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Simrran

@poojak

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

I m irritated with this dialogue now...

1. dev to Sona - I know ma more than anyone in the world, u won't understand Sona

2. Ishwari to Sona - I know dev and Neha more than anyone else in the world, Sona tum nehi samjohgi

3. Neha to SOna - I know what I am going through, Bhabi aap nehi samjohgi

For god sake please tell me who wrote this sick dialogue because in dixit clan nobody is mature enough to understand what the other person is "SAYING" then how the hell dev/ishwari can claim to understand what the other person is"THINKING" when they dont even make any effort to share their pain.

All they do is crib about their past life. Ok, we got the idea that u guys faced a lot of hardship in the year's past but now u guys have everything but u r still not thankful.

Sona, my dear u r really sona (gold) that dixits don't deserve. To understand someone's situation, one doesn't neccessarily need to be in that situation but actually need a heart who could understand that pain and be part of the present and make u forget about ur painful past and take u forward towards a beautiful future and that's what exactly Sona is trying to do but this self obsessed ishwari is so clinced to her past who will never let anyone forget about their black past.

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Shaun

@Jade0001

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

Ishwari raised Dev and Neha with the same complexes she has

but its also true that Dev knows her on a better level as he and his mother always had spend time together but Ishwari fails as a mother to truly understand her kids while Dev too fails as a son to understand his mother's mind while Neha has caught on to her mother's tactics

Sonakshi will surely be someone that brings the Dixit family together make them understand each other better she'll be the one teaching them about relations

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pkbdas61

@pkbdas61

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

The answer to your question is - tum nahi samjhoge!!!! 😊😊

The mystery will unravel bit by bit.. through the eyes, ears and heart of Sona. It seems to have taken her 3 months to understand Dev better than Ishwari... and with another 3 months she will be the expert in dixitology! Wait and watch!

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Simrran

@poojak

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

I guess thats what i will have to do "Wait and watch" because even i dont understand what Ishwari wants? 😕

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Tia.0

@Tia.0

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 9 years ago

How we understand someone else's pain?

1. Have empathy - Put ourselves in their shoes and see how we would feel if it happened to us.

2. Feel Sympathy - Feel sorry that they had or have to go through tough times and try to be there for them.

3. Be a Good Listener - Ask questions and try to get as information as possible to better assess their situation to figure out how can we help.

Let me tell you Ishwari, Dev or Neha have never done any of these.

Did they have empathy for Sona when she is treated like crap? Did they think how they would feel if they were insulted like Sona was being insulted?

Did they have sympathy for Neha when Ishwari is still running after Dev despite her promise to make up to Neha for all these years of preferential treatment?

Do they answer any questions clearly or try to share their side of the story?

No. Yet, they understand everything and no one else understands anything.

Edited by tia.o - 9 years ago