Neha Or Sona.Who is more blessed in new commencement post marriage?

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: OmNaMaSteOm
I think that the only positive aspect of the show as of now - the difference in treatment of Neha post marriage and Sonakshi post marriage. Its a realization that money will not give you everything, intangible aspects like emotional, value, etc stuff are crucial to live a normal life.
Neha is receiving what Sonakshi wants to receive, Sonakshi would respect it but Neha is not being able to respect it.

In Sonakshi's case she will start respecting the family she once had. once her tolerance level has hit the roof.

Either way the makers have shown that Neha and Sonkashi are not happy post marriage!

Though we saw the drastic change in situations I am lost what the makers want to convey in all this mess they created.

👍🏼 This.

Soon she is going to regret like anything for never respecting her own family 😕. Specially when inlaws like Dixits will taunt 24x7 about her family, this is going to happen even sooner.

Let's see when Dev grows up

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SAPU

@SAPU

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Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Pehchaan.Kaun
In today's episode, Dev-Ishwari's love-story was really touchy, and their first night of separation made me cry😛Dev is gonna ditch Ishwari and go to his room with Sonakshi. I am extremely hurt for Dev-Ishwari💔

Neha is very unlucky to have a husband like Ranvir who not only compromised on his self-respect for his love, but also had a family convincing him to stay with his wife separately because the initial years are precious for a strong foundation. Mean Ranvirs😡. Also, Neha is very unfortunate that 2 kids spoiled her wedding night because of less space in a house, whereas Sona's first night is spoilt in one of the largest 'Forbes-lister' businessman's house with a grownup 60 yr old woman-child💔.

Wow...well said.

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anyafavjodi

@anyafavjodi

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Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Very Nice post. Neha is lucky, sad 4 sona

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Shilky88

@Shilky88

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Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: yyy
My answer to your question is both are lucky to have a loving and a caring husband .Both Ranveer and Dev have tried their best to balance their family and their wife .
Ranveer had to choose his mom's health over Neha's happiness and the same Ranveer promised a happy life on their first night but he couldn't do anything when their special night was interrupted by his family .Does that mean he loves Neha less than his niece and nephew ?

Coming to Dev, he agreed for non veg food for Sonakshi's family .He did not want them to compromise and even Dixit family agreed for Bengali wedding as they wanted Dev's happiness . Is Dev only to be blamed for this mess ? His intentions were right and his mistake was he was bending backwards to please his in laws without caring for his own family .

To some extent Sonakshi and her father are responsible for this mess as well. Sonakshi knows about Ishwari's food habits really well and she has seen their family very closely and i cannot understand how she was surprised to know Dixits are conservative family .Did she object when her immature siblings were demanding non veg food .

The whole issue happened due to lack of communication between two families and to certain extent Bijoy is responsible for this .His attitude was not encouraging the other family to have open communication .Like i said before it will be Sona who will face issues in her sasural because of Bijoy's attitude .

A son or daughter will not stopping loving her parents the day she gets married .I cannot understand what's wrong if Dev expressed his love for his mom .A mom and a wife has different place in a man's life .They cannot replace each other .Will Sona stop loving her Baba just because she is now married

If Sona was not important to him then he would not have agreed for non veg food .He went against his mom's wishes of having veg food on his wedding .Action speaks louder than words .

A question came to my mind ...Is Ranveer more blessed than Dev . Neha was more sensible than Sonakshi on their wedding night .Neha did not create a scene when the kids interrupted them and she understood Ranveer's dilemma whereas Sonakshi could not understand Dev's intention .

Thanks for your reply.I agree to most of things but here I go with my thoughts.

My answer to your question is both are lucky to have a loving and a caring husband .Both Ranveer and Dev have tried their best to balance their family and their wife .

I guess this is one of the perks of love marriage, no matter what your husband loves you !

