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What a beautiful episode. Someone made a post about Tuesday being the best day for episodes and that was proven true once again...
Sona, my darling, let me give you a hug. You didn't hid your feelings and pain and cried in a corner. You stood against Dev and demanded your honour and your respect.
You asked him to be the husband you deserve before demanding husband's right.
He may not have understood your point right away. But he loves you, so he also got you.
As a result, today he stood up in your defence. He made people understand that he loved you exactly for being who you are - a strong, independent woman who will never live on crumbs.
No one is psychic. If you won't share your pain, how will anyone understand what you are going through? Even Dev's own mother didn't understand his pain of losing Sona until he got drunk and shared his pain.
So go ahead, Sona. Share your thoughts, pain, happiness, hopes and dreams with your best friend for life, your husband.
And Dev, when she shares her feelings, listen. Even if it's against your God. Keep your mind and eyes open and make sure that no one makes that girl feel uncomfortable or unwanted in her own husband's home.
You have a great role model in your in-laws. Look what a great marriage looks like where both partners are equal and they don't let anyone come between their relationship, nor let each other's honour and dignity questioned.
This is what I was talking about in my post this morning.
Link: http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4727254
P.S. Their apology scene should alone highlight what I wrote in my post.
Wow!!! I am probably a naive woman to think that the fact that I love my husband and he loves me, whether I am angry or upset or arguing or silent or at my very worst self, I will be loved regardless.
And if I have to keep my thoughts and pains to myself and have to hide how I am feeling, then what kind of love is this where honesty = love is gone? If I can't share my problems with my husband, then why I am married to him? I am not there only to share his problems and hiding my own.
He may not like what I am saying just like I am not liking what he is saying but NOTHING can make the love go away. Not from my heart and certainly not from his.
I should be able to say what I want, however want to my husband because he is MY HUSBAND. Half of my soul, half of my heart and half of my life.
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