MAN 1 vs MAN 2 - Page 4

Originally posted by: RightWingTroll

Good post swati

Mani has always been backstabber type who does not really thinks about friend happiness

He nearly broke friends marriage first time

He backstabbed her directly this time despite seeing what he had seen for 7 years

Grt N much needed post.
I think all points r covered but I have a one point in mind since yesterday wen I read that Mani fulfill his duty as husband by supporting shagun in custody or in the court marriage drama regarding ishu kidnapping.

Mani fulfilled his duty but forgot friendship N trust on ishu even though he is not in love with Shagun and she don't have a clean past.
But ISHITA always side by him even she was married and top of that loved/loves her husband she never placed Mani as outsider or take a route to hurt him even when he said about marrying RAMAN is a bad deal for her she just filled him with right information and told her trust on her husband.
She didn't think about her husband and supported her friend wen her husband doubt on her relationship with her friend and don't let her husband insult her friend.
She even ignored her husband unintentionally for her friend and always think about his good wen Mani marriage proposal brought by pammi aunty she didn't think what her MIL will say if she reject the proposal but she stand for right side and thought about girl request and Mani future,
She always put her friendship in another place and love in another ,she didn't Mixed both and never try to ignore friendship
So is that mean ISHITA is not a good wife and not value her marriage vows?
Is Mani is the only person who got married and take a oath to protect his wife?
Why only Mani ditch the friendship and make his marriage a top priority
Why ISHITA never did the same thing to mani ?
Is there different standards for friendship for men and women?
Or is there different standards for filling marriage duty for men and women???

Is ISHITA not proved to be a better friend than Mani.

I know the post is about RAMAN and Mani but I wanted to vent it out how Mani failed as a friend and ISHITA always there for him even he loved her which she don't reciprocate but she knew this friendship is precious for her so she gave Mani a chance by not breaking their friendship But for Mani his new found love become more precious and his backstabbing her best friend is a "Dhabba" on friendship.

ISHITA proved as a better person.
And about RAMAN yes he is always better than Mani

Originally posted by: ishitaruhi

Grt N much needed post.
I think all points r covered but I have a one point in mind since yesterday wen I read that Mani fulfill his duty as husband by supporting shagun in custody or in the court marriage drama regarding ishu kidnapping.

Mani fulfilled his duty but forgot friendship N trust on ishu even though he is not in love with Shagun and she don't a clean past.
But ISHITA always side by him even she was married and top of of that loves her husband she never placed Mani as outsider or take a route to hurt him even when he said about marrying RAMAN is bad deal for her she just filled him with right information and told her trust on her husband.
She didn't think about her husband and supported his friend wen her husband doubt on her relationship with her friend and don't let her husband insult his friend.
She even ignored her husband unintentionally for her friend and always think about his good wen Mani marriage proposal brought by pammi aunty she didn't think what her MIL will say if she reject the proposal but she stand for right side and thought about girl request and Mani future,
She always put her friendship in another place and love in another ,she didn't Mixed both and never try to ignore friendship
So is that mean ISHITA is not a good wife and not value her marriage vows?
Is Mani is the only person who got married and take a oath to protect his wife?
Why only Mani ditch the friendship and make his marriage a top priority
Why ISHITA never did the same thing to mani ?
Is there different standards for friendship for men and women?
Or is there different standards for filling marriage duty for men and women???

Is ISHITA not proved to be a better friend than Mani.

I know the post is about RAMAN and Mani but I wanted to vent it out how Mani failed as a friend and ISHITA always there for him even he loved her which she don't reciprocate but she knew this friendship is precious for her so she gave Mani a chance by not breaking their friendship But for Mani his new found love become more precious and his backstabbing her best friend is a "Dhabba" on friendship.

ISHITA proved as a better person.
And about RAMAN yes he is always better than Mani

Originally posted by: swatica

U knw wat u said...answere is..

a perfect person is onw who tries to manage both spouse n a BEST frnd same tym..

n as a FRIEND he FAILED MISERABLY...

bt u can say ishita kind off tried to balance n managed both quite well..

whn it ws boout frnd n husband..

she ws dere as both...

anothr thing dats out of topic..

ishita kind off failed as a mother whn she left adi n pihu in trauma n guilt of ruhi's death n also raman's words... n also whn she ws away for 7yrs..

she also failed as a daughter to her parents for d same reason she left n let dem think dat she is dead...

Yes she failed as mother and daughter coz she choose to stay away and didn't inform about her survival.I will always have a complaint regarding that but as friend she is better.

Originally posted by: swatica

POONAM...

Like people say for raman...

he vl choose KIDSoverISHITA..

so hw is MANI different here..

n on top of it MANI knew ishita n also knew wat she felt in dese yrs...

bt suddenly al went to drains..

ISHITA's trust in MANI ws strong dat nw i dnt think she cud ever trust him again...

ISHRA confrontation can stil set things for dem... though it vl stil never b same as pre-leap..

bcz RUHI DIED...

bt

ISHITA-MANI frndship can never b as strong as b4 watevr happens...dere vl alwys b a long bridge between dem...

Lyk i ws disappointed wid RAMAN's words...

IM disappointed wid MANI's behaviour too..

and one more thing this time raman not choosing his kid over ishita wen his kid wants to b with shagun n ready yo leave him if he stay with ishita stil hd is with ishita ..he always make amends n choose right path top he did the same at the time of adi..

Agree ishita mani friendship wont b same even if mani realiases his mistake n apologize..

Lovely analysis swati

Originally posted by: swatica

@MAYA...

I didnt wanted to compare MANI n RAMAN..

bt it ws jst dat i had sum tym back found a constant rants

-MANI IS SUITABLE FOR ISHITA...

-MANI IS BETTER DN RAMAN..

n so on..

N nw whn person who ws supposed to b so perfect cums up wid sumthng lyk wat he did made me to make ds thread...

AS i mentioned both never had similar or even near situtans..

so obvio dere way of handling can nevr b similar..

I agree wid u dat MANI IS BEYOND REDEMPTION..

bt u knw wat seems next for me...

CVs vl redeem him for ishita by making her accept dat it ws her fault dat he made him marry to person lyk shagun n so he cannot b blamed n he jst did his part of a perfect husband..

bt u knw a perfect person is onw who tries to manage both wife n a BEST frnd same tym..

n as a FRIEND he FAILED MISERABLY...

I don't support Mani in this act, but he always did have a bad opinion of Raman or Bhallas. May be in his own way he thought Pihu is better off with him and Shagun. Or may be got Shagunified and Raman is getting de-Shagunified.