Ranveer had to choose his mom's health over Neha's happiness and the same Ranveer promised a happy life on their first night but he couldn't do anything when their special night was interrupted by his family .Does that mean he loves Neha less than his niece and nephew ?

Right. That doesn't make Ranveer's love for Neha any any lesser. Here Ranveer is completely helpless.

I will anyways not complete a child's act of innocence with fully grown 60 yrs old Childlike ladies.

Coming to Dev, he agreed for non veg food for Sonakshi's family .He did not want them to compromise and even Dixit family agreed for Bengali wedding as they wanted Dev's happiness . Is Dev only to be blamed for this mess ? His intentions were right and his mistake was he was bending backwards to please his in laws without caring for his own family .

His intentions have never been wrong. I just felt that he forgot his own family while trying to please Bose family. Since he had to do a lot of effort to get Sona back into his life, he just wanted to have Sona in his life by hook or by crook. In a rush to get married to Sona , he took decisions in haste and ending up hurting his own family and making Bose family and Sona a culprit due to Non-veg issues unknowingly.

To some extent Sonakshi and her father are responsible for this mess as well. Sonakshi knows about Ishwari's food habits really well and she has seen their family very closely and i cannot understand how she was surprised to know Dixits are conservative family .Did she object when her immature siblings were demanding non veg food .

The whole issue happened due to lack of communication between two families and to certain extent Bijoy is responsible for this .His attitude was not encouraging the other family to have open communication .Like i said before it will be Sona who will face issues in her sasural because of Bijoy's attitude .

Talking of Bijoy.I agree that he was tad bit rude and blunt after this all break -up /patch -up thing.

But look at a father's angle. He needed his own sweet time to understand Dixit family which he dint get. He had to forcefully get her daughter married to Dixits within 10 days as against 6 months .

He was never in a mood to rush things and was being extremely vigilant this time. Considering what has happened to his daughter and his family due to Dixits , he cannot be sweet and pleasing anymore. We have seen him dealing with Ritwik's family also. He used to be nice to them even after they spoke bad things to him after engagement drama. When he knew he was at fault(in case of Ritwik), he was all guilty and pleading. But when he knew he was not at fault(in case of Dixits) was cheated and betrayed ,he has full rights to express his annoyance and displeasure.

A son or daughter will not stopping loving her parents the day she gets married .I cannot understand what's wrong if Dev expressed his love for his mom .A mom and a wife has different place in a man's life .They cannot replace each other .Will Sona stop loving her Baba just because she is now married

Agreed.

The whole thing of Dev and Ishu being Vocal about their love for each other makes it bit exasperating.I have never seen anyone being really out an loud about their personal relations. If you love someone ,it clearly shows in your behavior, no need to publicize it.Sometimes I feel Dev and Ishu are telling,reminding and convincing each other of their love by doing so.still I am not unable to understand their love..😕

If Sona was not important to him then he would not have agreed for non veg food .He went against his mom's wishes of having veg food on his wedding .Action speaks louder than words .

A question came to my mind ...Is Ranveer more blessed than Dev . Neha was more sensible than Sonakshi on their wedding night .Neha did not create a scene when the kids interrupted them and she understood Ranveer's dilemma whereas Sonakshi could not understand Dev's intention .

I am sorry ..but I seriously disapprove here.

Sona has been sensible all her life specially when it comes to dealing with people like GKB and Ishwari. Many times we have seen her dealing with such taunting and condemnation by GKB and Ishwari with full of grace and dignity, never saying a single word to Dev.

But this time, C'mom It her wedding after all. She deserves to be happy at least on that day. Most they can do is keep her distracted from these perfection/imperfection, auspicious/inauspicious, Riti/riwaz until the day is over. She deserves to feel special that day. Dixits spoiled the day big time.They seem to take pleasure in pointing out everything she has done wrong unknowingly. and it also shows their reluctance to this new relationship.

Just my thoughts and POV.No intentions to hurt anyone😊

Edited by Shilky88 - 8 years ago