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Posted: 8 years ago
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U all r strangers to me...but i doesn't feel like dat...my sister is working nd she is not having much time to spend with me...but when she has she luves to be with me...i'm finding my sister here now...thank u all again...
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Posted: 8 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: Niranjana98

U all r strangers to me...but i doesn't feel like dat...my sister is working nd she is not having much time to spend with me...but when she has she luves to be with me...i'm finding my sister here now...thank u all again...



Thank u for understanding dear... plz don't do anything wrong
Life is so beautiful dear, nathing is bigger than life...
Just think ur parents who love u unconditionally...
Be happy for them...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Firstly calm down.As pointed by other members, nothing and nobody is worth giving your life for.Do not even think about it. Life is very precious. You have got a lot of opportunities and a great life ahead for you. You need to understand your own value. You don't need acceptance from anybody. Be strong, be brave.A guy who is so fickle minded does not deserve your love. A guy who is causing you so much pain, who is acting so thoughtlessly does not deserve you.

You are very young right now. Focus on your life, on your studies.Become independent
Suicide is never the solution darling. I am sure you have family and friends who love you so much for exactly who you are.Approach them whenever you feel low. Never keep your emotions hidden from loved ones. Your parents would always guide you in the right direction.

Be happy, be brave,never give up! Never let anybody make you feel bad about yourself.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Nooo Girl don't take such step just coz of a looser (sorry to use this term)but according to the incidents u telling us He is a man of no words.just concentrate on ur studies.Give urself sometime n instead of telling him to block u ...I think u should ignore him n block him in every way whether hi likes it or no.Didn't want to be too harsh but suggesting u this from my own personal experience.All the best.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#15
Try to calm down and think about your family. Detach yourself from him in every means possible. Concentrate on studies or sports or whatever you like. Just keep yourself busy and surrounded by family and friends.
In few months you will be in college and you will be surprised how easy it was to forget such bad memories. You are not alone, many goes through such emotions in school, and as you grow older you will realise that all this was worth nothing. You will make new friends, meet better people and in no time you will completely forget him. Believe me, its true.

Just be strong and engross yourself in studies or any hobby and try to excel in that.
Posted: 8 years ago
#16
WTH...!! u attempted Suicide????!!! Leave this matter ... your destiny will tell u who is ur life partner... do not this stupidity,,,.. think about ur Parents once...how they will feel... if he truely loves u... he will come back into ur life.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#17
I am going to say this because you are very young. This guy is playing you, pure and simple. He knows you love him and he can blow hot and cold on you.
Concentrate on your studies and don't waste your life after a man who is treating your emotions like a convenience.

One day, you will meet a man who won't play games with you and will stand up for you. Wait for that man and don't ruin your life after someone who is not worthy of you.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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child, you are in class 12! So you must be something like 17 or so! You have a long life ahead. Here is my unasked for fatherly advice. Forget all this and focus on your studies. Also, do not let all serials, movies, and the world of make-believe get the better of you. Let this pass. it is critical. Surround yourself with a lot of other creative activities. Hone your hobbies and the last thing that you should be thinking about is love. At this age, it is invariably infatuation that attempts to clone the feelings of love. it is a natural passing phase. Please, Please, Please, do not use your energies on boys and men at this age. They are not worth it. make something out of yourself first and when the time is right, a Mr Right will come for you, may be at 25, may be at 30 or maybe even at 40 or more. Do not get desperate for a relationship. True love will finds its way to you. Remember these words.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Life is very precious and should be respected because it's a gift of god. Your mom waited eagerly for nine months to see your face , feel you , hold you in her arms...kiss you tenderly ... When a mother gives birth to a child or adopts a child ...that first touch ...that love for her lil one gives her hope for an entire life time. I am sure when your parents held you in their arms for the first time they would have felt the same . You are their hope dear. They have spent so many years of their life loving you ...nourishing you ..taking care of you ...guiding you ...protecting you ...

So imagine what your parents would go thru if you ignore their love and affection...and take wrong decision...and besides is it worth it?

I don't think so ...love should help you to grow as a person...love should give you hope to live...love should make you progress in life...love should make you a better person...love should bring in the need to live and look ahead ...above all love should make you happy and at peace.

Whatever happens , happens for good...just forget it and move ahead..

I feel there is an age for everything in life...now is the time for you to study ... enjoy your educational life with friends and family...then after your education.. concentrate on building a career and being financially independent...at the same time enjoying single life too.. shopping ...travelling with family...movies with friends...trying out new restaurants and different cuisines during weekends...then one day god will decided this girl has had loads of fun with her friends...high time she got a life partner...and then Yes !! there you go...your love story will start then...God has a love story for every one...he will slowly help you see it when the time is rt for you ..you need to wait and trust in god.

Now is the time for you to study so that this education can help you to be financially independent in future to support yourself and parents.

Always remember...1) Tomorrow is the product of your todays decisions and choices. So please be smart and concentrate on improving yourself and helping your family. When you feel upset go watch TV , read books or talk to people around you...life is beautiful dear and its worth living ...

2) Don't waste your time on ppl who have no value for you ..spend it wisely with people who care for you and respect you for who you are.

3) Always have hope in life...think good...hope for a better tomorrow J

PS : ALWAYS BE HAPPY ...YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR HAPPINESS...DON'T ALLOW OTHER PERSON TO BE SO IMPORTANT THAT HE OR SHE TAKES YOUR HAPPINESS AWAY...NO ONE IS WORTH THAT MUCH!!

BE HAPPY and SPREAD HAPPINESS ...keep smiling and cheer up...

😊Life is beautiful 😊 Love it 😊Live it 😊

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Posted: 8 years ago
#20
Dear... This is the age where u start getting all these feelings... Its quite normal... I would suggest to put hold on ur running emotions for a while... I know it won't be easy... But trust me.. Once u cross this phase u will be able to see things clearly... His thoughts would disturb u... Seeing him will distract u.. His reactions on ur actions sometimes will make u feel he loves u... But from his answer what I understand is even though he likes u he may have his own priorities wch he has to concentrate on... If he is of ur class or even a bit elder,he knows this age is not for all this... Same with u... Understand what ur priorities are... Try to achieve ur goal and let him achieve his... Both of u concentrate in building ur life... U can still talk to him... But again trying to avoid him will make ur situation worse... Because by doing this u will be thinking of him more... Face him confidently... Both of u now have a long path to go... Talk to him and discuss about this... Be open... This will help... Both of u together decide about ur careers and work towards it... Even though it would be tough initially, u will learn later... After few years if u still have same feelings for each other then u can think of leading ur life together...
And stop thinking about suicide... Its nonsense... Is he the only person in ur life... What about ur parents, siblings, Friends...

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