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Posted: 8 years ago
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Shaurya please refrain from being physically aggressive with females around you.Earlier too I had mentioned the same..grabbing the arm, arms around the shoulder, purposefully holding the hand painfully is a total no no.CVS please be very careful, Shaurya is ML ,don't propagate physical aggression as macho or heroic..I am sure most of the girls watching the show feel the same & clinch everytime he does something like this.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Much needed post. Even I am not comfortable with his physical aggression.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nitya and Radha,

While I agree with you that too much of physical aggression is not recommended ...you must not forget that at the end of the day it is pure drama and for entertainment purposes only...In the real world people like Shaurya, ASR, RK and the like will surely get a thamacha everytime from the women they deal with but in the reel world it is OK to be a macho man. I personally would not watch this show if Shaurya was shown as a lovey dovey type of male lead. So, It is a necessary evil. In tv serials everything is over dramatized and the result is what we see on the screens. So, just enjoy the show !

However, this is my pov, no offence plz!

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I don't think physically aggressive is macho or heroic..my personal opinion..for in reel life a step forward by hero & two steps backwards by heroine maybe OK but not in real life..refraining from physical aggression doesn't make him less macho or lovey dovey..what is not white doesn't mean that it is black..I would prefer in shades of grey..😊
Then again, it's my personal opinion.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The aggressiveness in these heroes is not really about being macho, but it is more of a display of dominance, which eventually stops when the couple admit love.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I understand what you both are trying to say, but it's not only between the couple (not that I am comfortable between them) but towards his Ex/ bhabhi.I don't know, somehow this pulling & pushing for whatever reason makes me uncomfortable. Why hurt someone? Both the women felt the pain😕
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ms.nitya12

I understand what you both are trying to say, but it's not only between the couple (not that I am comfortable between them) but towards his Ex/ bhabhi.I don't know, somehow this pulling & pushing for whatever reason makes me uncomfortable. Why hurt someone? Both the women felt the pain😕


True, but how else would he throw her out, when he has already ask her to leave. Shruti wants him, no doubt and she is stubborn. I donot think he hurt her in manhandling.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hey...nitya...!

Though...in the real world, I fully disapprove and condemn these types of behaviors of a man towards a woman or towards any human being and animal ... I won't judge Shaurya too severely, because for me, this show is only a fiction with fictive characters...!

The actors are being paid big sum of money to play their respective roles, and they're doing it without any objection...so, who are we to object...(this is my pov...no offence to anyone)...! Furthermore...if in future, we want to see some very intense, self-reproach, caring, passionate, romantic scenes between MehRya...it's a must for cvs to show us these brutal scenes...!

The day cvs will show him cheating or having an extra-marital affair after marrying Mehek...that day, I'll be the first to support you, and bash/curse the cvs black & blue...! For now...I am here to watch and enjoy an intense love/hate show...so for me, all these things have no importance...! Because...I know, at the end of the day...Shaurya himself will be the healer of Mehek wounds...!

This manhandling thing is nothing compared to what the other indian telly soaps are showing...! If we'll try to find faults and object to everything which aren't to our likings/satisfactions...then we should ask all the other cvs of all the other shows to tame/tone down their scripts...!

This is the reel world...the world of fiction, where profit & loss play a big role...! Cvs will write and show only what is saleable and profitable...!

You may think I'm cold-hearted and insensitive...but, this is how I perceive this fictional world and everything that accompanies it...! I won't let my real life interfere with my reel life...and vice-versa...! I shall just enjoy this show...which happens to be the only one I'm religiously following, and shall give a miss and the back stage exit door treatment to all the imperfections...!

Nitya...that doesn't mean I don't agree with you...! You too, you're right in your judgement...and I respect your viewpoint...! It's just that sometimes...two people belief differs, and this happens in our family too...! But, at the end of the day, the family become one...because love for our family is bigger than our ego/difference...!

This is my personal view...no one has to agree with me...! Everyone is free and has full right to pen down his/her opinion...! We should just all work together to keep this forum as positive and healthy as we can...! ⭐️
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Waida1234

Hey...nitya...!

Though...in the real world, I fully disapprove and condemn these types of behaviors of a man towards a woman or towards any human being and animal ... I won't judge Shaurya too severely, because for me, this show is only a fiction with fictive characters...!

The actors are being paid big sum of money to play their respective roles, and they're doing it without any objection...so, who are we to object...(this is my pov...no offence to anyone)...! Furthermore...if in future, we want to see some very intense, self-reproach, caring, passionate, romantic scenes between MehRya...it's a must for cvs to show us these brutal scenes...!

The day cvs will show him cheating or having an extra-marital affair after marrying Mehek...that day, I'll be the first to support you, and bash/curse the cvs black & blue...! For now...I am here to watch and enjoy an intense love/hate show...so for me, all these things have no importance...! Because...I know, at the end of the day...Shaurya himself will be the healer of Mehek wounds...!

This manhandling thing is nothing compared to what the other indian telly soaps are showing...! If we'll try to find faults and object to everything which aren't to our likings/satisfactions...then we should ask all the other cvs of all the other shows to tame/tone down their scripts...!

This is the reel world...the world of fiction, where profit & loss play a big role...! Cvs will write and show only what is saleable and profitable...!

You may think I'm cold-hearted and insensitive...but, this is how I perceive this fictional world and everything that accompanies it...! I won't let my real life interfere with my reel life...and vice-versa...! I shall just enjoy this show...which happens to be the only one I'm religiously following, and shall give a miss and the back stage exit door treatment to all the imperfections...!

Nitya...that doesn't mean I don't agree with you...! You too, you're right in your judgement...and I respect your viewpoint...! It's just that sometimes...two people belief differs, and this happens in our family too...! But, at the end of the day, the family become one...because love for our family is bigger than our ego/difference...!

This is my personal view...no one has to agree with me...! Everyone is free and has full right to pen down his/her opinion...! We should just all work together to keep this forum as positive and healthy as we can...! ⭐️

Yes dear, I am perfectly fine with different point of views...at the end of the day we are one crazy ZkM forum family.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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True, but how else would he throw her out, when he has already ask her to leave. Shruti wants him, no doubt and she is stubborn. I donot think he hurt her in manhandling.

My POV ,If Shruti was acting stubborn then Shaurya could have left the room.

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