See I respect your viewpoint...but still I would like to say something on my behalf...or what I fell!!!
About Anika not leaving her job-Then I would like to say that after Anika has joined as his wedding planner...shivay has been rude to her only once...that is when he thought that she is the one planning the attacks...and then Anika had already left her job and again Shivay had gone to her house and dadi had asked for forgiveness and had asked her to return ...and only then did she return!!! Rest all the times he had only been irritated with her!! Whatever Shivay had told his brothers this time has not come to her ears...which has been cleared by SC on some social site!! And as far her job is concerned...then let me remind you that she also gets the love of family from here...which she has accepted before Shivay as well as OmRu and Prinku!!! She has herself heard Shivay telling some outsiders that she is his family!!! For a girl who has yearned for this throughout life...is good enough a reason to not leave her job!!! Trust me it happens in real life also!!!
Then OmRu being used as props...no they are not understand...their brother is at crisis this moment...there's no other way for the eldest one to save the honour of the family...rather than sacrificing himself!!!! Do you think that rather than helping him out...being in full support with him...they would just think about their love stories!!! c'mmon which brothers will do that???? the answer is none!!! Similar is the case here!!! and I am sure when OmRu will go through their own crisis...Shivay will be there for them in a similar way...probably with Anika by his side!!!!
And yesss for Tia i felt bad when he left her at mandap!!! but then wasn't she also marrying him in a wrong way only...she also had blackmailed him into this marriage...just because he is a boy...this is not done!!! Imagine if shivay ould have done the same with anika...or who knows might blackmail her for marriage keeping some condition before...whose side would you have taken???? If then anika would have fulffiled his condition and left him at mandap...whose side would you have taken then??? Anika right!!!! Then why can't we take Shivay's side for a change here????
And then again Tia's reaction did confuse me...but only till rudra was not there in the picture!!! once he came...One line he said...that it's a deal and not love...and boom!!!! All confusions got cleared!!! Ofcourse why would she be unhappy...it's not like that the deal has been called off...it's not like Shivay has got married to someone else...the deal is still on!!! Shivay is still a bachelor!!!! Even she doesn't dream of living a happy life with Shivay!!
And as for Anika and all family members dancing after the wedding was called off...then... I actually did not see Anika dancing at all...she felt bad and said it to OmRu...and only after she got the assurance that what she has done was right...did she return to her normal self!!! for she knew coming it from the closest people of Shivay...she has nothing to worry about now!!! Rudra was the only one who felt like dancing...and he was immediately stopped by Om!!! Pinky was equally tensed about Tia's mom!! and Jhanvi was just relived that the marriage did not happen this way...for she was always against it!!! but that did not mean she wanted to dance!!! She even did not have any problem even when Pinky said she will declare the next date for marriage soon!!!