28.9.2016 ep - Page 2

Originally posted by: mayasundar

Viji,

I have a question for you if Raman changed the name in the birth certificate to Ishita name Shagun has one which has her name on it so which will be considered as the original certificate generally the latest changed one will be considered as the original certificate because there might be a slight change in spelling but here that is not the case it has entirely different name so which one will be considered as the original birth certificate?

Originally posted by: Mreddy

Loved the reviews @Maya and Viji. I stil have a hope that maybe the realization will happen and then I will go back and watch these episodes.

\I posted this on another thread...copying it here..I felt that everyone in both the families truly didn't comprehend the depth and magnitude of Ishita's loss that night. She was left alone with no one to take care for her..This loss of Pihu's childhood also is very painful for Ishita but she doesnt blame it on Raman or anyone else..she know it is her mistake that she missed all this because she didn't have the courage to come and face Raman with Ruhi gone.

Baanj word from someone who is your world destroyed Ishita..she did not care for the baanj tag ever since Ruhi called her Ishima. This was Raman's fixation of giving Ishita her ansh and it did not pan out the way he wanted..His BC blunder sealed her as a baanj forever and her friend Mani played only a small part. In fact Shagun didnt even count on his support for the custody case. Raman keeps saying it was her one child who will remove the tag etc, but Adi and Ruhi had removed the tag in Ishita's mind long time back except in Raman's mind. He says they are your kids and all that but I think subconciously he considers Pihu as truly Ishita's kid..this soch brought about the surrogacy kaand. Old RKB would own up to his mistakes and rectify and fell in love with the flawed moral character, but this RKB has a very convenient amnesia and always ready to blame others than accepting his mistakes. As a father feel bad, but surprised that Pihu is not shown missing her papa and family or is that she feels entiltled like Shagun does that they should love her no matter what. She seems self absorbed and materialistic like Adi was before the change.

Raman is assuming that Ishita left him and Ishita also is not sharing anything with him..but shouldn't he ask atleast once as to what happened to her and why she left..he is thinking it was because of the guilt of losing Ruhi...how can he assume that she faked her suicide, she was never a coward before.. Maybe Ishita is not sharing because she is ashamed of the fact she gave up and realized her mistakes and wants to forget about the act and not add to Raman's guilt. He cannot be blamed for her suicide, but it was his words that put her at the cliff's edge, and no one from both the families was there to care for her..they all went behind Raman, did they think his pain is more because he is the biological parent..or did they think Raman being the volatile emotional person, they need to care for him..but did they even imagine the magnitude of Ishita's loss that night...Just the realization/talk of his/her blunders would go a long way in making this show watchable again. If he thinks Pihu is the ansh, he had no right in keeping Pihu away from the Iyers if she was the nishaani of Ishita..It keeps repeating, his pain, feeling, hurt take precedence over what is the right thing to do..Without Ishita he seems to loose his way..RKB was better off without Shagun and Ishita in his life...he was suave, sophisticated, smart, brainy...gave back to Shagun but didn't know how to express love to anyone. If he has love all the other qualities seem to disappear..loans it to Shagun

Hope Pihu somehow turns out to be Ashok/Shagun's kid but calls Raman papa. This would be a nice slap for Ashok when he made Adi call him dad...Shagun looked good with Ashok.

Originally posted by: Mreddy

Loved the reviews @Maya and Viji. I stil have a hope that maybe the realization will happen and then I will go back and watch these episodes.

\I posted this on another thread...copying it here..I felt that everyone in both the families truly didn't comprehend the depth and magnitude of Ishita's loss that night. She was left alone with no one to take care for her..This loss of Pihu's childhood also is very painful for Ishita but she doesnt blame it on Raman or anyone else..she know it is her mistake that she missed all this because she didn't have the courage to come and face Raman with Ruhi gone.

Baanj word from someone who is your world destroyed Ishita..she did not care for the baanj tag ever since Ruhi called her Ishima. This was Raman's fixation of giving Ishita her ansh and it did not pan out the way he wanted..His BC blunder sealed her as a baanj forever and her friend Mani played only a small part. In fact Shagun didnt even count on his support for the custody case. Raman keeps saying it was her one child who will remove the tag etc, but Adi and Ruhi had removed the tag in Ishita's mind long time back except in Raman's mind. He says they are your kids and all that but I think subconciously he considers Pihu as truly Ishita's kid..this soch brought about the surrogacy kaand. Old RKB would own up to his mistakes and rectify and fell in love with the flawed moral character, but this RKB has a very convenient amnesia and always ready to blame others than accepting his mistakes. As a father feel bad, but surprised that Pihu is not shown missing her papa and family or is that she feels entiltled like Shagun does that they should love her no matter what. She seems self absorbed and materialistic like Adi was before the change.

Raman is assuming that Ishita left him and Ishita also is not sharing anything with him..but shouldn't he ask atleast once as to what happened to her and why she left..he is thinking it was because of the guilt of losing Ruhi...how can he assume that she faked her suicide, she was never a coward before.. Maybe Ishita is not sharing because she is ashamed of the fact she gave up and realized her mistakes and wants to forget about the act and not add to Raman's guilt. He cannot be blamed for her suicide, but it was his words that put her at the cliff's edge, and no one from both the families was there to care for her..they all went behind Raman, did they think his pain is more because he is the biological parent..or did they think Raman being the volatile emotional person, they need to care for him..but did they even imagine the magnitude of Ishita's loss that night...Just the realization/talk of his/her blunders would go a long way in making this show watchable again. If he thinks Pihu is the ansh, he had no right in keeping Pihu away from the Iyers if she was the nishaani of Ishita..It keeps repeating, his pain, feeling, hurt take precedence over what is the right thing to do..Without Ishita he seems to loose his way..RKB was better off without Shagun and Ishita in his life...he was suave, sophisticated, smart, brainy...gave back to Shagun but didn't know how to express love to anyone. If he has love all the other qualities seem to disappear..loans it to Shagun

Hope Pihu somehow turns out to be Ashok/Shagun's kid but calls Raman papa. This would be a nice slap for Ashok when he made Adi call him dad...Shagun looked good with Ashok.

Originally posted by: Mdwst

HI maya

Spelling errors can be rectified.you are absolutely right.

But to change the name itself...he can take legal route, lawyers, court's decision. dont know of its even feasible...Shagun has the permanent custody. ...if he's fighting for custody...as I said before...surrigacy and DNA reports are mandatory.

As far as I know it's permanent ...but Indian laws...no idea...

Originally posted by: Mdwst

@ Maya good review.

As you pointed...I felt bad for him as a father...but his very next lines..put me off.

Originally posted by: Mdwst

HI maya

Spelling errors can be rectified.you are absolutely right.

But to change the name itself...he can take legal route, lawyers, court's decision. dont know of its even feasible...Shagun has the permanent custody. ...if he's fighting for custody...as I said before...surrigacy and DNA reports are mandatory.

As far as I know it's permanent ...but Indian laws...no idea...