Do you believe in 'Pyaar Dosti Hai'?

Hey!

So, in line with the flavour of the season, I thought I would ask you guys if you believe in 'pyaar dosti hai'.

Do you think friendship is the basis for love?

Can platonic feelings and romantic feelings exist side by side?

Has this ever happened to you? Or is it something you can't visualize?

Is it inevitable that a friendship will die once love is established? 'Pyaar junoon hai and dosti sukoon hai'?

After watching the ADHM trailer, do you guys think this concept is dated?

I dont know about pyaar dosti hai but I believe in friends with benefits.

Clarity - I don't believe in Pyaar dosti hai at all !!!

Originally posted by: Skybully

I dont know about pyaar dosti hai but I believe in friends with benefits.

Haan, toh lust dosti hai then? 😆

Yes I do. I've seen dosti change into pyaar too many times to not believe it. People start out as friends and fall in love. After that pyaar and dosti exist side by side. I've heard many people say...my wife/husband/BF/GF is my best friend. Hota hai.

I hate this idea. Friendship is a very pure platonic relation and having romantic throughts for ur friend shows u a weak character. Someone who gets used to the comfort zone.

Love should be fierce,exciting, new .. it shouldnt be out of a comfort zone. It should be with someone who challanges you .. blows your mind .. someone who is NOT ur friend .. yes u can achieve a comfort level afterwards to be able to share everything but the first instinct with the love of ur life CANNOT be friendship!

Originally posted by: Ranbirrocks

Clarity - I don't believe in Pyaar dosti hai at all !!!

I have studied with mostly boys, hung around with them as one of the boys, still my besties are more boys and less girls.

We all do lot of harmless flirting, but it never gets anywhere.

It never happens IRL. Your BF can become your friend, but your friend can't become your BF.

@bold- Oho, what a line, RR. Kya baat boli hai.

Yes, I think some romantic chemistry has to be there for love to happen. What do you think of AyaZeh's dynamic?

So, you think there has to be some romantic chemistry beforehand, otherwise it's not happening, huh ?

I think Rahul-Anjali in KKHH were so forced, in this department. It was like they were different people in the two halves of the movie.

Originally posted by: Fantasia.

I hate this idea. Friendship is a very pure platanoic relation and having romantic throughts for ur friend shows u a weak character. Someone who gets used to the confort zone.

Love should be fierce,exciting, new .. it shouldnt be out of a comfort zone. It should be with someone who challanges you .. blows your mind .. someone who is NOT ur friend .. yes u can achieve a comfort level afterwards to be able to share everything but the first instinct with the love of ur life CANNOT be friendship!

Quite an interesting viewpoint.

What are the qualities of a lover vs a friend, aside from the obvious?