Vividha is not wrong, not really

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Can we all set judgements aside and see what the girl has been through for the past few days? On the day that she was supposed to get married to the love of her life she came across her father's true colours! A person she grew up idolising and worshipping! She watched Atharv get beaten to a pulp, at that moment keeping him alive was her main concern so she made a deal with Kailash from that minute the only thing she has tried to do is follow that deal, she knows that Ravish and his family are nice people and that they are not to be blamed for whatever happened to her. Which is why she is trying fulfill her duties towards them. The only fault of hers that I see is that she has not made more effort from her side to see where Atharv is and how he is coping? She just took her mother's word for it and also the fact that she still hasn't told Ravish the truth behind why she married him? Apart from this I don't think she is wrong to keep a fast for Atharv while being married to Ravish on paper. She has not accepted this marriage, time and again she had made it clear that nobody can take Atharv's place in her life. She is not meeting Atharv to canoodle with him behind Ravish's back for her to be called immoral or shameless. She is just finding it difficult to go against her heart! It's easy to point fingers on her and question her but difficult to be in her place and do what she is doing. She can do mundane duties of a wife like handing over wallet,cleaning sessions with Saasu maa, helping out in finding something etc but when it comes to something like karva chauth vrat she cannot do it for someone other Atharv. Her heart has not made peace with the fact that he is not here or that she is not married to him and I don't think it'll ever. If this makes her selfish then so be it I for one am glad that she is not another star plus Devi. If there is no love in a marriage neither the rituals nor that institution holds any meaning. But yes, I am curious about how the CVs are going to show Vividha breaking her fast because if Ravish does it for her then technically the fast that she has kept is invalid for both Ravish and Atharv.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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THIS! this is exactly why she is not wrong because not once has she been doubtful of where she stands when it comes to what she wants. FFS you saw how she got married YET you want her to go against what she TRULY wants because of this so called marriage? One that she doesn't accept from her heart. Does that not count?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I actually have nothing more to add because this brilliantly says what I feel. I agree with everything you have written here!
I think people keep forgetting that Vividha did do all the vachans with Atharv before she got married to Ravish. Those were the vachans she believed in. The rest with Ravish, the mangal sutra, sindoor, are all just symbols for her. With her heart and soul she is married to Atharv.

And of course we will know from the flashback that she has already kept her fast for Atharv before because she expected to live her whole life with him. And just because he is not with her now, he is still in her every breath so how can she keep a fast for anyone else.

Great post!😳

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