A Respite - Page 2

Originally posted by: randommusings

I was terrified to watch today's epi bcoz of the mooh dikhayi rasam

Me too😆

but am so glad we got some good scenes today. Dev's sorry was much needed, it was expected last night but still good he apologised first thing in the morning. Really liked how Sona stopped him from saying further. Though really want to see a calm discussion on how to handle such situations together. Maybe we will see that too soon.

Yes, they need to sit and discuss everything like adults.

This is what we expect from them..standing up for themselves and supporting each other.

Though this mooh dikhayi rasam was so archaic..that covered ghoonghat was really unnecessary, it was so humiliating as if you will get a gift only if you meet their beauty standards. And people talking about Sona as if she is invisible.

Yeah, nobody really follows these rasams so rigidly these days.The rasam is meant to make the bride feel welcome and introduce her to all not to humiliate and judge her.

And people talking about Sona right in front of her, who does that?

I am really interested to see Sona and Neha bonding, both helping each other on how to manage inlaws.

Me too

P.S. Since all rasams are over, I hope Dadi bua will go after the cooking drama.

Please, let's book her tickets and throw her out of the house.ishwari and GKB are more than enough for the drama.We don't need the regressive and rude lady for that.

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

they need to cut the drama part a lot more.

Totally agree.

Words spoken are fine, but it is words that are lived that make the difference. I really want Dev to mean what he says to Sona and it should be consistent too. yes, he did come to her support, but what the heck.. he is her husband and he bloody well should. she has left such a loving and caring home for him and the environment is so unfriendly and cold. Dev should know that by now, especially with GKB and Bua around. Or does Dev think that Sona can handle all on her own!! Yes, she pretty well can but then if she handles them and they get offended, THEN you need to support her, not just when mere taunts are being made.

👏Yes!Dev did exactly what any husband should do .It was nothing extra ordinary.And as you said his actions should speak for him.Sona can fight her own battles, but he should support her when it is really needed, i.e when his mother or GKB or Bua come into equation.Then he needs to speak up as well as support her when she stands for herself against them.That would be his real test.

i liked the episode in patches and for the few minutes that were very very good. Bijoy and Asha conversation. They are truly goals for husband and wife. Dev and Sona conversation in bed. They are going to set goals for young couples for sure. Sona's reply to Bua on how much she earns. The rest simply put was just to be ignored.

Originally posted by: ashakd

I actually loved the episode. I was all equiped to fast forward all the muh dikhayi crap and watch on devaskhi. But I ended up seeing everything and ohh boy I loved it.

Ditto.I was all set to watch a drama filled negative episode but was happy to see some positivity.

Only hated Dev's scenes, because I felt they where shot seperate,and edited later on. But full marks to his dialogues.

Neha- sona bonding...wow...need more and more of those. Even with ria and nikki..

Yes, yes, yes. I guess everybody wants to see that bonding between Sona and the sisters,especially Neha

Dadi bua dropped in last tuesday. May hang around till friday. SO they get to see 2 weeks of trp, if it has made any difference...and then send her back. So just handle her for a few more days. By the way she is more reasonable than GKB at times.

Her archaic thoughts and rude words make it impossible for me to appreciate the rare moments when she was more reasonable than GKB.I just want her gone.

However I think, our quota of a delightful episode ends today. We may have more drama up...in the days to follow.

Nooo, don't say that.I've had enough drama to last the entire year.But I know we are in for more drama in the upcoming episodes.I just hope that the CVs balance it with positive scenes as well.(Hope springs eternal😆)

Originally posted by: Moony87

Again a beautiful post. It was such a surprising change after a depressing episode. The whole muh dikhaai was eye rolling. I don't know if this is only with me, but with time all these so called rasams are more of pain in the large intestine than some fun be it in real life or reel, not in all cases though. It's more about fault finding as rightly pointed by Bengali Babe😃.

Thank you😊And the rituals shown are a pain to watch.In reality who utters such nonsense?Rituals are meant for welcoming the bride,blessings and fun, not for finding flaws and filled with drama as shown in the show.

😆hen she used garib ki beti. My mom and I hi fived😆

That was simply awesome😃How will Radha ever be able to call herself GKB now without remembering what Sona said😆

Mamaji - He deserves a standing ovation in every episode. I love him for not loving his awful wife😆

True.I love how he always shuts her up😃

Ishwari - I give up on her. She is beyond my understanding with only one thing constant - I never get good vibes from her anymore.

Same here.No matter what she does,I just cannot see any good in it.

Nikki - can she ever walk in straight line🥱 it's annoying to see her doing silly mistakes in name of chirpiness be it making Sonakshi wear that chunri in Neha's wedding, colliding with people while running around or colliding with Sonakshi while getting down the stairs making the national treasure pallu fall off Sona's head.

Her character is thrown in for humor and silliness.The sisters disappear when everything is happening and come across as brainless at times.Remember when she wanted Sona's bracelet that Dev had brought for her after their break up?Then she was jumping in joy about the wedding when she was missing during the entire break up.🥱But anyway I enjoy her scenes mostly.She is the cute little clumsy sister.It's entirely another matter how the others react to the result of her actions.Like Bua's absurd and irritating archaic reaction yesterday.Since when did a pallu became a factor in deciding the capability of a person in managing her home?Crazy woman.

Bijoy - He needs anger management classes😆.. But somehow I still am able to relate. He at least doesn't maintain two faces like ishwari. His dislike has been out in open. His bonding with Asha ... Somehow I feel more love between them that the lead couple off lately. Such a pleasant heartwarming relationship. Something to learn from and something to yearn for in your own life 👏

Yes,Bijoy is pure at heart.I just love their scenes.So sweetBose family sure gives us family and couple goals.

Deb Babu - He looked hot. He talked brilliant. He was classy and suave. Sheer bliss. If for Sona it's sada suhaagan raho, for Deb Babu it's sada pyaar se sabko fodte raho.😆

😆True that.

Originally posted by: dsr11

I can take Asha Bijoy romance any day. They are so cute. Family scene was also beautiful.

Yup.

Dadibua and her ladies were making so much fuss about the pallu like the whole saree came off! Drama drama drama!

Exactly.Irritating women.Send Bua away now.

Eeshwari won't change anytime soon. She will say one thing in front of Dev and do something else behind his back. In future, she might make a fuss about infertility but Dev might support Sona firmly, so that won't change her. I guess, Sona would help Neha become independent and that might start to soften her slowly. But Dev might know about prenup and he might probably go away from her with Sona. Sona might help them mend their relationship again. That's when she will realize Sona's worth finally. That's my prediction of Eeshwari's journey. I am turning into @gemini54 now.😆

😆The show had turned all of us into plot predictors.