My luv tragedy...pls help me...

I need to confess something here...i'm studying in a scl nd i'm a south indian girl... I luv a guy...nd i proposed him last year oct 3 nd he said no to me...after dat incident i tried to avoid ...but after dat he used to see me and he gets jealous whenever i speak to some other guy...these were noticed by my frnds and they told me abt this...again i started developing feelings fr him...last week thursday september 29 i proposed him again...now also he told me the same reply "NO"...i got fed up with dis and i asked him to block me in every possible ways...he said no he won't...i kept telling him for so many hours to block me and he said no...i asked him why and he told me that he was not able to do that...and i again requested him to block me he said he will tell me abt the decision in d evng...he told me i luv u in d evng...and we spoke for an hr and i was in cloud nine at dat moment...i asked him do u used me to see me in d scl...and he said yeah more spontaneously...aftr dat 1 hr chat i got a doubt nd asked him do u really luv me and he said dat i think i dnt want dis relationship now...we fought fr an hour...and i asked him one last question on dat day..."do u loved me r not"...and he said "i luved u promise...but i dnt want dis" and he also said me dat he dnt know d reason fr dat...thn on oct 1 my frnd chatted with him abt this matter...nd he said hi to me and i asked him "do u luved me r not" he said no...i asked him thn why did u saw me in d class he replied dat doesnt mean dat i luv...and i asked him do u mind if i go with another relationship...he didnt reply fr 5 mins and said he may luv her aftr sometime or may not...and i said gud bye to him What i want to know is did he ever luved me r not? it is just killing me inside...i'm so depressed...and i tried to attempt suicide 1 time but i failed...wat should i do now...pls tel me

Please do not do anything stupid. Just concentrate on your studies and your own family and forget about him completely for now. If he needs you in his life he will come around. If not i am sure you will find someone who is more deserving..

Pls pls dont do anything stupid. Think about your parents what they will ho through if something happens to you..

Ps: what is scl and how old are you btw

Please don't do anything, which would hurt your family and near ones.

Thank u fr u r support i'm studying in 12th

Originally posted by: Niranjana98

Thank u fr u r support i'm studying in 12th

Originally posted by: Niranjana98

Thank u fr u r support i'm studying in 12th

you are really young.. just trust me on this... and let that guy go and concentrate on your studies and family... When you are older , you will actually sit and laugh that you ever made this post on an IF Forum and you really thought there was no way out other than taking your life... it will all look silly...

Just concentrate on what you are supposed to do. - study and be independent ...

Thank u so much guys...yes he doesn't deserve me...now i should think abt my parents and i should concentrate on my studies...

Hey dear.

Ok long time lurker. Just made an account to answer to you:

1) I was in school 10 years ago. I know you feel very passionately but trust me it's your hormones, scientifically proven via research. At that age even I felt things were "true love forever" type. Also Bollywood doesn't help by showing all this love at first sight crap.

2) Talking about Bollywood you want to know why the guy is behaving like that, he is a stupid man. The jealousy thing is because he sees you as a toy that he doesn't want but doesn't want anyone else to have. These sort of concepts have been spread thanks to Bollywood all movies of 90s have had the whole harassing and stalking a girl and her falling in love. Being jealous and her falling in love. Even in KRPKAB I was horrified to see how some girls on this forum thought it was totally acceptable for Dev to stalk Sonakshi cause he loved her. That sort of stuff leads to acid attacks and rape in this country when men get rejected. It is not romantic it is a stupid Bollywood re-enactment. Watch this it will cheer you up and highlight how even SRK and Salman have messed up this country for women through their roles in 90s movies. (can't post link, just search for Pretentious Reviews DDLJ by Kanan Gill on Youtube)

3) Why should you trust me when I say this? I am a female engineer. I have studied with a class filled with guys. I have worked in the middle of the ocean with a ratio of 1:100 guys. I know men really well. I have helped so many people date. All my close friends are men. I have been in a two very respectful and decent relationships. I have tonnes of guys in love with me and would be happy if I dated them. And you know what I am just an average looking girl. They like me because I am smart and educated and have confidence in myself. After my first high school crush going wrong I felt so useless. Now I know my self-worth. Be confident. Be brave. Love yourself. Don't let a loser make you want to end life. What about your family and friends. They loved you all the time and you will just leave them for some stupid guy.

4) Talking about education. It makes you independent. It makes you respected. It gives you the tools to show the world you are not a joke. Just look at Sona in this show. I love the show cause she says things I would to a guy and his family if I was treated like that. Today she could stand up to the saas bua and mami cause she can support herself and is educated. No one can bring her down. 12^th class will only come once. I too sacrificed seeing a guy who I dated for 5 yrs and proposed to me during 12^th until after my exams. I thought if he loves me he will wait until I finish. I have studied all my life why will I waste it today for a guy. My best friend instead spent too much time with her bf. Her studies were affected and she didn't get into a course she wanted. Think of it as a blessing that this guy is not in your life now in such an important year.

Take care of yourself.

Lots of love and hugs.

See even strangers on a forum care about you more than that idiotic guy. Don't do anything stupid for our sake.