Would you be able to tell your husband? - Page 2

Originally posted by: faryal-malik

first and foremost Vividha situation is not equal to those real girls who really have no way out and have to marry Vividha had a way out she could reveal the truth to vashists on wedding day itself The tandav she was doing againt her father threatening him she should have done that to reveal his truth but of course she would be sensible , sensitive and strong woman only then she would have done that but she is insensitive , dumb woman who did not think about this

secondly even if she couldn't but when you have mature and understanding husband who on first night itself showed what a gentleman he is who did not celebrated force himself on her , he did not even sleep on same bed with her why not tell him the truth ? He again and again asked her seeing her sad face what is the issue but she refused to tell him .Many of those real life victim of honor killing girls are not blessed to have a gentleman like Ravish as their husband Most of victim girls whose cases have come forward husbands are brutes , mcp types but Ravish is not this type so and vividha knew that clearly so why she took so long to tell him the truth and today she told him after seeing Atharv and his condition Its no gutsy work by her but yes if she would have done that on wedding day itself she would be really STRONG woman or chalo i would have even appreciated her if she would have done immediately because it was important , very important to tell him but naa she kept on delaying and before she told Ravish the truth he had already gave her choice Make up your mind , make a decision and then tell me i will accept your whatever decision and she really needed to see Atharv in mental state to make up her mind otherwise ?

she deserves no applause in my eyes

Originally posted by: 13thwish

Personally, I have very strong views regarding marriage, so it's kinda hard for me to picture myself being in a forced one.😆

That said, if I ever were in such a situation, I would not have made a lot of the choices Vivi made. For instance, I would have proactively looked for Atharv instead of relying on someone as unreliable as Uma. After that, my big priority woulda been to become financially independent, so that my option of walking out remained viable.

Regarding the telling part, I frankly admit that I would be very selfish, bide my time, and only tell when I was certain of my lover's and my own safety (because obviously that would remain my first priority). Survival n all that.

But yes, similar to Vivi, I would also return niceness with niceness in the meantime.

I would like to point out here, that in real life, it is unlikely that my "husband" would fall in love with me (no matter how nice I am) without sharing a single meaningful conversation. That is so not how these things work. Even people with crazy amounts of attraction take ages to reach the love stage. Who the hell is gonna fall for a frigid, cold-shouldering wife? They would be an idiot if they do!😆

With regard to the antagonism toward Vivi, dude it's mainly because of her (non)-reaction toward R. They expected to feel conflicted and really struggle with her choice. I mean how could she not melt after spending so much time in the company of His Awesomeness.

Instead, her clarity has people shook.

I think we (the people who actually know and love Vivi) are only ones unsurprised by this turn of events because she always had mental clarity, but the CVs just weren't letting her act on it, so it didn't seem like much.😛😆

Originally posted by: faryal-malik

first and foremost Vividha situation is not equal to those real girls who really have no way out and have to marry Vividha had a way out she could reveal the truth to vashists on wedding day itself The tandav she was doing againt her father threatening him she should have done that to reveal his truth but of course she would be sensible , sensitive and strong woman only then she would have done that but she is insensitive , dumb woman who did not think about this

secondly even if she couldn't but when you have mature and understanding husband who on first night itself showed what a gentleman he is who did not celebrated force himself on her , he did not even sleep on same bed with her why not tell him the truth ? He again and again asked her seeing her sad face what is the issue but she refused to tell him .Many of those real life victim of honor killing girls are not blessed to have a gentleman like Ravish as their husband Most of victim girls whose cases have come forward husbands are brutes , mcp types but Ravish is not this type so and vividha knew that clearly so why she took so long to tell him the truth and today she told him after seeing Atharv and his condition Its no gutsy work by her but yes if she would have done that on wedding day itself she would be really STRONG woman or chalo i would have even appreciated her if she would have done immediately because it was important , very important to tell him but naa she kept on delaying and before she told Ravish the truth he had already gave her choice Make up your mind , make a decision and then tell me i will accept your whatever decision and she really needed to see Atharv in mental state to make up her mind otherwise ?

she deserves no applause in my eyes