited by gravity23 - 8 years ago

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