Swara defending Nikhil. - Page 2

Originally posted by: fangirl-swasan

What irked me was the unwavering trust she had on Nikhil. Logically I know that he wasn't at fault but it just took one phrase from him for Swara to trust him. Like Nikil asked Swara to trust him the same thing that Sanskar asked ages ago. He asked her for another chance but she disregarded his request and walked away. That difference which comes in the way she treats Sanskar and other people puts,me off. Also what was the need to remind him of his fault that happened six months ago. Isn't that guy suffering enough already like she knows that he drinks. Sanskar was immensely hurt again when she accused him of making the same mistake. why doesn't she understand his perspective. He us trying to find his brother like a mad man and he clarified that he had no intentions of suspecting her friend it was just the circumstances that forced him to take that step. I mean instead of pointing fingers at Sanskar she could have said that Sanskar I know that you are hell bent on finding Laksh but logically Nikil is not the culprit. Don't rub it on his face that he is wrong every single time. That's my two cents about it.

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Hello Sara
Umm, as per the show we've been watching an year ago, Sanskaar had been accused of molesting her sister, when there was proof against him, and instead of her sister she had supported Sanskaar and proved him innocent in all ways, she could. She is like this. For her the right matters, she'll support the person who she feels is right, and she is very stubborn, we know that and she herself admitted some episodes back.
It isn't that she doesn't understand his perspective. She ofcourse does, but at that moment she couldn't have him taking her friend, who she knows is innocent, in such a rude way. She tried to convince him in many ways and finally gave the proofs.
Yes, I agree that was wrong! She shouldn't have done that. But if their is intensity and angst, there have to be tears and anger I guess. He clarified after she proved him innocent, so that point is invalid. Sanskaar pushed her away in the rudest way possible, he was definitely not ready to listen to her, so she took the step and she said she would let him do whatever he wants if she failed in the ten minutes, simple. If Sanskaar can taunt her all the time, she can too. She isn't euphoric being away from him. The separation pains her as well.

Originally posted by: MusicAddict

Honestly Akanksha, if Sanskaar can keep taunting her for hurting him so much and that is acceptable by all, then if Swara taunts about her decision and faith being right, nobody should mind. Swara was wrong when she left him and if Sanskaar taunts her for that, he is not wrong. So Sanskaar misjudged Nikhil and her trust was right, so she can taunt and nobody should mind. That is where the Tashan comes from right?😆
I don't feel that ways. She was desperate to not let Sanskaar take Nikhil away. At that time her priority was to prove Nikhil innocent. Sanskaar pushed her, yet all the while she could come ahead because she wanted to prove him innocent. She tried to convince him by reminded him of what had happened which made me ANGRY as well and Varun NAILED that scene, the way he clenched his fists, but I don't call it taunting!
The question is why would Sanskaar be right, when she knows he is wrong. A guy coming from Canada after 15 years would surely have no idea about her brother-in-law's phone.

Originally posted by: MusicAddict

Hello Sara
Umm, as per the show we've been watching an year ago, Sanskaar had been accused of molesting her sister, when there was proof against him, and instead of her sister she had supported Sanskaar and proved him innocent in all ways, she could. She is like this. For her the right matters, she'll support the person who she feels is right, and she is very stubborn, we know that and she herself admitted some episodes back.
It isn't that she doesn't understand his perspective. She ofcourse does, but at that moment she couldn't have him taking her friend, who she knows is innocent, in such a rude way. She tried to convince him in many ways and finally gave the proofs.
Yes, I agree that was wrong! She shouldn't have done that. But if their is intensity and angst, there have to be tears and anger I guess. He clarified after she proved him innocent, so that point is invalid. Sanskaar pushed her away in the rudest way possible, he was definitely not ready to listen to her, so she took the step and she said she would let him do whatever he wants if she failed in the ten minutes, simple. If Sanskaar can taunt her all the time, she can too. She isn't euphoric being away from him. The separation pains her as well.

Honestly speaking, I don't find Swara wrong in defending her friend! That's Swara who always stands for her family, friends & ofcourse for right! I'm not angry with her for trusting & defending Nikhil when she knows that he came from Canada after 15 years!

Originally posted by: Nupur_5

Honestly speaking, I don't find Swara wrong in defending her friend! That's Swara who always stands for her family, friends & ofcourse for right! I'm not angry with her for trusting & defending Nikhil when she knows that he came from Canada after 15 years!

Bt what angered me was her approach & her attitude towards Sanskaar! It's not that Sanskaar was wrong or intentionally trying to frame Nilkhil just because he is Swara's friend! If there was anyone else in Nikhil's place he would have done the same! And it's not that he or police was going to hang Nikhil to death! Sanskaar only wanted to know the truth & police taking a suspect to custody is the procedures only!

Swara knew that Nikhil came from Canada & is not what Sanskaar & police were thinking, hence defended him and there's nothing wrong! Bt she could have done that lil calmly without making Sanskaar angry or hurting him by reminding him that he did mistake before!

Her approach made me angry!

She was saying continuously that her friend is innocent TO Sanskaar but she totally ignored him & gave the passport to the police! It was her ego!

And her attitude towards Sanskaar which actually made me angry! First she ignored him, then she deliberately taunt him that she was right & Sanskaar was wrong! It really looked like she was trying to prove him wrong! It's not that Sanskaar had some personal dushmani with Nikhil bcoz he is Swara's friend (Yes he was jealous) & was trying to prove Nikhil wrong to hurt Swara! He is searching for Laksh from 6 months like a man possessed & he will do anything to find clues!

And if there was someone unknown in Nikhil's place, what Swara would have done? She also would have wanted to police ask that person just like Sanskaar wanted! Swara wouldn't supported that person bcoz she don't know him the same way Sanskaar didn't know Nikhil.

So I'm not angry with Swara bcoz she defended Nikhil but bcoz of her way of doing that & her attitude towards Sanskaar!

Another thing is that Swara believes & understands everyone - be it Nikhil, Laksh, Ragini, Baba, Ma, Dadi, MM-Wasis - Bt not Sanskaar! Right now she is behaving like Sanskaar is wrong whatever he do!