what will vividha do if ravish wants to con this marriage?

watching this show since the episode of vividha trying to hear atharv's voice from wash basin n seeing his glimpses here n there, initially mainly to know whether atharv is alive or has really turned to ghost :P n also presence of shashank has kept me watching it...liked vikram even before but still did not follow jndsd as i had no idea about the story at that point...neither i know the history of this show nor i go thro all the topics on this forum so what i write could be incorrect or knowingly or unknowingly i'll be hurting some or other fan group and the topic could have been already discussed to death so reading it again may irritate most of u but still just written it 😃

what will vivdha do if ravish tells her either consummate this marriage or just break this marriage and go back to her house... will vividha con with him? i think no...she will have to break this marriage and go back to her house...then what about atharv's safety? since everybody saying vividha is still in this marriage as she is scared her father may hurt atharv again...but if she can take that risk in that case then why not take it now itself n break the marriage rather than lying to the people who are trusting her, keeping fast for other man, looking at stars with ravish etc (all just bcoz ravish is so good that she knows he will never force her for anything...but should the return for his goodness be his wife playing with his emotions?... does he deserve it? why don't vividha ask these questions to herself n feel guilty n say the truth...how long will she lead this double life of atharv's vividha by heart and ravish's wife at the same time:P...)...agree she has tried a few times but if she wants to tell it to him at any cost then there are many ways coz the matter is very important unlike what ravish hides from vividha which has nothing to do with his relation with his wife...if ravish is not ready to listen she can text him or ask him his mail id and mail him and keep doing it till he reads or ask him to check his inbox till he does:P...shouldn't vividha be restless till getting rid of this marriage and be back to atharv... she did the marriage and saved atharv but why should she still stick to it n give win-win to what her father did , just telling her mother she don't consider herself as daughter of her father(whats his name?pl) means nothing unless she breaks this forced marriage done by him...or if she does not want to hurt ravish's family then does she has any idea of reuniting with atharv at all 😕... it makes me doubt is she still serious about atharv or she just trying to move on with ravish n so her attempts were always half-hearted whenever she tries to tell about herself n atharv to ravish? is there any chance for vitharv reunion ? (asking seriously 😕 though not a big vitharv fan i support vitharv reunion from the story point of view)... as a viewer i see this show as only moving towards an usual story of love blossoming in a forced marriage and the lover turning negative🤔

Originally posted by: Africanqueenkel

I see it this way if she could say no , to atharva the man she loved . And her reason was am not ready , even if we got married tomorrow I don't think I will be ready.
Then she can say NO to ravish without a second thought . I don't care about any other thing , and I know she will say no , I will want her to leave if that is the ultimatum given. I can joKe with many things on this earth but when it comes to a persons right to their body and dignity is a nono for me.
But if ravish insist that since she said no ,she should leave, I expect her to leave , I will hundred percent want her to leave. If she stays and Ravish knowing that she said no before and is not doing this because she wants to but because she has no choice in it . Then marital rape is still rape.
That's my view on the consummation if it happens with one partner knowing the other partner does not want to have sex at ALL , but are doing it because of blackmail .

Originally posted by: anjs

I so agree with you, TM

Even I am confused, what she would do...

her fans says, she is with Ravish, as she is scared for Atharva's life and is staying with Ravish for the deal. That she is with Ravish, but married to only Atharva by heart. So till when will she stay with Ravish, all her life or only till her father dies. Isnt it unfair to Ravish, that this woman is staying with him as his wife, just to safe guard her bf's life. That this woman doesnt love him. He has married someone. Though he knows the relation is still new, but in future, sometime down the line, he will except to take it forward and consummate the marriage. What will she do then ? Will she consummate ? Has she thought this through ?

And if she still feel married to Atharva. Then what is the drama of going out with Ravish, on her birthday. Making him feel like they are going out as newly-wedded couple. And I dont even understand, why she had to go out like that, that day, as if Atharva had dumped her and she was feeling choked, hence went out with Ravish, cause she is trying to move on. That is the message that scene gave out.

What i want to see is th guilt laden Vividha. The one who is not at peace, cause she knows she is doing wrong. They need to show her bechaini... But They are not.

Also let me make it clear, that I am not a Ravish fan. I want vividha to take a stance. Go back to Atharva, or just become independent. But not cheat Ravish. Let him have a chance at finding a wife who would love him.

Also people who say, she doesnt want to hurt her in-laws and Ravish. But till when...is she planning to not hurt them for her entire lifetime... if not then, what will happen when she eventually tells them... so why wait a few years, get more attached and then break their heart...why not say it now, when they are still not that attached and getting to know her.

Originally posted by: anjs

I dont think the TM meant forced sex or rape...

what she means, is that eventually Ravish will expect a proper marriage, inclusive of a sexual relation. Just like it is with all married couple. So what will Vivi do then ?

Will she break the marriage, cause she still thinks of Atharva as her husband or will she go with the flow, as Ravish is a good man and she doesnt want to hurt him.

If she cannot go through with it, then its better she breaks the marriage now only, why wait till it reaches that stage.

And if she is willing to do everything, even consummate her marriage to keep her end of the deal with KK. Then its not fair towards Ravish, cause she doesnt love him.

Originally posted by: Africanqueenkel

That is why I said I expect her to say N...O . No.
(For me there are no two options. Up to me she would have spoken up already but the cvs want to drag us to hell with how slow it is going).

Because if it ever gets to that stage ( which I doubt ) and it is shown she is not attracted to him or does not love him and let's for arguments sake say she says NO. Then is given the ultimatum by ravish ( which I don't think so , he is not that type of person) Then its what it is . Because he knows she doesn't want to and is doing it because she has no choice. To me consensual sex is when both are doing out of free will and are happy about doing it . No one is drugged , blackmailed , forced , or talked into it after saying NO ..etc...

Originally posted by: anjs

ok , i thought, u were thinking that he will force her...

Ravish wont give the ultimatum. He isnt that kinda person, but he will expect in future. Every husband does. And its not wrong, right ?

Ofcourse we all know and are hoping that it wont reach to that stage.

But i have seen such situation is a few shows, and also the female leads reluctance to get intimate with the guy (whoever they marry) and i always wonder, that what did they think, when they got married. That the husband will never get intimate with them ? Cause its absurd to even think so.

This is specially found in Balaji shows. Which are half of the time, illogical.

So same way i thought here too, that what was she thinking when she agreed for the marriage and now behaving like his wife, yet, not telling him the truth.

If she is taking it as a deal, that Atharva stays safe as long as she with Ravish, then what about the time when he starts expecting intimacy. Has she thought over it. Even if she is not ready, ever (cause ofcourse she wont be as she thinks of Atharva as her husband) then that is un-fair towards RAvish too, cause he is married to this woman, who will never give him the position of her husband. Neither will she get intimate with him. In short, she isnt Ramakant, who consummated the marriage despite not loving Suman.

We know that Vividha will meet Atharv soon. But she doesnt, right ? As of now, her reality is that ATharva is in Himalayas, probably working on his business. So what is her plan for the future ?