Originally posted by: Anisha_anitan
This friendship has lasted more than 12 years. She isnt taking advantage of it. From 2008-2013 AH never did any maya shows.
Ps would like to know your definition of what long means.
In any relationship it could be either you are truly loving it or it just based on something that you want to be beneficial from it. In this case if you really see it from outsider pov not just from a fan of anita whom would be praised her no matter what she did, you can see she is indulging herself in this relationship of bff. You want me to recall the unnecessary thing she has in this serials instead of the leads, you want me to state how an image of infertile woman being tarnishes and crappy surrogacy track being introduced just for her, you want me to show how this serials involved everything with shagun which really oppose with what is originated from the novel if you happen to read it.
Ohh, by the way if you think she did not do any maya shows previously then i will ask you back why she did not try her hand in other show when a lot of fans requesting her character to be toned down in yhm? Or why not she became the lead of other maya show since her character in yhm seems unnecessary anymore. Instead of that, people willing to sacrifice the pure yhm story just for unnecessary characters.
I'm not type of person who will twist my word into sugary coated just to defense something is obviously wrong. By the way, in this case of taking advantages of relationship it just not apply to her only, somebody else also trying their hands in this thing.
For your inquiry, my definition of long in relationship included past, present and future timeline. If you feel that 12 years is lasted long enougj well then i want to know back, does this relationship strong enough to fight for future? You will never know it.. like i said we should know our boundaries of being in relationship, personal and professional, please define them for me.
I' m a surgeon by profession, i exactly knew those two terms. I give you example, my dad is one of those private hospital owner, did i ever crave for his sympathy to pass any examination just to be certified as qualified surgeon, did i ever ask from him to change entire board of directors just to make me fit in it. Did i ever used the reason of hom being my father and bff to indulge myself in this opportunity?? NO, i start from bottom, i picked up my piece of life that shattered which you did not know the real reason which i did shares it in this forum, i felt that there is limit in this relationship, yes he is my father at first but now he is my boss, my mentor as surgeon. I did respect that boundary, i just cant take advantage out of it
I'm a preacher with the topic of nepotism since i am so annoyed with it not just with people practicing it. As long as this thing keep happening, there is no fair world for us. Call me anything, preacher, lecture machine, hater or stranger that only know how to point out people's mistake but i felt the urge to vomit it, apology in advance if i offended you.
Peace,
Mafaz
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