self respect or others' opinions of you?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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suman refused to receive any monetary contribution from shravan as she was worried what people might say about her and her family...but self respect is SELF respect,right?why will others' opinions tell suman if she should respect herself?she should have her own idea of self respect.
I am trying to understand her...but I don't think she is honest to shravan or even herself...she says she values shravan's family's emotions but the same value she thinks she should give to her family too..but I don't think she values both families equally..isn't she valuing shravan's family only through words and not actions? she isn't even trying to or even think of compromising.
I believe that a wedding is primarily of the bride and groom and it would be really nice if the fathers,mothers,uncles,aunts,grandparents could keep their wishes,desires and dreams to themselves..so if suman has not much value for shravan's family's desires I will understand that too..but she should be honest about it.Why this pretence of valuing when she actually has no value?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I thinks since childhood she has been depending of others for money, let it be education or other expenses and her Mami shows it off also, she feels not using other's money is self respect... that's all...

Even i felt the way she behaves, she just values tiwaris and can do anything stupid for them, but she actually does not even try and understand anything from mahotra:s point of view...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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^^oh yes that makes sense..this is why she is touchy about money related issues..she even tried to discourage her family from spending much on her wedding..toh shravan ki family ke paise toh bilkul nahi legi😆
so what should be the solution in such a case? I haven't watched this show much..but is it that they only keep fighting and misunderstanding each other without trying to make any effort to understand or compromise?
if shravan could understand why she is so touchy then may be he could try making her understand too.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sumo has made mockery of self respect...but the best part is now that they are officially married...let them...fight and fight and make up...chalo shaadi ho gayi...agar shravan itna fast act nahi karta toh shaadi bhi doubtful hoti

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