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Posted: 9 years ago
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MAN 1 living his life...

-studies completed...
-gr8 business...
-stable environemnt... professional n personal...
-didnt got his love in life bcz she loved sumone else..
-bt didnt got any dhokha...
-carries responsibility of relativs kids as own...

WHY wud such a person b ANGRY or BLAME anyone whn none did any wrong wid him or his family, watevr it b is normal nthin devastating..??


MAN 2...

-normal childhood
-studies completed..
-decent job n he is satisfied
-falls in love n gets his love n marries her
-a decent married life for a few yrs
-has a son wid her...
-also has a daughter...
-suddenly wife leaves him heartbroken
-his wife betryaed him by having affair wid a rich man n went to him wid her child
-his wife took son n left d 6month daughter wid him...
-man broketotally n lost his wife n son
-he suffered at a young age in mid-twenties..an age to enjoy wid family n frnds..
-lives in dat pain n frustration for long 6yrs
-his life is abnormal nw as he loves his daughter bt cant show as she reminds of his wife's betrayal
-aftr long 6yrs he got a chance n a new woman in life
-she came n filled his n his daughter's life wid happiness
-slowly both man n new woman became parents n also finally loveers..
-he got a true lover in her n ws happy wid her..
-bt he stil craved for his son..
-sumhw he got his son bt aftr lots of struggles wich he faced wid his wife support..
-nw d couple wid 2 kids had a wonderful life..
-suddently one day due to unavoidable reasons his daughter died..
-n as per him his wife ws reason for dat..
-he pushed her to death by insulting her
-finally she committed suicide n left him..
-again he ws alone wid wife n daughter dead..
-again became a pain n broken man... had d new born daughter n son
-daughter who is last symbol of his wife whom he insulted n so she left him..
-he ws in guilt n didnt had courage to face it..
-suddenly aftr 7yrs cums to knw his wife is alive n lived wid anothr man her gr8 frnd...
-he ws happy bt also broken as for him she left n went to his frnd..
-slowly evrythng got in plae n got back his dead daughter n also his wife in life..
-n story goes on..


MAN 1

-had quite a decent life
-sacrificed his life n legs for hie gr8 frnd.. childhood frnd..
-he n his frnd lived for 7yrs n supported each other as true frnds..
-he knew her pain more dn anyone else..
-he had got rejected by his frnd only bt never held grudges for her..
-n dn sumhw his frnd got her lost life.. his family back..
-he ws happy for her bt also upset..
-suddenly one day sum mishap hapnd wid his daughter(whom he brought up nt birthed)
-nt once bt twice she ws inproblem..
-n he jst outraged n questioned love of his true frnd for his daughter..
-frnd had mothered d daughter for 7yrs..
-whn his daughter in danger, he too insulted his frnd whom he claims to love n understand...

N here cums d TWIST..

he became IMPULSIVE ANGRY N BLAMED her...bt he had evrytym LECTURE HIS FRND's HUSBAND TO REACT IN ANGER N THINK BOUT HI KIDS ONLY N NT BOUT OW N WIFE/his FRND..


CRUX is...

A person wid decent life vl hv nthin to show anger on bt once even a situatn cums, he also looses it...
A person who had suffered al his life n had lost his temprs vry frequently bcz of his sufferings...

So, EVEYONE LOOSES WHEN IN PAIN HEARTBROKEN...

I guess i dnt need to point out any character in show YHM... D description is pretty CRYSTAL CLEAR...

Guys gv ur views...


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svati12 thumbnail
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sorry if i didnt made sense..

bt dese r my views...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang on Swati a much needed post
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang on. It's easy to preach but so tough to follow. You can't expect all mushy mushy things from a person who's both heartbroken and betrayed time and again.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Perfect post swati n much needed one..

I mentioned same in my comments..mani ws calm composed understanding handling sutuation not impulsively jst bcs he nvr faced the prblms wat ramn faced n still facing..there is a lot difference ..infect there is no comparison wat raman has gone thraugh mani cant even think of..its so easy to lecture others bt so difficult to follow..
And mani faced prbkms only two times n he showed how saint he is as he claimed..
He nvr thaught twice before questioning ishita's motherhood her friendship he asked her to choose btwn adi aliya ...raman still supporting both kids wen his own child is in danger
The worst is coming ..
He is gonna snatch the child from ishita for whom she yearned for whole life her own kid n he ws witness ..she shared her weakness with him he is paying back in his own style..
Suddenly shagun is best mother no one can love pihu like ishita ...
Atleast raman nvr back stabbled anyone like this ...
Thats y he is worst than raman ...he is doing the same ashok used to do..snatch ishra kid to hurt them..!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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very nicely put swati
It is easier to preach than to practice
bt one thing i want to say,come whatever reason be Raman's behavior preleap and postleap is unacceptable as well as mani's current behavior.
under no circumstances people have the right to insult women and her motherhood which both mani and raman have done
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hello
I hope u r fine

Good post
But i want to add one thing
Man 2 his wife left him but not completely
She always tried to destroy him
She taunted him
She insulted him always
She tried to snatch his son his daughter hus every happiness from him


2nd thing man 1 is all alone here
Yes he has two kids
But their lives were sorted till now
But man 2 is with a big family with complicated lives
He always treats his siblings as his kids
He has responsibility of a big family
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Good thoughts😊
Forget about friendship, love everything. Just because he's angry with the family about his daughter, how can he just say that ishita doesn't deserve pihu?
No one other than himself knew ishita's pain last seven years, still he supported the idea of separating pihu and ishita.
And some may support him that he's standing by his wife, what if she asks him to leave alia and nirvan . Will he stand with her then? He needs his children but others don't. More than ishra no one knows the value of children,because they struggled enough to get them.
Raman shouted at ishita with unnecessary words when rrruhi died. He may be butchered but it was shown that's how he behaves in sorrow
Well some may feel like mani got butchered but I think it's how he behaves when it's come to his children and when he's in blind love.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Perfect post swati šŸ‘
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Originally posted by: kingmanu

Good thoughts😊

Forget about friendship, love everything. Just because he's angry with the family about his daughter, how can he just say that ishita doesn't deserve pihu?
No one other than himself knew ishita's pain last seven years, still he supported the idea of separating pihu and ishita.
And some may support him that he's standing by his wife, what if she asks him to leave alia and nirvan . Will he stand with her then? He needs his children but others don't. More than ishra no one knows the value of children,because they struggled enough to get them.
Raman shouted at ishita with unnecessary words when rrruhi died. He may be butchered but it was shown that's how he behaves in sorrow
Well some may feel like mani got butchered but I think it's how he behaves when it's come to his children and when he's in blind love.


@bold ..and that sums it up..I don't think mani was butchered in the current track too..his marriage to shagun was contrived and nonsensical but his behavior today and in the subsequent court drama is exactly how he has been as a character. ..
The first time when aliya mistakenly accused adi in the molestation case too mani asked ishita to choose sides ..and he immediately disowned her as Aliya's mother figure...at that time ishuta wasn't even 'ishita bhalla' as he called her yesterday..she was the woman who had stayed and nursed him back to health and taken care of his foster children as her own...all that ended in a split second he realised that the other child was adi...that day too he woukd have beaten up adi without a second thought of 'what if he is innocent'..won't thus kids future be affected too...nope..he was his own judge and he believed in delivering justice as per what he thought right..even if it meant not trusting the judgement if his best friend and confidante ..rather not respecting her views or her relationship to aliya. .
What he has done now is just an extension of this behavior. ..

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